Last Meal with Kink Guests - 26/11/14

Wednesday night, our interstate visitors Ms L (FemDom) and SF (her submissive) live in a FLR came back to Hobart for a quick catch up prior to their departure back to Canberra the next day.

We arranged to have a meal in Lindisfarne.

Ms L, SF, slave mani and sub bill and myself met at 7.00pm.  It was such a lovely venue.  And the service was very good.  Our waiter was so accommodating it took us by surprise momentarily as he was so "helpful".  Ms L said he'd look better on his knees serving, and we all chuckled.

We chatted non-stop for 2 hours about a variety of subjects.  It was one of the best group conversations I have had in a long while.  Stimulation plus.  We chatted about Zombies through to MONA through to Kink.

My steak was rather glorious as well, and I even went for a dessert - A trio of Sorbets.  Noice!

Ourevening finished up about 9.15pm.  slave mani and I following Ms L and SF to their lovely accommodation in Risdon.  Impressive B&B.  They had a few things to give us since they didn't have room in their cases.

slave mani drove me home, picked up his washing and left for his abode.

Let me say, I slept extremely well from being around wonderful people and enjoying the terrific meal and drinks at the Hotel.

Northern munch - 23/11/14

Well off I drove up to Launceston taking my slave mani, and two other kinksters for the northern munch.  We arrived in Launnie at 11.15am.  A very warm day.

Everyone started arriving soon after. There were about 25 of us who attended a lovely spot at Rosevear.  Very picturesque.

Party games were enjoyed on the bus - kinky games - lots of laughter and shouting.  I watched and smiled as everyone got into the spirit of it.

We arrived at our destination.  Chatted, ordered our food and drink and socialised.  It was absolutely lovely to observe a cohesive community amongst the northern kinksters.  Pity our southern lot weren't as social.  Many are but some are resistant and toxic.

slave mani enjoyed his time chatting with others.

Many of us wore hats and there was even a Hat competition.  The judge was one of the pub staff.  He was amusing.

We departed the venue about 3.45pm, kissed and hugged those who were travelling by car and jumped on the bus again.  Hooray for internet connection again.

slave mani and I shared the driving and drove back to Hobart - arriving about 6.30pm.  The other two kinksters remained in Launnie to scene with others.

slave mani was introduced to the family and enjoyed a meal with us all.

A nice day, albeit it long due to the car travelling.  No more northern trips for a while... well except for Christmas time.

Another Kinky Munch over and done with.

Bless the Kinky Folk!!

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21/11/14

Good morning
Its Friday.
I'm home, in bed, resting.

I feel a little unwell today, everyone.  Tedious as it is but perhaps it is my body screaming at me that my mind and body need rest.

I have just had two pieces of toast over an hour's span - one slice with fig and ginger jam which I bought from Evandale market last weekend, and the other with mighty mite (an alternative to vegemite).  Both delicious.  The chamomile tea is going down well.

I am about to go for a nap before I get up and undertake some sewing of blankets for my animals.

Did I mention my submissive built me an animal hutch... its huge... its a masterpiece.  He puts so much heart and soul into creating.  The locks go on doors tomorrow, and then my animals can be moved into their magnificent new home.  My Home will be hay-free again.

I can then have my downstairs space for my makeshift Dungeon again.  Chaining those kinky boys from the wall.  Very excited about it, well as much excitement I can conjure at the moment.

I hope those who view my blog have a lovely weekend...

Ms Neta will back to post more over the next couple of days - just because I enjoy doing so.

Be Well, gorgeous people.

Upcoming Munch on 23/11/14

Well, slave mani and I are travelling up north on Sunday to attend a local Kink scene munch.  It has a race day theme to it.  Out comes my wide-brimmed white hat my submissive bought me a few years ago.  Very lady-like.  I might even wear my white and red dress I bought recently...I just don't have white shoes to go with it... although in saying that, I may have red sandals.  I will rummage around this evening see what my selection of shoes offer.

A munch is a gathering of kinky folk catching up for chat, food and drink in a vanilla setting... usually at a pub/restaurant.  We all connect with like-minded wearing vanilla wear just hanging out.  Its quite lovely and relaxing.

We are travelling early on Sunday and I will be giving a Dominant and his pet a lift up there.  4 kinky folk zooming up to Launceston.  There are about 20-25 of us attending so I am very much looking forward to seeing all the kinky northerners again.

Life is just too busy at the moment.  Kink and Vanilla events raring up everywhere. 

I might even have a photo taken of me wearing my pretty lady attire. 

See you soon folks  :)

slave mani - 20/11/14

my slave mani arrives in Hobart today.

He is an interstater from Queensland, and just delightful.  His contract to me will be up to 31 December 2014.

His service will be mainly around domestic and personal service although there will be some sensation play happening.  This slave has been extremely committed to me since he came on board in October.  I have been extremely impressed with his commitment to this dynamic even though he and I have never met, and he lives interstate.  We have 'known' each other for 4, maybe, 5 years through a common site we frequent. 

He has made the effort to learn about me, chat to me on the phone and be patient when I haven't engaged with him due to other focusses.  No hassles, no poutiness, no demands, just waiting until Goddess Neta is available to give him attention in whatever minor way.

I have a few things planned during his time here:

- he will accompany me to two events in our local Kinky scene

- he will clean my home

- he will cook dinner for my family

- he will do my gardening

- he will assist me at my workplace

- he will provide massages when required

- he will prepare an afternoon tea for my FemDom group

- he will accept pain for my pleasure

- he will experience one of his kinks - pony play - with a FemSwitch

slave mani will leave Hobart a happy slave with lovely wicked memories.

Friday - 8/11/14 - our day

Today was the first day of slave r's training.  We had been in discussions over the past couple of weeks about various topics, and then I revealed to him I was a Dominant.  He was pleasantly surprised to learn I was kinky.  He was keen to embark on a journey with me.  He was given a couple of tasks to complete as well as undertaken the usual rituals I ask of those who come into my service.  My realm.

He is dedicated... thus far.

He is in a relationship with another so his service has been tailored to suit.  I try not to take on males who are in committed relationships due to their limited service and time to me although I have been flexible with my previous slave which unfortunately did not work out in the end.  That said he was with me 4-5 months...so I can't really complain can I?

I am not sure how long slave r will be with me due to his very limited service to me.  He is on a short-term contract with me, so I will assess that contract when it is close to expiration.

This is a three month D/s contract effective 3/11/14 between Ms Neta and slave r.  The contract ceases on 3/2/15. 

Slave r arrived punctually at 10.00am.  He entered my realm, immediately kneeled and kissed my right hand.  I smiled, and requested he follow me into the lounge room.  He then presented me with a scented candle - a gift to me.  I requested he remove his clothing so I could inspect his body.  I was amused as he was nervous and keen to remove his clothes that he just dumped him in a heap.  I requested he fold his clothing neatly.  I waited and watched. 

He was then directed to bend over the couch for his punishment caning.  10 strokes on each arse cheek, and 10 strappings.  He received these because he was unable to make time to see me when I required.  Poor performance in my view but then that will teach me for taking on someone who is committed to another.  Aah well, we Mistresses have to get as much fun as we can as there are so many out there who are just plain flaky.  slave r is not flaky...he is a serious alpha male whose long-term yearning is to kneel at a Dominant's feet, to submit to a powerful Woman.

He addresses me as "My Queen". 

Quite lovely.  My interstate slave addresses me as "Goddess Neta". 

My long-term submissive addresses me as lovely Mistress / Mistress or Mistress Neta.

I digress, back to slave r.

slave received the first 2 cane strokes before he had to adjust his position to accept the next strokes and strapping.  His arse went a beautiful red, and the skin became slightly dry in appearance.  He endured the Delcrin and Rattan canes very well.  Next my foe - the leather strap - greeted his arse with glee.  Oh that's right, that was me feeling glee...

He received 10 straps on each arse cheek.  Punishment over.

In order to recover from the shock of the pain, he had a glass of water and took some deep breaths.

A collar was placed around his neck and leash.  He suited it.  A lovely looking slave.

He was then requested to show me the four positions asked of him.  He performed extremely well.  Only one correction was made with the slave sitting position - other than that, spot on.

I sat down in my Throne.  Requested he make me a cup of tea which he did with a natural-ness.  It is obvious he is service-oriented.  He even asked what size cup I wanted my tea in.  Nods head at his smart enquiry.

He brought my cup of tea, sat down in the slave sitting position and I pulled him closer to me, he remained in the slave sitting position with his eyes downcast, and listened to me chat about my expectations in this dynamic.  He was attentive, alert, sweet.  He was so sweet I couldn't resist and directed him to lick my boots from the knee up.  Yes, I was wearing my thigh high PVC boots.  He worshipped well.

It was time for the next part of 'play'

I had slave r set up the massage table for our play.

slave r had not experienced the kinky play that I was going to introduce to him.  I had decided to give him a sampler of the various activities I enjoyed.  He had only ever experienced light bondage and some anal finger play.  It was going to be wicked fun ahead.

wrist and ankle cuffs were applied to slave r with chains attached.  The clanking of the chains as he moved was fucken hot.

I directed him to sit on the massage table, face up, as CBT was first on the menu.  He was restrained to the table... then CBT commenced.  The single and 7-wheeled wartenburgs were used after his cock and balls were tied into bondage.  His cock and balls enjoyed the restriction.  Its also delicious when you see your males jolting, grunting, trying to escape from the wicked items used on their delicate bits.  yes I was smiling, happy doing my thing.  While he was still in cock bondage, I proceeded flog his cock with my cock flogger.  I really must take a photo of that so you can all see.  In between the cock flogging, his thighs were caned with the rattan.  I even introduced him to bastinado - feet flogging.  He did state he was ticklish... alas, he didn't laugh when he felt the cane on his feet.  He has a pierced nipple so I manipulated that a little, just to watch him wince and jitter about.  Wonderful stuff.  I did many wicked things to him for about half an hour, then I noticed I felt peckish.  Sustenance was required!!

He was removed from the massage table, and requested to make my lunch.

It was a simple, healthy lunch.  He is a fitness fanatic who believes in good 'clean' eating... sighs, give me some junk food.

The meal consisted of coleslaw mix, egg mayonnaise with chilli tuna mixed throughout.  Very nice I have to say.  Did I mention, junk food would have been perfect after that healthy dish *hehe*

I sat in my Throne, he said at my feet and he was permitted to look at me.  We had a wonderful chat about his life. 

After lunch, it was time for me to enjoy impact play.  slave r is a pain slut, and a masochist...and so, he was a perfect recipient for my sadistic pleasure.

He was directed to lay, face down, on the massage table.  His feet were restrained but his wrists were not due to some pain in his shoulder...from an old injury.

Before impact commenced, I lubed up his arse and inserted my purple 5 inch, very skinny, dildo up into his arse.  He informed me he had only experienced fingers nothing else.  It was interesting how the dildo went up so easily... slave r. 

slave r then experienced my various floggers with different sensations, the riding crop, the birch, the delcrin cane and the strap again.  My nails scratched his arse in between the impact, he felt my teeth and lips at times.  He was introduced to a varied range of sensations and enjoyed them very much.

Music was playing in the background, birds were chirping, the rabbit was sleeping close by and slave r was part of the pack.  It was a nice atmosphere.  After the play, I was feeling lethargic and needed some relaxing time.  slave r was informed what was required to relax me and did it with confidence and joy. 

Time flew, and we both had a most enjoyable day.  It was time to pack up, so slave r got cleaning and had the place back to its state before the 3.00pm arrivals.  He left at 2.45pm, I sat back and contemplated the day spent with my new slave.

All the experiences with my previous and current slaves and submissives have been different.  The physical play is usually enjoyable but I do get off on mental play but I suppose that does come with a strong connection with another over time.

Another day almost over, and this Mistress proceeded to get on with her vanilla day before mulling over the day's events with slave r.  I took many photos to record our time together, and slave r has consented for me to use them in my blog.  Of course privacy is important so his face will not be shown.

Until next time folks.

slave r - 14/11/14

Hello My Queen,

 I would like to thank you for letting me enter your realm.

When I arrived I was feeling slightly anxious and nervous but once I entered your house I felt at ease and a sense of calm as I saw y

ou my beautiful Queen.

Yes I must say that when you first caned my bare arse I felt some shock at the initial feeling. I did struggle some to get through the initial but once the initial shock settled and I had my glass of water I felt better.

You then had me get on your massage table where you introduced me to some mild CBT and some more flogging by now I was beginning to feel more at ease with the sweet pain you were inflicting on me. Yes I know I squirmed a bit on the table.

I was then allowed to make you lunch and sit at your feet and eat mine. We then chatted and you let me kiss your thigh.

Next you asked for me you had me lay face down on your table so you could cane, flog and spank me My Queen. You also inserted a toy in to Anus, this I found quite comfortable you then proceeded to cane and flog me again with a plug up my arse.

Once we finished, I spent some relaxing time with you My Queen.

When it was close to departure, I was allowed to shower and leave your service for the day. I left feeling enlightened as I have found through you another side to  myself which I will only share with you My Queen.

I am looking forward to serving you further My Queen

Your Humble Slave

slave r

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Friday play pics of slave r

Result of Caning Punishment

Restrained

Slave sitting

Anal plugged with 5 inch dildo

This Friday

I am looking forward to this Friday.

I am going to finally train my newest slave in real time.  slave r.

positions testing, punishment, domestic service, impact play, bondage and worship with be some of the aspects of his training on Friday.  It is pleasing to ME knowing he is a pain slut too (heart speeds up in excitement) so I can really enjoy this aspect of our time together.

Will post more details and perhaps some photos... of our time together in time.

Fantasise about these, boys...

8/11/14 - Going out for Dinner

The evening with the visiting FemDom Couple from interstate was most enjoyable.  We met in Salamanca for dinner.  Unfortunately the venue was noisy but we got through it with good food and loud talking.  We eventually moved on to Salamanca Square to a quieter venue for pleasant conversation.  The three couples conversed about many topics and were enlightened by many perspectives.

We will catch up with the Couple again in two weeks' time to hear about their travels around Tasmania.  Oh, they did enjoy the the Wall of Cunts at MONA.  What a highlight!!  :))

FemDom game...

This is a wicked fun game to play at FemDom gatherings.

You take 6 implements or devices of punishment and number them 1 - 6...such as:-

1. Paddle
2. Crop
3. Cane
4. Single Tail Whip
5. Bare Hand
6. Flogger

The sub/slave rolls one dice and the number determines the implement to be used.

The sub/slave then rolls a pair of dice and whatever number the sub rolls determines the number of strokes.

Isn't this a delightful little game.  Something I may incorporate into one of my events next year.  Thank you to the devious mind of the Mistress who came up with this fine entertainment.  

8/11/14 - FemDom Catch up with visiting FemDom couple

Well shortly I will be off to meet with an interstate FemDom couple to our fair shores.  This has been
planned for some months, and now the day is here.

My slave A was supposed to accompany me but due to his current status is unable to be at my side.  Fortunately, my sub B will be with me.  Bless him.

The Female Dominant and her submissive live FemDom and FLR 24/7.  Its going to be wonderful to actually be in the presence of a couple who ACTUALLY live the Lifestyle  I can't wait to pick their brains.

We have another FemDom couple joining us who are relatively new to the life but have moved extremely quickly in the lifestyle and again, its lovely to watch their relationship blossom.

Another Dominant is joining us and she has a sub but he will not be present this evening.  She is moving up north in a couple of weeks so that will leave us with one less FemDom in our fair state.  Oh well, thems the breaks.

There will be 7 of us tonight, and it is indeed wonderful to be surrounded by likeminded.

I hope to be in a 24/7 FemDom relationship in my future but who knows what will happen in the future.

Look out Salamanca here we Kinksters come...

I will share some more of this evening tomorrow.  Its quite exciting being around others who have the same goals and objectives in the Kink world.

Ms Neta

Another Stalker

Well people it appears I have another stalker after me.

On 4/11/14, someone I met a person on another site who found out my vanilla name, and address and has proceeded to send me abusive and vicious emails concerning my family and myself.  Yes, I can be a gutter mouth at times but this person is absolutely psychopathic... and that is a 'serious word' I am using for him.  Did I mention he pretended to be his wife, a woman, but eventually he made too many mistakes in his dialogue which revealed the text was written by a man.

They/he/she have been blocked, and reported to the police.  Not much can be done about them at this stage until they actually trespass on my property.

Security has been put in place so we will wait to see if he is a scum bag of his word.  Some people said he is a troll.  I prefer to remain cautious for the sake of my family... and take his threats seriously at this time.

Too many fucked up vanilla folk out there.  He was displeased by the rejection, albeit a gentle rejection, and has proceeded to stalk me.

Thank goddess I have my Alpha slave, slave m, my vanilla other half, and my friends to support me through this crazy stuff.

I really am a magnet for trolls and psychopathic Stalkers!  Sighs.

Roll on 2015, I say.

6/11/14 - Local Scene munch

Good afternoon lovely people

Well after such a busy work life, I finally got out to one of local southern munches to mix with some of the active kinky folk who not afraid to come out and interact with like-minded.

Absolutely wonderful.

We caught up at a City pub for a meal and drinks.  I arrived late due to some other responsibilities, and saw many familiar faces with a few new ones.  They were greeted before I seated myself at the head of the table and proceeded to chat to some of the Kink managers.

I really do belong around kinky folk as it was comfortable to chat about anything without discomfort or judgement.  We laughed, chatted about upcoming events with a little gossip in the local scene.  Good times.

I am heading off up north next week to attend the northern munch.  Busy busy and fun fun!!

And... 46 more ideas to make your slave feel owned (loved)

61. For transgressions: Command that He is to be silent for a week. He may not speak, and will take whatever pain or pleasure You give as silently as possible.

62. Treat him like a pet in front of friends, making him present himself, turn himself, etc.

63. Give him a writing assignment: "The definition of Obedience - 1000 words"

64. Have him wear a toe ring.

65. Tell him one morning that He must cum for You 15 times that day, and then write about the day.

66. Have him wear nipple clamps under him clothing out to dinner.

67. On Your birthday, let him receive Your spankings.

68. Spend time training him how to move gracefully to please You.

69. For transgressions: stand him in the corner like a 3 year old.

70. Always flog him after completion of a task, even if it was satisfactory. A well flogged slave is a happy slave.

71. Speak about him as if He were not present.

72. For transgressions: deny him any D/s at all for a week.....letting him do just as He pleases, not allowing him to serve You in any way, no punishment, no instruction, no play, banning titles of respect, etc. This will shame him and certainly make him strive to please You when it is over and He is in him place again.

73. Defend him honor to those who would disrespect Your prized possession.

74. Pet him often.

75. Make him be webMistress for Your huge site, DallasBDSM. hehehehe

76. Whenever possible (i.e. no young-uns about), have him sleep in a cage.

77. Buy him sexy or slutty clothes to Your liking.

78. Teach him things....expand him knowledge.....in a patient Fathimly way.

79. When You are away, call him and have him masturbate for You.

80. If You choose to play with othims, make sure Your slave knows who is first in Your heart.....and that some things are just for him.

81. Remember him birthday.

82. Lead him with a loving fist in him hair.

83. Wake him each morning with an assigned task for the day.....and make sure it is done by day's end.

84. Teach him patience.

85. Videotape Your sessions and watch them togethim.

86. On long trips, have him wear double dildo latex underwear.

87. Hand feed him chocolate.

88. Have him place him regular wear shoes in a line by the front door. They should be in a straight line with the laces tucked inside, or the buckles buckled. Inspect them periodically.

89. Keep a list of him transgressions in a little book....let him slip for a while...thinking You are not noticing.....then one day, bring out the book and have a day of atonement.

90. Tickle him just because You can.

91. Have him be perfectly still and quiet while You bring him extreme pleasure.....when He moves or makes a sound punish him then return to the pleasure.

92. Keep him locked in him collar when You are home. You place it on him.....having him kneel. Wear the key to the lock around Your neck.

93. When possible, have him cook and serve Your dinner wearing nothing but an apron and collar.

94. Buy him a Polaroid camera and give him assignments to take pictures of himself for You in certain outfits or positions, etc.

95. Remember to kiss and caress away him tears.

96. Don't be afraid to bring him to tears, for they are Yours as well.

97. Take him and the dog to the park, both on leaHes.

98. Caress him, whisper into him ear that You love him, nibble on him belly, lick him thighs and make love to him until He cries.

99. Have him fall asleep with Your cock in him mouth and tell him You expect it to be There when You awake.

100. Occasionally, fulfill him fantasy.

101. Dominant's word is the last word.

Addendum

102. Make sure that He is safe at all times....when with You and when You are apart (to the best of Your ability). Keep him vehicle in good working order, make sure He has emergency money and a cell phone to call for help if needed.

103. Be consistent.

104. Take the time to talk to him.....learn him fears, him dreams and fantasies. Use Your knowledge.

105. When You go out of town, forbid him to shave him sex. Shave him Yourself when You return.

106. Specify exactly how He will address You in private and in public.

107. If You are willing to correct him each time He forgets until it is a habit, have him refer to himself as "this slave" or "this girl" etc. 

slave r

I met my newest slave on an adult site recently.  He contacted me and we commenced conversation.

We seem to connect and were looking for the same thing.

We met up for a coffee recently, and bam, he is absolutely gorgeous.  Tall, light brown hair, piercing yet gentle eyes, muscular, in his 40s, a fitness fanatic and enjoys extreme-type sports.  He loves animals and has a keen interest in caring for them, like myself.

It was pleasing to discover we had a few things in common which was delightful.  He was unaware of my other side, that being, a Female Dominant.  I sensed in him kinkiness but we chatted about vanilla things for a few days.  Our meet catch up was enjoyable.

Our conversations continued, and there was a little lull in our communications until I asked him the question, "does he like to be dominated?"  And, then it happened, our conversation changed direction... into the realm of beautiful kink.  We love the kink, don't we folks?

He is a masochist. A pain slut. Wonderful.

We are still in the early stages of our exploration but I believe we will have an intense time together as time progresses.

I will share more about slave r, as we move on.

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slave m's task

An assignment I ask of all the males who are keen to come into my service.  Of course, I am very selective about who is permitted to serve me.

This is slave m's, my interstate slave, response to the task requested of him two weeks ago:

Humiliations
• Puppy/role play (good)
• Being feed by hand (good)
• Licking Goddess’s feet (good)
• Objectification (good)
• Light Cross-dressing (good)
• Corner time (harder)
• Public Physical/Verbal Humiliation (harder)
• Verbal browbeating (harder)
• Forced Bi (harder)
• Heavy cross-dressing (harder)

Rewards
• Being in Goddess’s presence
• Pats/nuzzles
• Being allowed to kneel/sit by Goddess’s side
• Body worship
• Bathing Goddess
• Sexual release
• Playing with Goddess and Her friends
• Compliments
• Sleeping next to Goddess’s bed
• Trust of being welcomed into Goddess’s home

Punishments
• Being ignored
• Kneeling on a hard floor
• A cold hard caning
• A cold hard whipping
• Standing in the corner
• Restrictive rope bondage for a long period
• Bastinado
• Remorseless Tickling
• Long term caging
• Extreme cbt

New Slave(s)

Well people, I hope you are all well.

Life has been going along very well both in my vanilla life and kinky life.  Very busy but achieving well enough.

So, I am in the process of training a new slave, a local boy, who is just gorgeous... and his commitment is genuine but he still has a way to go to train to my way of service.

I have been training another slave who has been around me for a few weeks, and he is committed to me.  He is an interstater, who I have known for four years, but travelling down here in two weeks to serve for a couple of months.

What's delightful about these two slaves is that they are both masochists, so I look forward to exploring the dark romance with them over the coming months.  Delicious!


Ms Neta
~ With Dark Romance in Mind Always ~