These pics are not mine but were sent to me to give me ideas for my next ClubFEM Tas party. Terrific images all of them...don't you agree?
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Friday 28 December 2012
Ideas for my Human Furniture ClubFEM Tas party - 27/1/2013
These pics are not mine but were sent to me to give me ideas for my next ClubFEM Tas party. Terrific images all of them...don't you agree?
Friday 14 December 2012
Breast Cancer awareness
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Monday 10 December 2012
8/12/12
On Saturday, 8th December, I attended a local play party. It was held at an amazing venue. Numerous kinksters attended and there were many I did not even know. There were a handful I recognised and we all greeted and chatted with each other. That said, I was somewhat reserved as it been 2 years since I attended this particular club's party due a clash between the then president and myself. Anyway, bill had set up the Cross, Spanking bench and Massage table for use by others. There was plenty of food, and I drank some wine and observed all the goings on. There were a lot of people from intrastate so that successful for the Hobart-based group, and the organisers. Well done to them. A speech was made more greetings ensued and then play was encouraged. Some folks went upstairs and commenced their play but I wasn't quite in the mood. There was a cage downstairs, so I decided to play bill inside that. He was shackled, leashed, blindfolded and nipple clamped. It was terrific. I wandered around and chatted with a few people but otherwise I remained in the lounge area watching old episodes of Dr Who - yes I know - and continued chatting. I realised bill was the only one in service, well besides the organiser and one other couple. We were the odd ones out.
Anyway as you can see by the photos, bill was happy in his dog cage for about 45 minutes. The nipple clamps were removed after 15 minutes though. He was content, and I was proud of my little doggy.
I left at 10.30pm as I was tired. It had been a hot day and it was time to go to sleep and catch up on my beauty sleep.
The play part was enjoyable but I much prefer FemDom energy. That is where my real interests lay. FemDom forever!!!
Tuesday 4 December 2012
4/12/12
From my submissive bill's journal. Its a lovely read. I had a thoroughly enjoyable time.
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Happy to not be to rushed today preparing for my lovely Mistress visit. She has not been feeling well and does not wish to eat a heavy meal. Only a salad. This gave me a bit of time to relax in the morning, before cleaning up the house. Always happy to relax in the house after it has been cleaned, but no time now. Will enjoy it tomorrow. Managed to cut the grass and bag it just before the rains came. Very happy with my timing...hee hee.
Made my beautiful salad, extra avocado, no tomato with some roasted sweet potato....yummo !! My lovely Mistress was feeling some what better and was getting pretty hungry so added some cooked chicken to the mix :)
Had a bit of work to do when my Mistress arrived, unloading car of equipment for the up coming play party. Finally completed that then a chance to sit at my beautiful Mistress feet and hear about recent events. Love hearing what has been happening in her life. Was surprised my Mistress was bright, excited and fresh looking after her sickness.....wow, my Mistress is the best !!
Dinner was pretty good, should do that type of meal more. A light healthy meal to keep us light on our feet.
Off to the bedroom for our scene. I decided to use the bentwood chair, should fit in the wardrobe pretty well, keep me in a good posture and have plenty of tie points for plenty of bondage options. My lovely Mistress didn't complain and actually was pretty happy to be roping me up. I was pretty excited too, to feel the rope tight on my flesh as I couldn't see anything with a blindfold in place. All part of the fun. My Mistress then shut the door, didn't make any difference, I could not perceive any fade of light what so ever.
Now, being alone in the closet, in bondage, nothing can work but the mind and it certainly starts ticking. Wondering how long I will be left here alone. Listening for sounds from my lovely Mistress, wondering what she is doing. Wondering what she has install for me. I was wondering back to the last time my Mistress put me into the chest in the living room. Remembering the sudden bursts of attack from my Mistress, a quick opening lid and a couple of sharp wackes from an impact implement and before I knew it the lid was closed again. Hoping it wouldn't be like this again. I was bound good and proper and didn't even realize there was a rope running near the front of my face up to a tie point above me until I bent forward to relieve some discomfort. Wondered what this rope was doing ?? Decided I should put it into the memory bank, wouldn't want to put any force on it and pull down the rail it is tied to.
When I heard the solid wack on the door I didn't like my chances of escaping lightly and I was becoming nervous and worried. Heard the door open quickly then wack, wack, wack on my leg and shoulder, sudden stings coming from those areas. I certainly was worried now. This is going to be a long night ! My Mistress opened the door quickly again, a few more stinging wacks and a few pinches ! Wosh ! The door was closed and I could hear her walking away. I chance to rest and recover. I had jumped around on the chair from the shock of the sudden impacts which loosened the ropes around my chest. This gave me a bit of movement to lean forward when it became uncomfortable in the normal sitting position. Grateful for small comforts :) The bondage was well done, keeping me restrained but allowing circulation to flow. Wish I could move my arms to a different position but they were stuck between my legs. Pretty quickly another wack was heard on the door, solid and hard. I muttered " Oh my God" bracing for the impact about to happen. Yeap ! The door open quickly by my Mistress and sudden wacks again !! My upper thigh was sting now, it had taken a few hits in close proximity to each other and was feeling it. Jeez, I haven't had any impact play for awhile, it was stinging and I felt like a wimp. I am certainly no masochist, hoping for the pain to stop. My Mistress concentrated a few blows on my shoulders and back before closing the door. Could not tell that she had left as I was whimpering and breathing heavily. Took me a while to realize she had left. Took me even longer to recover my breath. I was thinking "Jeez, these wacks are on areas that hurt and have not been warmed up. They are cold so it hurts even more, damn this is tough to bear. How many more times do I have to bear it ?" Well I have my safe word and can use it if I need to. Tried to recover to the best of my ability, moved around on the chair, lent my head against the wall so the wall would take some weight. Wondered what the time was. Was it dark yet. Where was my Mistress. Didn't take a lot of wondering, she was back so enough, I could hear her foot steps comming. Some more hits on the leg, in the same spot, damn ! Next, something different, a wartenburg wheel. Damn, I didn't like that either, no rest for dog !! Next a different plan of attack from my Mistress. Seemed she came in behind me slightly so she had a better aim of my back. My Mistress did land some decent hits, a couple on the same tender spot that did sting sooo much ! My Mistress was off then, disappeared into the darkness, leaving me to think and contemplate the next attack. I was thinking this is too much, my Mistress loves me, this is not right and I started to quiver in the lips and have a slight tear appearing leaning into the corner. Damn, It was hard to pull myself back from this and not break up, like standing on a knifes edge, not knowing which way I will fall. Eventually came back from the cliff face a little composed.
Luckily the next time my Mistress visited there were a few hits before she sounded out that we were near the end, physically I could bear it, mentally it was more harder. Still the same struggle. Why is she beating me if she loves me. Again it was very hard to not fall into a bundling blubber of a wreck. Even after my Mistress had released me from the bondage I was still somewhat of a wreck. Water helped but just laying on the bed feeling my lovely Mistresses smooth soft skin brought me back. Actually surprised how quickly I recovered to enjoy my Mistress in a different light :)
Made my beautiful salad, extra avocado, no tomato with some roasted sweet potato....yummo !! My lovely Mistress was feeling some what better and was getting pretty hungry so added some cooked chicken to the mix :)
Had a bit of work to do when my Mistress arrived, unloading car of equipment for the up coming play party. Finally completed that then a chance to sit at my beautiful Mistress feet and hear about recent events. Love hearing what has been happening in her life. Was surprised my Mistress was bright, excited and fresh looking after her sickness.....wow, my Mistress is the best !!
Dinner was pretty good, should do that type of meal more. A light healthy meal to keep us light on our feet.
Off to the bedroom for our scene. I decided to use the bentwood chair, should fit in the wardrobe pretty well, keep me in a good posture and have plenty of tie points for plenty of bondage options. My lovely Mistress didn't complain and actually was pretty happy to be roping me up. I was pretty excited too, to feel the rope tight on my flesh as I couldn't see anything with a blindfold in place. All part of the fun. My Mistress then shut the door, didn't make any difference, I could not perceive any fade of light what so ever.
Now, being alone in the closet, in bondage, nothing can work but the mind and it certainly starts ticking. Wondering how long I will be left here alone. Listening for sounds from my lovely Mistress, wondering what she is doing. Wondering what she has install for me. I was wondering back to the last time my Mistress put me into the chest in the living room. Remembering the sudden bursts of attack from my Mistress, a quick opening lid and a couple of sharp wackes from an impact implement and before I knew it the lid was closed again. Hoping it wouldn't be like this again. I was bound good and proper and didn't even realize there was a rope running near the front of my face up to a tie point above me until I bent forward to relieve some discomfort. Wondered what this rope was doing ?? Decided I should put it into the memory bank, wouldn't want to put any force on it and pull down the rail it is tied to.
When I heard the solid wack on the door I didn't like my chances of escaping lightly and I was becoming nervous and worried. Heard the door open quickly then wack, wack, wack on my leg and shoulder, sudden stings coming from those areas. I certainly was worried now. This is going to be a long night ! My Mistress opened the door quickly again, a few more stinging wacks and a few pinches ! Wosh ! The door was closed and I could hear her walking away. I chance to rest and recover. I had jumped around on the chair from the shock of the sudden impacts which loosened the ropes around my chest. This gave me a bit of movement to lean forward when it became uncomfortable in the normal sitting position. Grateful for small comforts :) The bondage was well done, keeping me restrained but allowing circulation to flow. Wish I could move my arms to a different position but they were stuck between my legs. Pretty quickly another wack was heard on the door, solid and hard. I muttered " Oh my God" bracing for the impact about to happen. Yeap ! The door open quickly by my Mistress and sudden wacks again !! My upper thigh was sting now, it had taken a few hits in close proximity to each other and was feeling it. Jeez, I haven't had any impact play for awhile, it was stinging and I felt like a wimp. I am certainly no masochist, hoping for the pain to stop. My Mistress concentrated a few blows on my shoulders and back before closing the door. Could not tell that she had left as I was whimpering and breathing heavily. Took me a while to realize she had left. Took me even longer to recover my breath. I was thinking "Jeez, these wacks are on areas that hurt and have not been warmed up. They are cold so it hurts even more, damn this is tough to bear. How many more times do I have to bear it ?" Well I have my safe word and can use it if I need to. Tried to recover to the best of my ability, moved around on the chair, lent my head against the wall so the wall would take some weight. Wondered what the time was. Was it dark yet. Where was my Mistress. Didn't take a lot of wondering, she was back so enough, I could hear her foot steps comming. Some more hits on the leg, in the same spot, damn ! Next, something different, a wartenburg wheel. Damn, I didn't like that either, no rest for dog !! Next a different plan of attack from my Mistress. Seemed she came in behind me slightly so she had a better aim of my back. My Mistress did land some decent hits, a couple on the same tender spot that did sting sooo much ! My Mistress was off then, disappeared into the darkness, leaving me to think and contemplate the next attack. I was thinking this is too much, my Mistress loves me, this is not right and I started to quiver in the lips and have a slight tear appearing leaning into the corner. Damn, It was hard to pull myself back from this and not break up, like standing on a knifes edge, not knowing which way I will fall. Eventually came back from the cliff face a little composed.
Luckily the next time my Mistress visited there were a few hits before she sounded out that we were near the end, physically I could bear it, mentally it was more harder. Still the same struggle. Why is she beating me if she loves me. Again it was very hard to not fall into a bundling blubber of a wreck. Even after my Mistress had released me from the bondage I was still somewhat of a wreck. Water helped but just laying on the bed feeling my lovely Mistresses smooth soft skin brought me back. Actually surprised how quickly I recovered to enjoy my Mistress in a different light :)
Friday 23 November 2012
Domination and submission - 23/11/12 (22527)
I requested my Kinky Ass-istant to conduct another task for to be handed in by today, 23rd November 2012. Being the impressive gurl, she is, the assignment was handed in promptly. I requested she write me half a page about meaning of a D/s dynamic. This is what she wrote:
Domination and submission means many more things than can be written in half a page but I will try and explain what it means to me.
The D/s dynamic, to me, is the mental side of BDSM. Physical contact, though desired is not necessary. It is based on the ability of the Dominant person to get inside the mind of the submissive. The people involved do not necessarily need to know each other; though for the relationship to work they must learn from each other about what works for each. They do not need to know real names or even meet as the relationship can be carried out by phone, email or even old fashioned snail mail.
What is absolutely required is that the participants get erotic enjoyment or some form of pleasure from either dominating or being dominated. The domination does not have to be sexual. The submissive can gain great pleasure from just serving and pleasing the Dominant as the Dominant can take pleasure from being served and pleased.
I think most people think of dungeons, whips and chains when D/s is mentioned and in many cases that may be exactly what they desire. It is not that for me. To me it is about control and consent. I look for the opportunity to do something for you that will please you in some way. I hope that you will get pleasure from setting me something to do that will benefit you, amuse you, entertain you or in some way make you smile that smile. It doesn't have to be sexual or sadistic, although that is always welcome; it is just about doing something simply because you ask for it to be done. It will always be my pleasure to attempt whatever you want because you want it. I hope that I am not only compliant to your will but actively seeking to do my best for you. I want, more than any pleasure of mine, to please you.
D/s is also about trust and respect. I need to be able to trust that you will not do anything, or ask anything of me that would harm me or my life just as you need to trust that I will not seek to interfere in any way with your life. I have the utmost respect for you as a Person, a Dominant Lady and of course your absolute right to privacy. I believe that you respect my privacy as well.
I do not believe that all Dominants are by nature cruel any more than I believe that all submissive's are ‘doormats’ though of course some are. Many submissive's are Dominant in their normal life and enjoy the giving up of power in a D/s relationship. Some submissive's dominate other submissive's.
What D/s means to me is submitting to you in whatever way you desire, if it is possible for me to do so, but not for what I get out of it, but the hope that it gives you pleasure in some form. My pleasure is always secondary to that but when I please you I gain great enjoyment from it.
Domination and submission
Domination and submission means many more things than can be written in half a page but I will try and explain what it means to me.
The D/s dynamic, to me, is the mental side of BDSM. Physical contact, though desired is not necessary. It is based on the ability of the Dominant person to get inside the mind of the submissive. The people involved do not necessarily need to know each other; though for the relationship to work they must learn from each other about what works for each. They do not need to know real names or even meet as the relationship can be carried out by phone, email or even old fashioned snail mail.
What is absolutely required is that the participants get erotic enjoyment or some form of pleasure from either dominating or being dominated. The domination does not have to be sexual. The submissive can gain great pleasure from just serving and pleasing the Dominant as the Dominant can take pleasure from being served and pleased.
I think most people think of dungeons, whips and chains when D/s is mentioned and in many cases that may be exactly what they desire. It is not that for me. To me it is about control and consent. I look for the opportunity to do something for you that will please you in some way. I hope that you will get pleasure from setting me something to do that will benefit you, amuse you, entertain you or in some way make you smile that smile. It doesn't have to be sexual or sadistic, although that is always welcome; it is just about doing something simply because you ask for it to be done. It will always be my pleasure to attempt whatever you want because you want it. I hope that I am not only compliant to your will but actively seeking to do my best for you. I want, more than any pleasure of mine, to please you.
D/s is also about trust and respect. I need to be able to trust that you will not do anything, or ask anything of me that would harm me or my life just as you need to trust that I will not seek to interfere in any way with your life. I have the utmost respect for you as a Person, a Dominant Lady and of course your absolute right to privacy. I believe that you respect my privacy as well.
I do not believe that all Dominants are by nature cruel any more than I believe that all submissive's are ‘doormats’ though of course some are. Many submissive's are Dominant in their normal life and enjoy the giving up of power in a D/s relationship. Some submissive's dominate other submissive's.
What D/s means to me is submitting to you in whatever way you desire, if it is possible for me to do so, but not for what I get out of it, but the hope that it gives you pleasure in some form. My pleasure is always secondary to that but when I please you I gain great enjoyment from it.
Task: 21/11/12
Dear Ms Neta
I very much enjoyed submitting to you for this task but I found it harder than I had expected. I had a problem with the pegs. 
First of all I could only get wooden ones so no colour.
Second I found it difficult to get them to stay on. It was O.K. on my nipples and the hairier parts of my belly but on my chest they kept sliding off so what had been intended as two lines ended up as just where I could get them to stay.
I did the full 10 minutes with all 20 pegs so because of the fiddling around some were on for considerably longer.
Anyway, thank you it was quite painful where my skin was thinner and I enjoyed both the submission and the pain.
Respectfully Yours
Your Kinky Ass-istant
Your Kinky Ass-istant
Wednesday 14 November 2012
14/11/12
Yes, I am still on sabbatical but I had to write up my journal for my recent kinky journey to Melbourne on 3rd and 4th November 2012.
I left for Melbourne to attend two Kink events with a mistress friend of mine. I arrived in the afternoon, picked up hire car, drove to Footscray to buy some hair product, then off to Brunswick to my hotel. What a lovely day it was in Melbourne.
I was starved once I arrived so went for a walk to buy a kebab. Oh what a delight. I got back to hotel, text a few people, then had a nap. I awoke at 8.00pmish via a text alarm and contacted my mistress friend to find out when she was arriving. She had arrived and was downstairs with the submissive driver - our driver for the weekend.
I rushed around to get dressed before they arrived at the hotel room door. I was not happy as I had not had any communication about when she was to arrive. Anyway she arrived, we got dressed, and left for the Event. Kinky.
We arrived at the Club. It was rocking!! Of course, I looked terrific. PVC from head to toe. Before I knew it, I met up with other kinksters who I did not realise were attending. It was fantastic. I would say I caught up with 15 other Dominants/submissives/slaves - both females and males. It was an amazing night.
I gave two birthday spankings to a slave TS, and a female slave. It was most enjoyable... except for a rude interruption by a female dominant who wanted to comment on the TS slave's shoes. UGH.
I had a male submissive in service to me for the evening. andrew. He was delicious. Our driver, andi, was very good and my mistress friend was taken with him. Everyone had an enjoyable time, I must say.
Our driver drove us back to our hotel room, stayed and massaged both our feet. It was nice. By 3.00am I was exremely tired and wanted to go to sleep. I got to sleep, then my mistress friend woke me up with her snoring about 3.50am. By 7.00am I decided to get up, well stay awake and text with people. This Mistress was one tired woman.
My mistress friend and I were off to having morning tea with the TS slave and so we travelled for 40 mins. Nice day. Had a lovely coffee and banana cake. Enjoyed the dungeon she had created with her own hands - wrought iron furniture, spanking bench, cage, suspension bed, totally amazing room. Oh, I would love one of those.
We left around 12.00pm and stopped to have lunch... OK, we got lost, so decided to stop and have lunch. We then found our hotel and chatted for about 2 hours. It was time for my mistress friend to leave so I drove her to the airport. Yes she was in Melbourne for about 15 hours. Aah, a Girls' weekend. Anyway, I got back to hotel room, listened to jazz music, rested, had a nap, woke up and was picked up by another Mistress friend. We went off to a Japanese restaurant and had a right old chat... well, she chatted for 2 hours and I listened, nodded, and nodded, and nodded. :)
She dropped me off about 8.00pm, and the submissive who was in service to me the night before was coming over to massage my feet. He brought some beer, as I really felt like one, some cream for my feet, and grapes.
I requested he remove his clothing, apply pegs to his lovely nipples and tend to my feet... which he did beautifully. We had a most enjoyable night together I have to say.
Sleep was calling me and I was asleep about 11.00pm. I woke up about 8.00am, and prepared for my return to Hobart. About 9.00am, I checked out of the hotel and then parked car walked to the $2 shop in Sydney Road, and shopped happily. Incense, candles, bits and pieces for the family. I drove to airport and flew back to Hobart.
Overall, I had a terrific weekend with my mistress friend with only a couple of annoyances.
Hooray for Kink weekends.
I left for Melbourne to attend two Kink events with a mistress friend of mine. I arrived in the afternoon, picked up hire car, drove to Footscray to buy some hair product, then off to Brunswick to my hotel. What a lovely day it was in Melbourne.
I was starved once I arrived so went for a walk to buy a kebab. Oh what a delight. I got back to hotel, text a few people, then had a nap. I awoke at 8.00pmish via a text alarm and contacted my mistress friend to find out when she was arriving. She had arrived and was downstairs with the submissive driver - our driver for the weekend.
I rushed around to get dressed before they arrived at the hotel room door. I was not happy as I had not had any communication about when she was to arrive. Anyway she arrived, we got dressed, and left for the Event. Kinky.
We arrived at the Club. It was rocking!! Of course, I looked terrific. PVC from head to toe. Before I knew it, I met up with other kinksters who I did not realise were attending. It was fantastic. I would say I caught up with 15 other Dominants/submissives/slaves - both females and males. It was an amazing night.
I gave two birthday spankings to a slave TS, and a female slave. It was most enjoyable... except for a rude interruption by a female dominant who wanted to comment on the TS slave's shoes. UGH.
I had a male submissive in service to me for the evening. andrew. He was delicious. Our driver, andi, was very good and my mistress friend was taken with him. Everyone had an enjoyable time, I must say.
Our driver drove us back to our hotel room, stayed and massaged both our feet. It was nice. By 3.00am I was exremely tired and wanted to go to sleep. I got to sleep, then my mistress friend woke me up with her snoring about 3.50am. By 7.00am I decided to get up, well stay awake and text with people. This Mistress was one tired woman.
My mistress friend and I were off to having morning tea with the TS slave and so we travelled for 40 mins. Nice day. Had a lovely coffee and banana cake. Enjoyed the dungeon she had created with her own hands - wrought iron furniture, spanking bench, cage, suspension bed, totally amazing room. Oh, I would love one of those.
We left around 12.00pm and stopped to have lunch... OK, we got lost, so decided to stop and have lunch. We then found our hotel and chatted for about 2 hours. It was time for my mistress friend to leave so I drove her to the airport. Yes she was in Melbourne for about 15 hours. Aah, a Girls' weekend. Anyway, I got back to hotel room, listened to jazz music, rested, had a nap, woke up and was picked up by another Mistress friend. We went off to a Japanese restaurant and had a right old chat... well, she chatted for 2 hours and I listened, nodded, and nodded, and nodded. :)
She dropped me off about 8.00pm, and the submissive who was in service to me the night before was coming over to massage my feet. He brought some beer, as I really felt like one, some cream for my feet, and grapes.
Sleep was calling me and I was asleep about 11.00pm. I woke up about 8.00am, and prepared for my return to Hobart. About 9.00am, I checked out of the hotel and then parked car walked to the $2 shop in Sydney Road, and shopped happily. Incense, candles, bits and pieces for the family. I drove to airport and flew back to Hobart.
Overall, I had a terrific weekend with my mistress friend with only a couple of annoyances.
Hooray for Kink weekends.
Monday 8 October 2012
Sabbatical
Good evening.
I'm just sharing with those people who read this just to inform you I am on sabbatical for the next three months.
I will be active offline but not so much online.
I will return as I so enjoy this life but I have other focusses that require my attention at this time. I do have a couple of kink events to attend this month and next month which I will write up about, however, there won't be the usual regular posts for the interim period.
I still have my submissive and another in my realm who I will continue to enjoy but that is the extent of my interactions at this time.
Ms Neta
I'm just sharing with those people who read this just to inform you I am on sabbatical for the next three months.
I will be active offline but not so much online.
I will return as I so enjoy this life but I have other focusses that require my attention at this time. I do have a couple of kink events to attend this month and next month which I will write up about, however, there won't be the usual regular posts for the interim period.
I still have my submissive and another in my realm who I will continue to enjoy but that is the extent of my interactions at this time.
Ms Neta
Tuesday 2 October 2012
30/9/12 - Flogging
Flogging for one hour, ten minutes. Caning and Birching was included. It wa a most enjoyable flogging session, and as you can all see, my submissive enjoyed it very mutch too. Aah impact play is so cathartic.
I even enjoyed practising using two floggers. I will need to do more of that type of play but it was so much fun watching my submissive flinch, sigh, jerk, dance, zone out, embrace the lick, the kiss, the feel of the various floggers. The music certainly added to the scene as well. I really should video one of our scenes one day.
Anyway we finished our time together with a fruit platter and pampering time. We always have a terrific time together.
30/9/12
My trainee is no longer being trained by me. The other day, he requested to cease being trained as he was looking for emotional as well as the physical aspects of D/s. I reminded him that he was not my submissive and that our relationship was only ever about training. He has experienced a few things in my realm and I hope one day he finds a relationship where he can thoroughly enjoy a full D/s relationship. He is a lovely young man and I wish him all the very best in his future.
Tuesday 25 September 2012
Scene for this coming Saturday
Double scene planned for this coming weekend - Saturday.
Photos will be posted soon after. Kinky fun for us all!!
- Mummification and anal play for my trainee.
- Flogging and bondage for my submissive.
Photos will be posted soon after. Kinky fun for us all!!
22/9/12
On Saturday, 22nd September 2012 I had an emotional rollercoaster of a day.
I discovered my pet cavy dead. He had diarrhoea the night before, I isolated him from the others and made sure he was comfortable - bluey - left refreshments for him, plenty of hay and warmth. The next morning 4.55am, I jumped up to see how he was - he was dead. He was a crest headed american cavy - orange coloured with a white tuff on his head. We had only had him for 4 weeks. I bought him for a companion for our other boy. Needless to say, I was shocked and very upset by this sudden loss. The loss of our little boy was conveyed to our family. All were very sad. He was given a lovely burial.
It was Jack's birthday also.
I made him bacon, eggs, grilled tomato and sauteed mushrooms. He was gifted by the family for his special day.
At 10.00am, I left our residence and went to purchase another cavy for a companion for Cookie. A few other errands were undertaken.
I arrived at home about 11.00am and my submissive bill had arrived as he was assisting Jack to lay instant turf on a stoned area we had in the backyard. They worked hard all day. I sat, watched, and appreciated all that my wonderful males do for me.
We had birthday cake for Jack.
At 6.00pm we went off to a lovely restaurant, bill was invited by Jack to join us for dinner. It was a pleasant meal but the company was marvellous. All of my family together.
It was a long day... sad, happy and pleasant.
I wish to thank my submissive bill for all that he does for me, and my family actually. His service is exemplary and I am pleased he came into my life. We all enjoy him... and I very much appreciate him.
Ms Neta
I discovered my pet cavy dead. He had diarrhoea the night before, I isolated him from the others and made sure he was comfortable - bluey - left refreshments for him, plenty of hay and warmth. The next morning 4.55am, I jumped up to see how he was - he was dead. He was a crest headed american cavy - orange coloured with a white tuff on his head. We had only had him for 4 weeks. I bought him for a companion for our other boy. Needless to say, I was shocked and very upset by this sudden loss. The loss of our little boy was conveyed to our family. All were very sad. He was given a lovely burial.
It was Jack's birthday also.
I made him bacon, eggs, grilled tomato and sauteed mushrooms. He was gifted by the family for his special day.
At 10.00am, I left our residence and went to purchase another cavy for a companion for Cookie. A few other errands were undertaken.
I arrived at home about 11.00am and my submissive bill had arrived as he was assisting Jack to lay instant turf on a stoned area we had in the backyard. They worked hard all day. I sat, watched, and appreciated all that my wonderful males do for me.
We had birthday cake for Jack.
At 6.00pm we went off to a lovely restaurant, bill was invited by Jack to join us for dinner. It was a pleasant meal but the company was marvellous. All of my family together.
It was a long day... sad, happy and pleasant.
I wish to thank my submissive bill for all that he does for me, and my family actually. His service is exemplary and I am pleased he came into my life. We all enjoy him... and I very much appreciate him.
Ms Neta
Sunday 16 September 2012
Special Thank you
I would like to give a special thanks and appreciation to my kinky ass-istant who will be increasing 'her' assistance to me, for me, over time.
15/9/12
I caught up with my submissive on Friday. I was going to scene with my trainee as well but unfortunately my submissive wasn't 100% so it was called off.
I look forward to catching up with both my sub and trainee in two weeks' time. Mummification, anal play and flogging will be involved. And of course, photos will be posted when at that time. :)
I had some nice fish and chips on Friday evening and my feet were lovingly pampered. They feel and look fabulous now. Thank you sub bill.
I look forward to catching up with both my sub and trainee in two weeks' time. Mummification, anal play and flogging will be involved. And of course, photos will be posted when at that time. :)
I had some nice fish and chips on Friday evening and my feet were lovingly pampered. They feel and look fabulous now. Thank you sub bill.
Thursday 13 September 2012
A poem by my Kinky Ass-istant - Sept 2012
Your dark, lustrous locks of black hair set the stage
For that inimitable smile that lights up all rooms
It even eclipses that partially exposed cleavage
Making my pulse race, despite the crop that looms
Before my eyes, which are drawn to the exposed black lace
Straining to keep your magnificence covered, and I cower
But only briefly, before returning to your beautiful face
Those eyes so bright and strong with your inner power
That belies your well thought out intended sadistic acts
We have discussed what you would enjoy enacting
I have no fear of harm, I know you care, I need no pacts
Though I know it will hurt enough to leave me crying
My only wish and desire is to continue to be allowed
To serve you Ms Neta, in all and any ways I am able
My devotion, worship, and admiration remain avowed
And allow me to keep my mundane life happy and stable
Tuesday 11 September 2012
Submissive vs Slave vs Bottom:
Bottom:
Someone who loves to be played with and will allow a dominant to top them but ONLY for the duration of a play scene. Once the scene is over they are 100% equals and it’s not uncommon for a bottom to dictate what kind of play they want. For example, I occasionally want an endorphin rush so will ask a friend to use a single tail on me - I dictate when, where, how hard, what toys, and I am NEVER bound because I am controlling what I want - he complies because he is a good friend and its all in fun. Thus I can and do bottom, but I am NEVER submissive. I am not wired that way. A bottom does not submit, a bottom never gives up control.
Submissive:
Someone who wants to yield control to a dominant. They negotiate boundaries and the dominant sets safe words for them. BDSM to them isn’t about just the sensations; it’s about being in that submissive headspace. It’s about submitting your mind and body (and possibly your heart) to a dominant for them to use as they see fit (within your limitations of course). A submissive is a submissive long before a scene starts and continues to be a submissive long after a scene ends. It is a part of who they are and how they relate to their dominant partner. A submissive is NOT a doormat, they are an independent free thinking person who compliments a dominant in their servitude. A submissive has the right to walk away from a relationship if it isn’t meeting their personal needs.
Slave:
There are so many different views on what a slave is or isn’t but here is the general consensus. A slave is a submissive who takes it one step further giving up all rights to their dominant partner. They give up safe words and trust 100% that their dominant will do whatever is in their best interest. They do not question their dominant, they obey without reservation. The rules for a slave can be quite strict and the discipline for breaking the rules can vary drastically. It is generally accepted that a slave must beg for permission to be released should they ever feel the need to leave a relationship – but the reality is slavery in that context is not legally binding (even with a contract signed) and no one can prevent someone from leaving a relationship should it either not meet their needs or if it becomes abusive.
Poem/Story by my text bitch: 9/9/12
In my dreams, I am Ms Neta’s bitch. I am yet to have the great honour of meeting Ms Neta but in my dreams, Ms Neta's beauty is that of an angel, her eyes sparkle like shooting stars as Ms Neta looks into mine, her lips are soft and gentle and moist as she kisses my cheek on our first meet.
Ms Neta’s sweet scent is seducing to anyone she walks past. Ms Neta walks tall with her gorgeous long womanly legs taking long strides as people set aside. Her heels click the footpath with each seductive step.
In my dreams, Ms Neta has such a powerfully impressive personality and aura as she enters the room and people can’t help but stare yet her dominance forces eyes to the floor before her. Oh how I crave to meet Ms Neta. xoxo
Journal: 11/9/12
Hi Everyone
Its been another busy week. The days are going by TOO quickly.
I see I have another follower. Welcome.
I have some catch up to do on my blog so best I get started before my next kink activity arrives... I am scening with both my submissive and trainee. One will be flogged, and the other mummified. The latter will also experience an anal plug, well, that's if he buys one in time.
Last weekend, I had a second ClubFEM Tasmania event. It was a last minute arrangement but it turned out well with a handful of people joining me for Cocktails/Mocktails mixed with a variety of stimulating conversation in both vanilla and kink topics.
I have created a new blog which will focus purely on ClubFEM matters. I will post a link once I have developed it further.
I may have mentioned in my journal last week that I had removed myself from a few of the Groups I was actively participating in due to "too much going on in life". I feel so much better and don't feel like I here, there and everywhere.
My mind feels a lot more relaxed... for the time being.
I am off to Melbourne in November with my friend, MM, to attend a Kink event and catch up with some kinky friends. I'm looking forward to that weekend.
OK, I am off to post some pics and writings to share with you all.
Enjoy your evening, Everyone.
Ms Neta
Its been another busy week. The days are going by TOO quickly.
I see I have another follower. Welcome.
I have some catch up to do on my blog so best I get started before my next kink activity arrives... I am scening with both my submissive and trainee. One will be flogged, and the other mummified. The latter will also experience an anal plug, well, that's if he buys one in time.
Last weekend, I had a second ClubFEM Tasmania event. It was a last minute arrangement but it turned out well with a handful of people joining me for Cocktails/Mocktails mixed with a variety of stimulating conversation in both vanilla and kink topics.
I have created a new blog which will focus purely on ClubFEM matters. I will post a link once I have developed it further.
I may have mentioned in my journal last week that I had removed myself from a few of the Groups I was actively participating in due to "too much going on in life". I feel so much better and don't feel like I here, there and everywhere.
My mind feels a lot more relaxed... for the time being.
I am off to Melbourne in November with my friend, MM, to attend a Kink event and catch up with some kinky friends. I'm looking forward to that weekend.
OK, I am off to post some pics and writings to share with you all.
Enjoy your evening, Everyone.
Ms Neta
Friday 31 August 2012
Thursday 30 August 2012
Scene with my sub: 29/8/12
Wednesday, 30th August 2012.
On Wednesday, I arrived at my submissive’s place. He did not hear me come up to the door and I heard a mad scramble to the hallway when he saw my car lights approach. Crazy.
I walked inside and he just made it to his knees as I stepped in the hallway. He was giggling nervously and my hand extended for him to kiss it as part of our ritual.
I moved in the lounge room, dumped my bags and headed straight the parcel that arrived for us. I had been bought a new lace dress, lubricant and lube shooter. The big item we had been waiting for was the “humbler”. We grinned at each other as I held it. Bill gulped. 
I then took off to try on my skimpy lace dress. It was doll size but I managed to squeeze it over my voluptuous body. I had my 6 strapped suspender belt on with lovely stockings, my patent leather ankle boots. My hair was all out, and I looked stunning.
I sat back down and watched bill’s tongue lolling, even was practically dribbling and I had tell him to move away and to calm down. He brought me my glass of wine, water and cheese. We chatted for a while it was most enjoyable.
Dinner was served. A potato bake and salad. Bloody beautiful meal. My submissive always sits about my feet and eats his meal on the floor whilst I sit at the table in my glorious splendour.
Next, it was humbler time. I had never used one of these items before so I unlocked it with the keys provided, got a feel for it, had bill get down on all falls and proceeded to manipulate his balls so I could stretch them back to be encased by the humble humbler *grins*.
I did a great job. He was humbled. OK I pinched his balls every so often squeezing them into the humbler but overall the encasement went well. I decided to insert the Anal Hook. Yes, the Anal Hook. Bill says “Mistress, please make sure its warm before you insert it”. I smiled… actually I chuckled wickedly. Slathered the Hook with lubricant and pushed it into his bitch arse. Hehe. It took a little while because he was closing the sphincter but with my determination, “pop”, and in it went. Bill was relieved. I stared at the Hook, and Humbler and thought about what I would do next.
Rope would work wonders. So I applied rope bondage incorporating the Hook. I focused on that for 15 minutes, and I did an impressive job. Yes, I am confident in my skills. I had bill place a hood over his head and decided to flog his bitch arse. I flogged for 30 minutes as I chatted to him, and drank a glass of white wine. It was most relaxing and bill was blissed out.
After the flogging of his bitch arse, I took photos here and there, and commence to remove all items attach to his body. I remove the humbler first. Then until the Rope bondage, once that was loosened I pulled out the Hook… “pop”. Bill fell to the ground in relief and felt wonderful from the sensational experience. Sensations everywhere. His left ball was a little sore due to some pinching hehe.
Next, Aftercare ensued. Lets say, it was a most enjoyable Aftercare for us both.
Sadistic Peg fun: 29/8/12
Some sadistic fun with my text bitch on Tuesday, 29th August. I was in the mood to inflict some pain on him, and he was happy to oblige. 10 pics on his cock, 3 pegs on each nipple and 3 pegs on his ear lobes.
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| "Oh my god, it hurts Ms N but I love it for you, Ms N" |
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| Great pic of those pegs on his balls. Love this image. |
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| In a slutty position, anything to show of his pathetic cock. |
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| Ears, nipples and cock - doesn't he look pathetic? |
A Dominant
I am a dominant. I may at first get flush and don't appear to be dominant at all. I stand back and I observe. I let others say what they need to say. I don't feel it necessary to share all that I know to all in earshot or trumpet the knowledge I’ve learned loudly to the world. I watch, I listen and I learn. I may quietly suggest, I may say nothing at all. I get to know who you are by your actions your words and your deeds. I only expect respect after it has been earned. I will ask the same of you. If my influence is felt it is felt quietly. Sometimes I can come across as almost meek. Do not confuse that with being weak. I am not out there blowing my own horn or excessively talking. I actually appear humble and understated in my ways. I have nothing to prove to anyone. Control is a private thing between individuals that need not be broadcast to the world. I've long felt that the more understated my outward appearance of dominance the stronger a dominant I am. True power and control whispers. It has no reason to yell
Anonymous Author
Dominant
Being dominant is about being in charge and accepting responsibility for being in charge. It has nothing to do with being bitchy, scolding anyone or lashing anyone with a sharp tongue. People continue to confuse porn movies with D/s.
Tuesday 28 August 2012
Realisation: 29/8/12
Yesterday, I came to the realisation that I have not been enjoying kink as much BECAUSE I have watered down my kink... again due to my focus in managing groups I owned on another site.
I have relinguished 4 groups and remaining with two which are FemDom-focussed.
Exploration of my sadism is coming back with a vengeance, so look out anyone who wants to be in my realm.
Last night, my sadism arose and I decided to have some fun with my text bitch... some peg fun. Absolutely delicious. Will post pics in next post.
Tonight, I am off to be with my primary submissive and have wicked fun with the humbler just purchased. Will post pics later in the week.
I am feeling excitement again. Finally.
I have relinguished 4 groups and remaining with two which are FemDom-focussed.
Exploration of my sadism is coming back with a vengeance, so look out anyone who wants to be in my realm.
Last night, my sadism arose and I decided to have some fun with my text bitch... some peg fun. Absolutely delicious. Will post pics in next post.
Tonight, I am off to be with my primary submissive and have wicked fun with the humbler just purchased. Will post pics later in the week.
I am feeling excitement again. Finally.
Saturday 25 August 2012
BDSM Party Activities
Research conducted by my personal kinky assistant - SP.
1/. Dominant skill test
Line up submissives naked against a wall. Using tape fix a blown up party balloon over each buttock. The dominants then use a single tail whip to burst the balloons. They are only allowed one attempt at each balloon. The Dominant who bursts the most balloons wins. In the event of a tie the one who has burst the most balloons without marking the sub wins.
2/. Tug of War
Two face to face subs have nipple clamps applied which are connected together. A line is marked on the floor between them. They have to pull against each other until one pulls the other over the line, the clamps either pull off the loser or one of them gives up.
Two male submissives have a loop put around their testicles which cannot pull off but also cannot tighten. They kneel back to back on the floor. A line is marked equidistant from each of them and they have to pull against each other to reach it and win. Clamps tied together could be used for female subs with them attached to their genital lips.
3/. Cock Ring Toss
If you have a volunteer who can maintain an erection long enough use him, otherwise use a dildo. Rings are thrown by the dominants from an agreed distance. The one who gets the most to land on the penis/ dildo wins. You could get two male submissives to compete against each with the one who scores the most then giving the loser that many punishment strokes.
4/. Golf
A submissive sits on the floor legs apart. The dominants take turn to hit golf balls at their genitals with a putter from an agreed distance. To make it harder the submissive can be allowed to sit with their legs bent up rather than flat on the floor. A prize may be awarded for the most direct hits or to the one who produces the loudest cry from the submissive.
5/. Alternative Golf
The submissive lies naked on their back. The dominants have an agreed number of golf balls which they lob from an agreed distance at the subs genitals. 10 points are awarded for hitting the testicles of the male, 5 for the penis.
6/. Find the pegs
An agreed number of pegs are fixed on the submissive. Another sub that is already blindfolded has to remove all the pegs within a given time but they do not know where to find them. They could also be restrained so that they can only remove the pegs with their teeth.
7/. Get Rich Quick
Put strips of double sided tape onto the sub whose legs and arms are restrained. The more tape the easier it is for the sub. Throw paper money on the floor. The sub(s) then have to roll around on the floor to see how much money they can get to stick to them. The sub who picks up the most, keeps it, but it could be Monopoly money.
8/. Panty Test – for Dominant females/ sub males
The male subs are blindfolded. Each Mistress removes their panties and gives each sub the chance to smell all the panties. The sub who guesses correctly which pair are his Mistress’s panties gets to keep them at the end of the evening. The ones who get it wrong are punished.
9/. How many can you take
There is a large bucket of pegs, at least 100. The dominants see how many they can affix to the sub before they give in. A time limit must be set. A more difficult version would be to restrict the pegs to given areas like the genitals or the face.
10/. Weightlifting – Care needed
For the males a parachute is fixed over their testicles and weights are attached. They then compete against each other to see who can lift the most. Clamps and weights could be used for female subs.
11/. Worm Racing (I am not sure if this will work, the wrap may have to be a little loose)
The naked subs are wrapped in cling film (saran wrap) from feet to neck. They are then lowered to the floor in a line. They have to race to a given winning line by squirming along the floor. (Rolling is not allowed)
The winner gets a reward, the losers get an agreed number of punishment strokes which increase the lower in the finishing order they are.
12/. Mistress Says
Mistress Says - a kinky version of Simon Says. The Mistresses issue commands rapidly to their subs such as "fondle your balls", "kiss my shoe", “squeeze your left nipple". Those preceded by "Mistress says" should be obeyed. Those that do not should be ignored. Subs that make mistakes are disqualified until only one remains.
13/. Pegboard
In this game, the hostess begins by saying "One." Every Dominant places one clothespin on her sub. The hostess then says, "Two" and every Dominant then places another clothespin on her sub. This process continues. Once a sub needs to remove a clothespin, they are disqualified. The game continues until only one sub is left (or you run out of clothespins.)
The game can stop there or the Mistresses can continue until there is only one slave playing - the winner. Now pegs can be accidentally or deliberately applied in such a way as to inflict far more than the normal amount of pain, so there have to be rules about this.
1) There must be slave flesh between the whole of the peg
'Pinchers'; having flesh only between part of the pinchers is not allowed.
2) Any part of the body can be used except the eyes and eyelids (anywhere else?).
3) No part of a peg can be inserted into the anus or urethra.
4) Any other rules?
14/. Cunning Linguist
Cunning Linguist - You can imagine from the title what this one is about. It is basically a contest to see which sub licks their Mistress to orgasm in the shortest amount of time. Clearly, this game will only work in environments where sexual activity is permitted at the party.
15/. Self Control
This is almost the reverse of the above. Here the Dominants compete to bring a sub to orgasm as quickly as possible using only their hands (and any type of lube). However, the slaves will be trying to avoid orgasm because the first slave to spurt is the loser. As soon as a Dominant sees her assigned sub ejaculate she shouts "spurting" (or something similar) where upon all the other Mistresses stop stimulating their subs immediately. Bad luck on the winners who are left excited and unsatisfied, for which reason the punishment for the loser of this game should be particularly severe. This could be continued with the winners each time one sub drops out until only one is left very frustrated.
16/. Drop Kick (Extreme)
All the slaves stand side by side with their legs apart and with the Mistresses behind them. They have their hands on their heads. At a silent signal from one of the Mistresses, they each give their best kick to the groin of the slave in front of them.
If a slave falls to the ground and does not get up by a count of 10, he is "kicked out" of the game. A slave can capitulate at any time if he cannot face another kick. Otherwise, when the slaves have been given a short time to recover, the process is repeated until someone is kicked out or capitulates. First out of the game is the loser (or losers). The game can finish there or continue until a winner is found.
17/. Arse-tist
The subs have to insert a marker or crayon into their anus and then draw something with it on an art pad. The one who produces the best work of art wins the others are punished.
18/. Group Therapy
The subs stand in a circle facing inwards. (If there are only two subs they stand side to side facing in opposite directions.) They have similar paddles. Upon a suitable word from a Dominant they spank once on the buttocks of the slave to their right. They then switch the paddle to their left hand and upon the next command give one spank to the buttocks of the slave to their left. (If only two subs, they do not need to switch.) They continue like this until one sub capitulates (the loser). If all the subs are pain sluts and show no sign of quitting, the Dominant could exchange the paddles for something more extreme (e.g. riding crops). Or if the Dominants get bored they can declare all the subs losers.
19/. Milking Time – Male only
The slaves will again be in a circle. They will be bending over so their bodies are almost horizontal and each slave's head is close to the butt of the slave in front. (If there are only two slaves they will be side to side.) They can use their left arm to rest on the lower back of the next slave and help support themselves. Their right hands are wearing rubber gloves. All slaves are well-lubed behind. Upon command from a Mistress they insert one finger into the slave in front and massage the prostate with a view to milking that slave. First slave to produce a discharge from the slave in front is the winner, and the last one is the loser.
20/. Pass the Parcel/Musical Chairs
First one out gets 10 strokes, the second 15 and so on.
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