Saturday 18 June 2011

Why does a submissive become insubordinate?

Why does a submissive become insubordinate?  There can be several reasons some subconscious, and some deliberate.  Here are some reasons for the insubordination.   

  • If their previous idea of submission was the “do me while I’m helpless’ approach, he may be acting up in dissatisfaction for not getting enough scenes.
  • He may be trying to hang on to the last vestige of perceived freedom; demonstrating that he isn’t really out of control.
  • He may be testing you by failing to perform just to see if you’ll notice.  Males sometimes want to know that you’re still interested, still paying attention, and still an active participant in the power exchange.  He may be trying to force you to react.
  • It may be the infamous rebound time; The first 24 hours after his last orgasm.  This is the time when his concentration and dedication to you may slip, since his desire is diminished due to lack of sexual build up.  He may not even realise he is doing it.

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