Journal for late Sept 2011

Wednesday, 21 Sept - it was Jack and my engagement anniversary - 13 years.  We enjoyed a bottle of Lindauer whilst watching the Sons of Anarchy.

Thursday, 22 Sept - it was Jack's birthday.  WOW.  He was in a bit of bad mood because he felt he was getting old.  The family gave him some lovely gifts.

Friday, 23 Sept - our daughter's birthday.  Almost a teenager.  I bought some cake, cut it up, sprinkled 100s and 1000s so her classmates could enjoy her birthday.  She had a low key birthday.  Her birthday party is this coming weekend.  Lots of friends will be attending that.

Saturday, 24th Sept - went out to my friend's birthday afternoon tea, Miss V.  It was a Goddess Afternoon Tea with a few friends.  It was enjoyable.  We had lots of laughter and chatter.  The spread was amazing.  I felt so full afterwards - jeeze, time to get serious about my walking.

Sunday, 25th Sept - painted the hallway with Jack.  bill was working so was unavailable to help.  We finished the walls we wanted and are very happy with what we achieved.  I cooked a Roast pork with vegies and homemade apple sauce.  The kids ate every morsel... no leftovers in our household.

Monday, 25th Sept - had a productive day at my workplace and prepared protocol notes for my two submissives for their training on Wednesday.

Tuesday, 26th Sept - again another low key day and just caught up on protocol notes, chatted to Mistress Meg throughout the day, wrote up minutes, dealt with some problems and then my work day was over.  Had a lovely pizza from Dominoes and here I am now writing up my journal whilst watching Persons of Interest produced by J J Abrams.

~Ms Neta~

Mind Fucks 3 discussion

How do you define a “Mind fuck”? And, what in your experience has been a good one you have received/given?

Mistress Meg

The best mind fuck I did to someone else and I didn't even realise I was doing it at the time.

I had instructed my then sub to wait for me at his house in the very early morning (4am) with two candles burning in his bedroom and the front door slightly ajar. The rest of the house was to be dark and the dog tied up outside.

He was to be naked and kneeling blindfolded beside the bed.

When I walked in it just took my breath away. I could actually see goosebumps on his skin and watching him breathe heavily before I even touched him....well divine. It made my very being ache to touch him.

I spoke softly as I moved about getting myself and a couple of things ready. When I touched him he jumped a mile and I giggled softly.

modesty inserted So things progressed very nicely from there.

The mind fuck? I hear you ask.

Well, afterwards he told me that he was CONVINCED that with the way I spoke and moved about while he was blindfolded, that I had brought one or even two people inside with me !!!!

Glorious :P

Lady Midnite

One of my favorite mind fucks I ever did was while I was at a plat party one night. I was doing some knife play on a boy and "accidentally slit his throat". Hehehehe. (Thanks for the help on that one silas! I still laugh every time I think about it.)

Switch

Hmmm it seems i remember that one. he he. I remember playing a new girl one night and once her hands were tied over her head i brought out a set of clothes pins about 8 in long and 2 in wide. They are scarry as hell to look at and i turned to her and said i have been waiting for some wonderful nipples to put these on. I thought she would wet herself. lol She started wiggling trying to get loose it was so nice to watch. The thing is they are so un scarry i put one on my tongue and it did not have enough strength to stay on it fell off. But like it says it is all in the mind.
silas

River Butch

I'm willing to share, but please don't try to tell me how stupid it was or dangerous. I was well aware of the danger and what could have happened, but I had full trust in the people that performed this scene.

I attended a very private party. Someone I knew quite well was also invited to this party. She knows that I'm not into bondage, but that soon came into her plan. She had planned out this scene with another Dominant, of course I had no clue. As I was sitting there she approached me with rope in hand, asked me to remove my shirt so she could try out a new tie. I thought nothing of it, and did as she asked. My hands and arms were bound, rather tightly, then she asked me to stand. She removed my pants, and told me she was going to bind my hands to my feet. Again I went along, seeing no harm in her actions.

Next thing I know is a hood was placed over my head, I remember wondering what I had then gotten myself into. I felt two people life me from where I sat, and move me to a spot where my hands were them bound over my head. Yes at this point I'm thinking.. "Oh Shit"

I am left there for what seemed like forever, then I begin to feel her breath on my neck, then I feel something very cold leaning up against my flesh. She removes the hood and before my eyes, she flashes a gun. Yes, I said a Gun. I watched her as she walked around the room, I looked into the eyes of the other people watching.

I knew from the type of work she does that she would Never approach anybody in such a manner with a weapon that could actually be fired. She had no intentions of causing death, but at that point my mind was so out there, all I could do was trust her.

She returned to me and an integration scene began. When I refused to speak, she grabbed my hair, pulling my head back, thus opening my mouth. She placed the barrel of that gun in my mouth and told me she was going to blow me away.... I remember looking briefly into her eyes, just before I heard that gun go "Click"

I think for a moment I passed out, I know I peed all over the floor. She had taken me way beyond any edge that I had ever imagined. But once was enough, I'd never do that again.

Just so you know the woman I spoke about is an FBI agent, and a member of SWAT. So I trusted myself to her, knowing her knowledge and skill. Other wise, this scene would have Never taken place.

Outlaw Tiny

The best mind fuck I've ever given someone would be, I had a transvestite tied in their kitchen doorway hands above there head ankles tied at the bottom secured to each side of the doorjam not exactly spreadeagle but close . There was a nice butcherblock in the kitchen complete with a clevor I slid the block over in front of her and tied a 1/4 rope around the bottom of the block pulling her cock down and holding it against the block . I then blindfolded her and started with a bit of knife play . I then teased her about chopping of her cock for a bit. Then I grabbed the clevor and with one hard blow chopped the rope holding her cock setting it free bobbing in the air and she came . Afterwards we talked and she told me she thought I really chopped it off till I pulled off the blindfold . Ive done other mindfucks aswell like giving someone a tattoo with a tattoogun but with no ink .

Tom the Dom

ok, so here come some of my tamed mind-fucks.

get a cat-food can, and open it with those can openers that remove the lid so you can close it again. empty the cat food. (give it to stray cats if you have none). clean the cat food can
cook home made goulash. fill it into the can

serve it to your guests from the can, heated up in a water bath :D

eat your own portion with delight

if you want to ante it up, invite them for a HELLO KITTY THEMED DINNER

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along the same lines and not cooked up by me, but by a famed Czech theater (and cinema) actor, during the communist reign no less... on a flight to Prague from a fellow east block country.... he smuggled meat salad into the plane

mid flight with turbulences he ate the sald (filled his mouth) and than faked to get sick. he grabbed the puking bags, and "puked" (spit it out) in such a manner everyone had to notice. once that was completed he took a fork and ate it back up from the bag

the whole plane fell for his mind fuck and puled... but they didnt eat it back up

giggles

Ms Neta

A mini 'mind fuck' was - my submissive prepares me a picnic lunch once a fortnight. White crockery, glassware, cloth serviettes - its very 'refined'. He serves me an entree: salmon and cream cheese, or brie on cracker bisuits. Main: will be a meat sandwich with salad. Dessert: A homemade fruit salad or a cream dessert. OK I just had to give you a picture of how well my boy pampers me.

I advised him to be at my workplace, 1.00pm sharp, with my lunch. No problems. At 11.30am, I sent him to text to be at my workplace 12.30pm sharp. He freaked as he was still in the supermarket buying the goodies... oops, wrong story.

A few weeks back I sent bill a text to say "where are you, I'm waiting for you outside for our lunch get together." He freaked (he does this often ha ha ha). "but, but, but Mistress I didn't realise we were meeting today". We weren't, but I was in a playful mood. It took him a while to calm down from that mini mind fuck angelic smile -he hates to disappoint me in any way.

Wicked Mz Toni

I started playing with a new guy I met at the munch. He wanted to be my devoted personal servant and talked about all the experience he had. I told him that I was extremely sadistic and that I might be too much for him, that he should ask around.

We had our first dungeon date. I like to do a 'mapping' where I take all sort of toys to the date and see what they do. It was pretty obvious that all his 'experience' had been was being lightly spanked (probably by a prodomme).

I had him tied securely to a massage table and was doing a bit of cbt. He wasn't going anywhere.

I pulled out my scuba knife and told him to hold VERY still, my knive was extremely sharp and that if he were to move just a little bit into the blade, he might be very badly cut and that I didn't want that to happen to him.

I made sure he knew he was completely immobilized and then started running the knife over his body. I started acting all crazy, telling him how much I loved the the look and feel of blood and sometimes I found it hard to control myself around it. I made sure to show him that crazy, vacant look in my eyes. You know, the lunatic gaze...

I took the point of the knife and had it over his trachea and was holding it in such a manner that I could easily plunge it into his throat.

While still holding the knife over his throat, I whispered in his ear, "If you want to live for me, you had better be prepared to die for me." and made a move like I was going to push it into his throat.

He started shaking uncontrollably with fear. I imagine this sort of fear is what serial killers got off on. It was delicious!

That knife was dull as hell and probably couldn't have opened a letter ....later on he told me, "I've rafted down class 5 rapids, I've jumped out of an airplane and had my parachute fail, but I've never been more afraid in my life!!!

kohinoorD

I define it as an altered state of mind, where your mind tells you x is happening, but in fact something else is happening. Example - you see the top get his knife out, and maybe even demonstrate how sharp it is.. are then blindfolded, cant see anymore, but you feel the knife on your skin.. you might be bound and gagged too, there might be a body-bag waiting on the floor near you, who knows. You may even feel the insertion of the knife into various crevices. Eeks! Or so your mind is telling you. ;)

Ultimately, it turns out that at no point in time did the blade ever touch your body. It was the spine of the blade, or even just the edge of a credit card. LOL

That was a pretty good one I received, a couple years ago. I remember feeling fear, for real. And fear is not an emotion I feel often.

I believe I am currently going through what may come to be the best mind-fuck ever, in my experience, but I don't think I can tell of it just yet ;P

Tom the Dom

actually even tame "phrases" used in the spankng thene are mind fucks...

• wait till we get home

• you will be crying your eyes out long before this is over

• thats enough bratting, young lady ...

to name a few

kohinmoor

@Tom - Yes, the mind has a way of interpreting these phrases and lending associations to them, that are sometimes quite out of touch with reality ;P

Tom the Dom

@kohinoorD

yes, it has. a mind fuck could maybe defined as a play on fears

kohinoorD

@Tom - It doesn't have to be fears, specifically. It can be anxieties, or on the other end - fantasies. Every deviant mind and his or her warped patterns, yanno? A mind-fuck that hasn't to do with fears can be dropping hints at say.. a collaring/wedding. LOL

Tom the Dom

kohinoorD,

it can be and yet it plays with fears... because anxieties, and anticipations, dwell in fear as well
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but i am tired and maybe just wrong.

you are right about the fantasies.

setting a mind in fire with smoke, like Amergin once wrote

kohinoorD

Tom, interesting food for thought. No pun intended :)

Tom the Dom

ok reporting a beautiful mind fuck...

i had mentioned elsewhere on FL, that my fetlist would make for a nice punishment ... count the fetishes...... write it down by hand ...(learn by heart as the worst of all) giggles.

a friend of mine read the post and when we YIMmed told me, to forget that punishment on her because she wouldnt do it ever - its way over the top.

we kept chatting and she said something or the other and i told her that she now is in trouble - (she had mildly crosse dme). anyway so she kept teasing and watcha gonna do and stuff, so i said well i will double your trouble. she kept going and i asked in a seripous tone if she realyl wants me to triple the trouble she is in?

she snapped back into her true self, and apologized and asked. so what is the trouble i am in about (as in what punishment equals trouble)

i told her, calmly, that single trouble would have been writing down my fetlist, but as she wanted double the trouble, she is to write is down on paper twice

she paled. well, she stopped communicating, and then started to REALLY APOLOGIZE

i told her dont worry, i just mind fucked you

thanks for being such a good punishee.

see?

beautiful mind fuck.

Humiliatrixx

Ahhhhhhhhh the mind and the many ways you can fuck it inside and out! hahahaha

One of my favorites and one I will never ever forget.

I had my boy bound, doing some flogging, cbt, etc..

He had always had a dislike/limit for knives. He knew I loved knife play, but I never pushed it with him. This particular day, I made sure he could see the knives in my bag, before I blindfolded him, I continued with the cbt, flogging n such. Then I went to the restroom, had an empty syringe that I had filed the tip on, made it feel like a knife. Filled the syringe with warm lube. I walked up to him, teasing his body, whispered in his ear and asked if he trusted me. He said he did.

I began slowly dragging the tip of the syringe along his chest, very lightly at first, adding pressure here and there, and allowing a bit of the lube to just ooze out. Before long he was soaring, I loved seeing his chest rise, begging for more. After I was done, I released him from the bindings, took the blindfold off, I had to snicker because he didn't look to see what (if) anything was done to his chest. Instead he snuggled at my feet, coming down from subspace. Finally he looked up and asked if he could go look in a mirror, I said he could.

He was very disappointed that he didn't have any actual markings, came back to my feet and begged for me to mark him. He still has no clue, it's been over 10 yrs, and when we talk, he still talks about that night, like it was yesterday ;) In his mind, I used knives... but in actuality I didn't lol. After that night we enjoyed many knife play scenes and he loved them!!!

Tom the Dom

@AngelDeR. i love your testimony showing how healing even a mind fuck can be :)

Slave2hersadism

@AngelDaRainha The intensity of that scene is both scary and intriguing to me Mistress. i know how Your boy must have felt because i have felt You get inside my head in the same way many times. Not as a mind fuck, but inside my head as You taunt and tease me as if You know my every desire

Humilatrixx

Another one of my favorites was with the same guy. He was bound to the bed, spread eagle and blindfolded. I toyed with him for quite awhile, before a knock came at the door (I had pre-arranged for a hotel worker to come deliver a newspaper at that time), I stepped outside, just enough all he could hear was mumbles. When I came back in, I slipped into the restroom which was right by the door... put on a new perfume (one I never used before), different outfit. I began toying with him again, but in a different mannerism, changed my responses to no words, just sounds in a different tone so he had NO clue it was me the whole time, he truly thought it was someone else, infact he still thinks that 10+ yrs down the road.

The Zen of Submission

I came across this along time ago and I am unable to credit the person who created it.  My apologies, and thank you to the writer.  Its an interesting read...and task.

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Quiet reflection on who and what you are and who and what you desire can bring peace, arousal, and hopefully a better understanding of what you want from BDSM.

Items Required – Collar or ribbon Any phallic object (a real sex toy or some other phallic object) 2 clothespins or nipple clamps Ruler Candle and matches (test the candle wax first on the back of your hand prior to beginning) Small blanket or towel Kitchen Timer.

Task – At the same time every day for 5 days you will perform this ritual. You can do this in the morning, afternoon or evening it is up to you but make time for it in your busy day, make it a priority. It should also be a time when you have peace and quiet. If you need to get up early please do so.

Each day’s session will be the same but you will vary your submissive activity during each session. You will begin in a dimly lit and quiet room, you will strip naked and put your small blanket on the floor (fold it so that it is just big enough to sit on). You will sit or kneel on the blanket in a way that is comfortable for you. Set your timer for 15 minutes and perform the following –

Day 1 – Slowly and with contemplation you will raise you collar/ribbon to your mouth and kiss it. A collar is a symbol of control and your submission. Contemplate that while buckling/tying your collar around your throat. Once your collar is on you will sit straight and proud and with your hands fingers interlaced behind your neck so that you are touching your collar.

Day 2 – Slowly and with contemplation you will raise your phallic symbol to your mouth and kiss it. This symbolic cock is a sign of control you give to a Master or Mistress. It is the losing of yourself completely to their sexual and emotional control if only for brief moments that you offer your submission. Contemplate that while slipping the phallic object into your mouth and holding it there. You will sit straight and proud and with your fingers wrapped around your own cock or slipped between your pussy lips aware of the sexuality you offer.

Day 3 – Slowly and with contemplation you will raise your clothespins or clamps to your mouth and kiss them. These are symbols that your body is not always your own while participating in this scene. It is the offering up of your body that you offer up your submission. Contemplate that while placing one on each nipple. You will sit straight and proud and with your hand lifting up your breasts (female) or resting just under your nipples (male) as if offering them to a Mistress or Master.

Day 4 – Slowly and with contemplation you will raise your ruler your mouth and kiss it. This is a symbol of the pain you offer to accept from your Mistress or Master. It is the offering up of this acceptance of pain that you will often find your submission. Contemplate that while giving yourself one smack on each inner thigh and one to your cock or pussy. You will then sit straight and proud and with the ruler between your teeth and you will give to yourself again any necessary smacks should the sting subside.

Day 5 – Slowly and with contemplation you will raise your candle to your mouth and kiss it. This is a symbol of the extraordinary sexual deviations you will offer to your Mistress or Master. It is the offering up of this wax on your body that you offer up your submission. Light your candle and contemplate that while dripping a line of wax down your chest so that it drips towards your sex. You will then sit straight and proud and with the candle in your hands.


While doing each of these you will sit quietly for your 15 minutes. Each day you should consider a new mantra of sorts. I am or I offer to my Master/Mistress __. (Fill in the blank daily.).  Repeat this in your head, close your eyes and picture yourself as you are here offering your submission. When your time is up get up slowly, clean up as necessary and go about your day.


Reporting – At the end of this Task you will submit a report detailing this experience. Briefly describe each day. What time did you perform? Any thoughts or feelings while you performed? Any other ideas, thoughts or feelings you would like to share.

A thank you after attending a Goddess afternoon tea

Thank you so much for coming and adding your energy to the mix!  You made the day for me.  Everyone loved you and insists we do it again.  I am so very pleased that you enjoyed everything!!! And thank you so much for my oils...

Miss V
25/9/11

An email I received

I received this email in early Sept 2011 from a chap on a Kinky site I am a member of.  It amused me so much I just had to share as it a communication I have never quite received from anyone before...

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Mz Neta
I saw your profile and wondered if you would consider me acceptable for your requirements.

I am new to this scene but have been wanting to adventure into a stronger lifestyle for quite a while. You would have to teach me your ways, which you would hopefully enjoy. I'm also not too sure how close our compatabilites are but let me tell you where your profile could meet my tastes.

I viewed your photos and was very excited by your beauty, your body, your colour and your wardrobe.

I don't think I'd want any pain infliction to be extreme, however I have a decent pain threshold. I also am a good actor and in the intrest of role playing, I would be happy with a modicum of flogging and whipping and I would enjoy giving a performance of pain, fear and desperation. If you wanted to humiliate and deride me, my behaviour would be submissive and subordinate. I would like to perform this part.

You profile mentioned strap-ons. While I have been penetrated there, it has been a rare occurence and I'd like to enter such activities with an understood limitation.

You mentioned CBT. I don't know what that means but most things on your profile sound interesting. I woner what this stands for.

You also say "A D/s dynamic is expected". If your meaning here could be clarified, I could then tell you if it sounded like me.

You mention BDSM events intra and interstate. If you were to favour me with some "Casual play sessions" and I found myself enjoying them, I would then be open to intrastate events. Interstate events would be a more difficult matter but, depending on how involved I become, not an impossibility.

You also mention "no vanilla sex" and I am of the same mind.

To tell you what I imagine, remembering I have little to no experience, I would enjoy you commanding me, abusively, to pleasure you. That is an aspect I fantasize about. A beautiful woman demanding my physical attention and working my privates. I derive great enjoyment from the fulfilment of my lovers. In particular I would like to tire my lips and tongue in the service of a mistress. I could handle some medium pain and might even extend my limits if a level of trust can be gained. I am also happy with some fake bondage, situations that look ensared but infact were escapable if need be. This area would have to develope a sense of trust between master and slave.

As for who I am. I am a 45 year old, professional from Hobart. I am 6 foot 1 and slim. I have short red hair and am reasonably attractive. I am very intelligent with a gentlemans demeanor. My member is a size to take pride in. It has been called handsome and is often remarkably durable.

If this initial approach leaves you thinking we might be mutual, I would love an email stating such and hope to enter into a correspondence with you.

GG.

Birthday Gathering for Miss V

Miss Voluptrixx and Ms Neta - 2010

I caught up with the lovely Miss V this afternoon.  It was her birthday earlier in the week and she invited myself and some of her close friends to celebrate her special day.

The spread of food was magnificent.  It would have fed at least 20 people.  There were seven of us *grins*

We sat around chatted, ate, drank and answered questions of dilemma scenarios.  Lots of laughter all around.

A slight digression, Miss V and I are attending a High Protocol Dinner in October so that will be terrific.

Back on topic, we have decided to get together every two months - a Group of Goddesses meeting and enjoying each other's company.  Yay for quality company.

~Ms Neta~

I get this... (2012)

My personality is such that there is no middle ground, people either love me or loathe me – Chucky - Sons of Anarchy

Klub Kunst - Ozkink 18/9/11

We attended Klub Kunst party on Sunday, 18th September 2011.

We arrived at the Sircuit Bar at 6.10pm.  bill dropped me off whilst he parked the car.  I waited.  Eventually I walked in to the Bar and went to the ticket box.  Taya was there and introduced herself to me.  Such a lovely person.  bill was introduced to Lady Taya, handed over tickets, and entered Klub Kunst.

As we were walking through, SurJackBastard.  We went to the cloak room and got ready.  bill removed his clothing and a rope was tied around bill’s left wrist and thigh - trapped.  Dominate with rope *smiles*.  We went downstairs, and I saw and greeted Mistress Mallice.  She is the organiser of the OzKink Festival.  The woman is a dynamo. 

We both went to the bar and bought a drink.  Saw a few more friends in the corner but they were busy so did not approach them.

Once our drinks were served we found a nice possie and watched the various scenes being conducted.  Numerous floggings mainly male dominants and female submissives.  It was an interesting watch.  I’m a voyeur after all. 

I chatted with Mz Electra Amour who was wearing an amazing corset made of swarovski crystal.  Stunning.  Met Cyppie who took a photo of both Mz E and I.  I did feel like a giant beside that beautiful woman ha ha ha.  Cyppie, myself and dog had a lengthy chat about the scene and the increasing number of events over the past few years.

I waved to SurJackBastard again and watched him flog another bottom.  I learned microbranding from him last year.  I saw Surgeon and went over to greet him, and later Surgeon’s shadow.  I learned to flog from Surgeon and Natalya last year.

We had a wonderful and lively chat with SurJackBastard’s submissive, saffireblue, and her sister, lily.  Such beautiful and genuine ladies to chat with.  A breath of fresh air finally after so much poison I endured last year. 

It was time to change the rope tie on bill so I did.  His right arm was tied up behind his back.  Fantastic.

I went to buy a drink and caught up with Das UberDom.  Such a beautiful, gentle, sadistic man.  I have always found him friendly and respectful towards me.  I like that man.

I met up with shrek9 who I did not recognise earlier.  It was great to see him again – a very nice person.  I then caught up with the very beautiful Alex Vicia and her slave.  We hung out for a while and talked rugby and the scene.  We were joined by Lady Miamia and her slave.  It was a great little group.  We all chatted and chuckled.

I moved away to go to the bathroom and met up with Mistress Velvet.  Lovely to see her too.  Only a brief chat we had but it was a pleasure to say hello.

There were some more Kinky scenes going on – rope bondage and needle play, and a couple of performances which I missed – too busy socialising.  The music and the atmosphere of the Klub was dark and sexy.

It was time to leave as it was almost 9.00pm and the doors would be opening for the gay clientele.  Many were staying behind but I was tired and need to sleep and eat.

I said goodbye to a few of the Kinksters who made my night most enjoyable.  Thank you to them all. 

2011 Fetish Photography Competition - 17/9/11

An exhibition of Fetish Photography was held at Lucrezia & de Sade Gallery organised by L&D and Sax Fetish.

Both bill and I attended this exhibition on Saturday evening and the turnout was terrific - it was great to see so many people supporting the community.


I caught up with some wonderful Kinky Folk, they being Mz Electra Amour, steponme, Dr Robert (Bob) Rubel, Master Joe, MJsgirl, Mistress Mallice, and Domina V.


A good time was had by all and I look forward to attending and support the Fetish Photography Exhibition in 2012.


Preamble

All the images are to feature a leather/fetish/kink theme and must incorporate at least one item of leather or kink clothing, apparatus, toys or accoutrements. Items may be featured or incidental to the main image or theme. Said Item(s) must be readily identifiable as to what they are.  Genuine Sax Fetish and Lucrezia & de Sade products whether house labels or proprietory products are preferred but not essential. 

Images may include but are not limited to people, objects or scapes only. All entries were original images produced by the entrant and not existing images electronically or digitally redesigned.  All images must be new work that has been produced since the previous Fetish Photography Competition.


The Winners

The Boot ( (Richard Hughes) won First Prize 

Red Riding Hood (Shami Kiely) won Second Prize

Stockings (John Dobson) won Third Prize

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What a thrill that these artworks (above) won out of the 104 submissions.

I chose the Third Prize - it was my favourite one.

bill chose The Boot - it was his favourite.

Good to see our favourites were chosen!!    YAY!!!

Dominate with Rope - 17/9/11

We attended a Rope Skillshare in Melbourne conducted by Aleni (DV8 House) from NSW on Saturday, 17th September 2011.

It was an amazing and informative skillshare.  Aleni as a presenter was amazing.  Confident, Charismatic and a extremely skilful Rope Bondage Queen!!

 

Take Control with Rope Presented by Aleni DV8 House

This class is a hands on workshop directed at the novice and intermediate male and female riggers who struggle with building a scene and topping with rope. You might be able to tie the knots but can you use the rope to dominate? You might be a rope bottom but would like to learn how to top with rope, you might be a dom/me who wants to improve their rope skills. Starting with three different types of restraint we'll explore play scenes to discover where you find your dominance and how to make the scene flow from your top space using your rope bondage skills. We'll find out how to adapt your scene for the bedroom or playparty public space. Taking some rope and learning how to wield it with attitude, to gag and disable the quickest mind using the rope as a pathway to the Top. During the class we'll be using hogties, quick arm restraints, and gags. Once these basics are mastered we'll learn to transition them into predicament bondage and fulfill specific intentions.

I recommend anyone who is interested in learning about Rope Bondage attend Aleni and DV8 House skillshares.  She/They are knowledgeable in what she/they teach and share in a non-confronting setting.  

5 reasons why kissing is good for you (1976)

SMOOCHING IS GREAT EXERCISE
Did you know kissing has the power to burn off that cheeky Mars Bar you scoffed to help you study? OK, you’d have to lock lips for a LONG time to burn a substanial amount of energy, but according to Bryant Stamford, a professor of exercise science from Hanover College in the US, a passionate kiss may double your metabolic rate (the speed at which we burn energy). So it totally counts as part of your fitness regimen, right?! Plus, the 30 odd facial muscles that get a good ol’ workout when you’re tongue tied could help you stay wrinkle free! 

IT'LL KEEP YOU OUT OF THE DENTIST CHAIR

You know what they say, a kiss a day keeps the dentist away... well, not really but maybe this should be your comeback if your dad goes psycho about your BF’s constant PDAs. The Victorian Health Department says kissing increases saliva flow, keeping your mouth, teeth and gums healthy and lowering plaque levels. A pash also exposes you to germs lurking in his mouth, strengthening your own immune system. Bonus!

 

KISS STRESS GOODBYE

When you lock lips with someone, nerve endings signal our brains to produce oxytocin, the hormone that promotes calmness and wellbeing. During a good kiss, your breathing slows, your mind focuses on the task at hand and feelgood hormones rush through your body – just like if you were meditating or taking a relaxing bath. Hmmm, forget yoga... kissing is an exam stress buster we’re excited about!

BOOST YOUR SELF-ESTEEM

Who doesn’t feel envious after witnessing your mate blissfully smooching her guy? That’s coz sharing a kiss can make you feel secure and better about yourself, boosting your self-confidence. One study has even found that adult couples who kissed each other goodbye before heading off to work were more likely to live longer than those who kissed less. Psychologist and CEO of Relationships Australia, Anne Hollonds, says the kiss is symbolic of the quality of the relationship. “It may be healthy and happy which means more displays of affection – and this can lead to a positive attitude!”

IT COULD HELP YOU DECIDE IF HE'S 'THE ONE'

Cancel your BFF chat session to discuss whether your crush really is boyfriend material, research suggests a pash could be all you need to decide if he’s worth pursuing. Author of The Science of Kissing, Sheril Kirshenbaum says kissing is the ultimate way to express how you feel. “Kissing puts us in close proximity to sample another person’s natural odour,” Sheril explains. Sounds gross but read on! “Our sense of smell and taste help us decide whether to pursue a deeper connection with our kisser and whether the bond will last.”

10/9/2011 - 1831

Gorgeous

This weekend 17-19/9/11

Off to Melbourne on Saturday, 17 October with my submissive, bill.

On Saturday - We have a 'dominate with rope' skillshare at 5.30pm.  At 1.30pm, we are going to meet up  with Mistress 160, sol, michelle, Miss Battina for a drink and chat in Fitzroy.  At 7.30pm, attending a Fetish Photography Exhibition.

On Sunday - In the morning, we are going to South Melbourne market to do some shopping then at 3.00pm we are off to Klub Kunst.  Very exciting!

Look forward to writing up about this fabulous weekend next week.

Service: 11/9/11

On Sunday, 11 September 2011, my submissive bill and husband, Jack, painted the interior walls of the hallway and stairway.  The undercoat was applied.  The final colour for these areas will be a cream. 


These two special people in my life were focussed in undertaking this painting task.  It was so lovely to watch them work quietly with guidance or direction with each other.  Occasionally, a compliment and encouragement would be thrown their way by me.  I appreciate those who help, support and love me.


My house is going to look great once they finish within a month.  I look forward to hanging all the family framed photos.


bill undertook this service for me because he knew it would please me. He strives to please me... and succeeds most of the time.


I am blessed to have these two wonderful males in my life keen to ensure I am happy and if I am happy, they will be rewarded.

A Happy Household with a Happy Wife, and a Happy Mistress .

OTK with sub bill: 10/9/11

Last Night, I had a most enjoyable scene with my submissive bill.

I arrived and he was kneeling as per our ritual.  I immediately requested him to stand up and assist me with connecting my suspender belt with the new fishnet stockings he bought me.  He was challenged for a while but he managed to marry the suspender and stockings.

With my PVC top, my fishnet stocking, studded stilettos along with my braided pigtails, I was indeed a picture of loveliness and sexiness.  Yes, Ego is not a dirty word!  *chuckles*

After a little chat, I proceeded to conduct O.T.K. with him.  Its always so lovely to see him squirm in discomfort. He even got a taste of the clover clamps.  His nipples weren't too happy with that pain but he endured for me as he does.  His arse cheeks went a rosy red - such a lovely shade.  My hand was used, followed by my hand brush and then a lovely paddle.  Alternating between three modes of impact implements, it was indeed thrilling.  You can just see bill's brand which will be redone in October.

Afterwards, I was massaged which is always enjoyable.  A lovely night it was.

~Ms Neta~

Preparations

I am preparing notes for an upcoming skillshare on Microbranding.  

I will be preparing notes on High Protocol for Female Dominants and submissives/slaves.

This Mistress takes on too much at times.  Oh well.

Have a great weekend everyone.

~Ms Neta~

With Dark Romance in Mind

More of the Wonderful Alex Chapmon: FemDom Artist

I  had to post more of Alex Chapmon's works.  The man is extremely talented and has created amazing works in honour of Black Women.  Thank you, Alex.

Bernard Montorgueil: FemDom Artist

Bernard Montorgueil (c. 1920)

An early Master of the then rare example of men being enslaved by hauty women who, while not wrestlers, or giants or nasty women, but elegant women who rule absolutely. Here, virility succumbs to gentleness, and humiliation in a way rendered sensual through gracefulness rather than violence.. Bernard Montorgueil's work is the most refined representation of male masochism, if indeed it is not the only one to adopt such an approach.

Bernard Montorgueil is draped in discretion. His work first circulated underground in the 50s, as four series of drawings together with four texts, originally hand written. For this edition of Les Quatre Jeudis suivi de Barbara as for that of Dressage suivi de Une Brune Piquante, the original plates have been specially retouched in color, in accordance with the long tradition of libertine illustration, by May.

This utterly demanding collection of thematic volumes approaches the great libertine illustrators "going back in time". These illustrations have the seduction of extincted things, the tender and obsolete charm of the beginning of the century.

Just as American illustrators were to perturb the world of comics, in a proliferating inversion like a cancer, vigorous and infinitly variable, so Bernard Montorgueil violates the rose water illustrations of romantic novels set in bourgeois apartments whose decor he faithfully reproduces. 

More... Namio Harukawa

This FemDom Artist is incredible, and I just had to share more of his artworks with you all.

Poetic Thoughts

I am happy

I am content

I am fulfilled

I am whole

My life is full of happiness

My family brings contentment to this life

My Jack and bill bring fulfilment in areas of my life where it is needed and wanted.

My dogs and guinea pigs bring me calmness most times

My life is truly Amazing.

Yes, I will grumble at times

Yes, I will complain at times

Yes, I will feel depressed occasionally

No, I am not discontent in this life

No, I do not want for anything because of these people and pets in my life

I love these wonderful beings in my life and I could not live without them… ever.

Journal: 5-9/9./11

Monday – School holidays so stayed home to look after my beautiful brood.  Put the cornbeef on in slow cooker.  Went for a half hour walk.  We went shopping, our son had a haircut, opened a bank account for our daughter, bought some bits and pieces, some hay for the guinea pigs, mini supermarket shop then went home.  Make tuna salad, and put it into rolls for the children’s lunch.  The cornbeef smelt beautiful.  At 2.00pm made a Pavlova.  At 5.00pm made a potato and cauliflower bake.  At 6.00pm dinner was served.  Why did I make this delicious meal?  Just because I was in the mood to cook something special for my family.

Tuesday – Organised daughter’s upcoming birthday party.  Went for a half hour walk with my son.  At 12.00pm we went off to the swimming pool so the children could have some leisure swimming.  They had a ball while I try to concentrate on them and my study.  Wasn’t very successful with the latter.  I watched Law and Order SVU most of the day.  We had pizza for dinner – it was bloody horrible.  Giuseppes.  I don’t recommend this brand.  Just like I don’t recommend Dominoes.  Yuk. 

Miss V texted me so we are going to catch up next week for a movie afternoon.  Should be fun.  She is a beautiful woman.

Wednesday – Did absolutely nothing major… just pottered around because it was my last day before returning to work.  The kids amused themselves.  I made Cornish pasties for two hours.  Damn it is hard work making these but they are pretty yummy.  A traditional recipe passed down through the generations.  After baking them, I went for a rest and watched more of SVU.  Such a good show.  At 6.00pm, Jack got home and we had lots of pasties with tomato sauce, pity we didn’t have Jack’s homemade sauce.  Next year, he can make some and I’ll make the pasties again.

I had an early night as I felt tired from trying to address a question in my assignment.  Had a terrible night sleep.

Thursday – Got through most of my assignment this afternoon.  One more question to finish but damn is it a doozey involving figures/statistics.  Not my forte at all.  I had a good day at work and everyone was pleased to see me back.   I am now home, relaxing, watch Alien -v- Predator 2.  Yep, I need some mind-numbing before I meet with my tutor tomorrow and she'll inform me if I am on the right track with my first module.  Fingers crossed folks.

Friday - I had my assessment for my first module of the Frontline Management course and passed.  My tutor was extremely happy.  The oral test was unexpected but I breezed through... well, with a little babble thrown in.  We picked up our new car today - Mitsubishi 380 - very nice looking.  My work day was productive.  Young cobber was neutered and I haven't seen him yet.  I look forward to seeing the little lop on Monday.  Got home, had a couple of glasses of wine to celebrate the passing of my first module.  Yay for me and everyone around me.  I have been shaved and feel lighter than ever *grins*


Saturday - Sitting in bed although will be up shortly to go for a walk.  My body is feeling a lot healthier... pity the weather is shit at the moment.  My daughter has gone out to a puppet show with her friend, Jack is doing the washing, the rest are cruising around the house enjoying being home.