23/2/12

I met with a new member of our FemDom group, WB, on Thursday at 1.15pm.

We talked about the recent gathering where there was more a male energy rather than female.  So pleasing to hear another's perspective without being influenced by others' bias.

We met in West Hobart at a wonderful cafe and conversed about our many interests.  Time flew so quickly it was 3.00pm when we realised it was time for us to depart.

So refreshing to finally come across more intelligent women in our state.

PP scheduled for Saturday, 25th February 2012.  It'll be interesting to see how it proceeds.

~Ms Neta~

25/2/12 - prephotos for FemDom PP

A lovely comment: 20/2/12 (6417)

"I too am sorry we haven't remained in contact. It is in the past now, I hold no grudge and do still hold you in high regard, you are a strong woman who deserves respect."

This was from a private email I received from a wonderful person which sadly we fell out of contact due to local politics.  The bridges are slowly being mended.  :)

Difference between a submissive and slave

Tell me, slave, what is the difference between a submissive and slave? And please give it some thought once you research the definitions.

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Ms Neta,

I am once again apologetic for the time it has taken me to give you a reply. I have looked up and done quite some research on these definitions, and through reading the traditional dictionary meaning and reading other peoples opinion on this I have summed up my own definition and meanings of the differences between the two.

I believe before one can become a slave that they first must be a sub, and know the true values that this takes on. Once you realise your submissiveness you must then find a dominant to relinquish it too and release all control to the dominant and become there "slave". It is my belief that a bond between a submissive and a dominant and the power exchanged between the two. Is one of the most special and enlightening things a human being can do. In summing up A submissive is someone who is firstly only born a submissive and knows this from a young age and vice versa with a dominant. As a submissive it is always your longing to release your control to a dominant and become a slave. But not by traditional meaning as in a slave by force. But mutual exchange of control and power shift.

Sincerely

Slave

Undertaking a Basic Enema

Enemas help with many different things such as health problems like constipation. As well as enemas are a very good way for you to clean your but out before anal play/ strap on play.  Here are the proper steps in order to do a proper basic enema. The one piece of advice I would give to  people who are new to taking enemas are:  try your very best to relax. 

1.) The first thing you will need to do if you currently do not have one is a basic enema kit. They are usually very cheap. And you pick one up at one of your local pharmacies/ department stores like: Walgreens, Shoppers Drug Mart, Walmart, London Drugs, CVS etc. If you already have one proceed to step #2.

2.) When you have an enema kit, you will need to gather some supplies. They are: an old towel or long rag, something you enjoy to pass the time, the enema kit,  and finally make sure you have a lot of toilet paper.

3.) When you have everything ready. Go into your bathroom, get naked. In your enema kit their should be some instructions. I am going to go on the assumption, their isn’t any. First you take bag and fill it with lots of water.

4.) Then you either lay the towel down, or go into the bathtub. Most enema kits come with a hook to hang up your enema bag. So try to hang it up somewhere, or put it somewhere, where it won’t fall. I suggest you hook it about three to four feet high above where you will do the enema. As well as if are doing it on the floor, with a towel under you. Turn to your left side and lay their, with knees bent. 

5.) You put the small white, or what looks like a small nozzle inside your butt. When you do this, relax and think happy thoughts. Since this is what will help you to insert the nozzle easily, and not be painful. Try to breathe deeply, as it will help to relieve discomfort.  Then their should be knob or button you push to release the water into your but-hole. Be careful when pushing the knob, since that is also what decides the pressure the water comes out at. Slowly adjust the knob, until you find the desired pressure. That you feel good with. Finally try to massage the abdomen in a counter clockwise direction. It will move the solution, or water higher into the colon. So it will help to possibly relive pressure.

Ø           You keep the nozzle inside your but, until you start to feel like you want to go to the washroom. Or when you feel a fullness, As well as if you have used all of the solution/ water. Then you are done as well.

Ø           Before you remove the nozzle, make sure you turn the knob or button off. So that their is no more water coming out. And after you take the nozzle out, make sure you are sucking your but in, so that no water escapes.

Ø           When you are on the toilet, then you can let all the water loose. This is where the book, comics etc. will come in handy. As you will be emptying your stools. So this is a long process. It can take anywhere from thirty minutes to an hour or so. It differs person to person. You know you are finished, when all of your bowels are emptied. The best way to tell if it is or not. Is what I call the five minute wait. what you do is when you think you are done, wait about five minutes. If you don’t empty anything within 5 minutes or so. Then you are finished. Also if you feel emptied, and if nothing has come out of your colon and it’s been longer then 10 minutes. That also means your are finished.

After you're finished. You’ll clean up, and continue or do whatever you you wanted to do. 

Thank you for taking the to read this. I hope even though it might have been uncomfortable, that it wasn’t too painful.

I am not a Doctor, but I have done some research on this, as well as experienced my own enema. So do this at your own discretion. Please and thank you.

kevin

Catch up with FemDoms: 15/2/12

I met up with Miss V and Miss S on Wednesday afternoon to undertake some planning for our local FemDom group.

The discussions encompassed our plan to expand our group and to bring him more male submissives, and have more education workshops as well as FemDom gatherings.

We are now in the process of fine-tuning our approach and it is looking very positive.

We are, after all, about feminine, elegant Power!!

~Ms Neta~

Strap On fun: 17/2/12

Last night, I visited my sub.

He was waiting in the hallway as he normally does upon my arrival.  Naked, collared and cock-ringed with sparkling eyes.

The lounge room was set up with a lovely warm ambience of candles and blues music.  My favourite flowers decorated the dining table - beautiful purple/pink carnations - a fruit platter with assorted fruits and a bottle of Jansz sparkling wine in celebration of ClubFEM.  He is such a thoughtful submissive.  He does his best to serve me to the best of his possibility.  He always impresses me.

We chatted for about an hour an half about local politics and goings-on.

At 8.35pm, we prepared for our Strap On scene.  I put on my 8 inch vac-u-lock strap on cock and was ready for the fucking of my submissive.  bill set up the massage table so he could lean over it while I 'reamed' him - he likes that word "reamed".

I had him bend over the massage table and lubricated his arse.  I fingered him for a few moments to prepare him for the invasion of big hard white cock.  He was ready, willing and eager!

I positioned myself and entered him slowly at first.  Grunt.  I began to speed up to the music of Etienne De Grecy.  Pure hotness!  I proceeded to fuck him at a faster pace and he screamed, moaned, whimpered, groaned, babbled and whispered in ecstacy.   I slapped his arse a few times and called him my sexy little slut.  His cock hardened to those words.  Slut.  Slut.  I stopped and let him have a rest and as well to pull back the massage table as he was pushing on to it and it got too close to the TV.  He was relieved to have a rest.  I re-lubricated his bitch arse.  I pushed my cock into and he pushed back into me like the wanton little slut he is.  It was hot watching his arse push back although he almost pushed me off balance so I told him to stop.

I fucked him for a good solid 10 minutes.  I pulled out took some pics then pushed into him again.  He loved it.  I let him rest and he fell to the ground feeling well reamed.  His cock was rock hard.  I told him to get up and I continued to fuck him for another 15 minutes.  Slowly, faster, slowly, faster... I was in a rhythm and it felt good.

His bitch arse was becoming sensitive so I gave him 2 more minutes of my big hard cock.  Exquisite for us both.  I pulled out and he collapsed on the floor... again.  A very satisfied sub.

We continued with more chat, drank more sparkling wine and ate fruit.

About 11.00pm, my sub proceeded to rub my feet.  Very relaxing and soothing for my hardworking feet.

It was peaceful and quiet and I was quite relaxed as was my sub bill, and happy.  I left an hour later.

My sub looked pleased with himself, and I was extremely tired from the strenuous activity.  Strap On fucking is good fun but damn you need to be rather fit to keep up the pace.  I kind of admire males who can go for it forever ha ha ha.  What a terrific night.

Morning Tea with O

On Wednesday, 15th February 2012, I met up with a service submissive named "O". 

We met for coffee in Sandy Bay and had the most enjoyable chat ever.  We talked about the local scene, politics, and ways to combat the tensions and reunite the greater community of our state.

To be honest, I cannot see anything happening in a positive way for quite a while... I do hope it works out but there is a lot stuff that needs to be addressed and I cannot imagine it will occur anything soon.

Anyway back to my coffee and chat with O.  It was nice to relax although it was a hot morning we enjoyed each other's company.  Nice to be around people who are 24/7 thinking rather than weekend warriors.  Sooooo tedious.

I look forward to catching up with O very soon.

Strap On Week

Miss S informed me yesterday she strap on fucked her bottom on Monday.  I said, "really?" and laughed.

Miss V informed me yesterday she was going to strap on fuck her submissive that night.  I said, "really?" and laughed.

I said to both of them yesterday that is amazing because I have planned a session with my submissive for Friday night to strap on fuck him. 

It appears it is Strap On Fuck week, people, for me and my friends.


~Ms Neta~

Book Club: A Different Loving

Different Loving

The world of Sexual Dominance and Submission.

Gloria G Brame, William D Brame, Jon Jacobs

*In order to understand unusual sexualities such as dominance and submission, one first has to consider the question “what is normal”.  If the unique function of sex is reproductive – and the only reason men and women should engage in sex is for thepurpose of creating a new life – then only heterosexual intercourse is normal.  By this standard, many common acts even contraception must be considered aberrant.  Reproductive relevance was the Victorian Standard of normalcy, and even today many of the lawas in the United States still abide by that model.  But people have always purused sex both for reproduction and for pleasure and well being.*

*“We state from the premise that sex for pleasure is a normal human drive and is acceptable when it brings pleasure to both partners, from this perspective.  D&S is simply a “different” kind of loving.*

*“We hope to add to the greater body of knowledge about what people really do behind closed doors and the people they most love and trust.  Perhaps “Different Loving” will open the door for further research into the mystery, beauty, and complexity of human life and its diverse expressions”.*

A friend recommended I read this book.  She stated it was a ‘must read’, an educational D/s reference book into understanding sexual D/s.

I started the book last night.  Plenty of historical references about the conception of BDSM…*its going to be a long but educational read* ~laughs~

Property photo

Profound: 13/2/12

From my gorgeous friend, TomtheDom.  His words were so touching, I just had to post in my blog.  This man, is a brilliant and supportive friend.  This was about post I raised on a website I reside about the passing of Whitney Houston.

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@Neta, see, thats where I am different - I look at you, and see more of the qualities you saw in Whitney in yourself. I know we kind of focus on the VIP but forget the most important person, which is each and every one of us.

I am certain you had not the luxury of Aretha Franklin as your Godmother and yet you somehow made it through life. I am sure you, as any most of us, have been tempted by peers to try out drugs,but somehow you managed to get by and managed to feel ok about yourself without a nose full of coke every second day (or hour for that matter). I am sure life treated you poorly at times and yet you didnt end up popping pills and sinking them with shots.

I am certain that you have invaluable talents in you, and contribute greatly to the web called life, and that your battles are just as hard as those of Whitney Houston, the only difference is, that while she broke on the cliffs of life and sank her ship, yours is still sailing the seven seas of life and that is why I have more respect for you, than Whitney. call me old-fashioned, I prefer those important people of every day's life to those Gladiators that are there to lure the masses into amused lobotomy.

Journal: 12/2/12 (6143)

This morning I met up with lt bitch, and we had a lovely breakfast at a local place in Sandy Bay.  We talked about local kink matters.  I asked him to support me in the creation of a new idea I have planned for our local FemDom group.  He was very open to my idea.  CFNM did appeal to him  *grins*

Bush grown for me

This afternoon, my submissive came over to help Jack put up a new light fitting we had purchased two years ago.  Both men worked on something I wanted and they managed to install it after 3 hours.  It was a challenge but they completed the task.

Wonderful and a thank you to them both.

Scene: 11/2/12

I arrived at my submissive's place this evening at 6.50pm.

His place was prepared for our rope bondage scene. Candles, music, ambience, snacks and his submission.

We chatted for about an hour or so about various events happening in the local scene and my future plans for FemDom in Tassie.

Next, my sub set up the massage table.  The ropes were ready for the ensuing scene.  He moved to the massage table as I mentally prepared for the scene.  The music for this evening's session was Ettiene De Grecy.  French Disco - absolutely wonderful, sexy music.  Hmm.

I proceeded to tie my sub's chest to the table, next his hands attached to his thighs and then his feet.  It was magnificent.  I gagged him with a ball gag but he began to choke which isn't a good start for my scene.  I removed it and covered his head with a scarf to set the mood.

I was amused.  I said to my sub how are you feeling and as soon as I stood up his cock was at attention.

I placed his cock into bondage.

I applied clover clamps to his nipples.  Fabulous sound has he grunted.

I used the wartenburg wheel which isn't his favourite.  He squealed like a bitch.  I rubbed baby oil all over his cock then used the wartenberg wheel again... more squealing.  I then pulled out the cock flogger, and flogged his cute little cock.  Somehow he managed to put protective hands over his package... jeeze.  Anyway I still had fun flogging, whipping his body all over... his whimpers of pain were fucken hot.  Yum.

I applied pegs to his cock, balls and toes.  It was a most enjoyable session.

I danced to the music, laughed, teased and hurt him.  Very satisfying indeed.

Our aftercare was absolutely delicious!

Next week, our scene will be Strap On.  Oh, he is very excited about that particular play!!

Sunday 5/2/12

My submissive came over to look at a light fitting for a chandelier we bought two years ago.  It was interesting to watch both he and Jack interact.  Who knew I liked geeks/nerds.  Its quite adorable actually.  They are both interested in coins, old coins.  *blinks*

Anyway it is a big job so next weekend, bill will return to assist Jack in installing the chandelier.  It will be a rewarding day.

Later on, after dinner, bill massaged my feet.  My feet were so soothed afterwards that I slept beautifully that night.

I have a great husband, and a great submissive.  Yay for them both.

FemDom Drinkies: 7/2/12

Well last night, I attended our FemDom Tas Drinkies at our usual venue.  And it was great to see many of the kinksters.  We had some newcomers which I wasn't too pleased about but we all enjoyed ourselves nonetheless.

This is the outfit I wore.  I love it, and I looked super hot!!

My throne was also waiting for me.  Some kinksters were sitting on it but when I arrived they relocated.  Wonderful people.  I like those two.

Anyway not much more to report about the Drinkies except to say there will be changes in our Group soon.

~Ms Neta~

Service 31/1/2012

On Tuesday, 31st January my submissive bill came over to clean my kitchen.

Actually he offered the day before because I had been so busy.  I said lets go to the movies and he was happy to do so but in the next breath he says "I'd be happy to come over and clean your kitchen, Mistress".   I was speechless momentarily, and said "that sounds lovely, let me think about it".

He arrived at 5.15pm.  He was requested to remove the bikes from my car, then place a huge rubbish bag into the back of his car to discard later.  After these two tasks, he proceeded to clean my kitchen benches.  This also included the whitegoods.  He did a good job.  My kitchen looks a lot more manageable!!

I have such a good doggy boy.

:)