Hello Friends: 30/8/12

A glimpse of my attire

Scene with my sub: 29/8/12

Wednesday, 30^th August 2012.

On Wednesday, I arrived at my submissive’s place.  He did not hear me come up to the door and I heard a mad scramble to the hallway when he saw my car lights approach.  Crazy.

I walked inside and he just made it to his knees as I stepped in the hallway.  He was giggling nervously and my hand extended for him to kiss it as part of our ritual.

I moved in the lounge room, dumped my bags and headed straight the parcel that arrived for us.  I had been bought a new lace dress, lubricant and lube shooter.  The big item we had been waiting for was the “humbler”.   We grinned at each other as I held it.  Bill gulped. 

I then took off to try on my skimpy lace dress.  It was doll size but I managed to squeeze it over my voluptuous body.  I had my 6 strapped suspender belt on with lovely stockings, my patent leather ankle boots.  My hair was all out, and I looked stunning.

I sat back down and watched bill’s tongue lolling, even was practically dribbling and I had tell him to move away and to calm down.  He brought me my glass of wine, water and cheese.  We chatted for a while it was most enjoyable. 

Dinner was served.  A potato bake and salad.  Bloody beautiful meal.  My submissive always sits about my feet and eats his meal on the floor whilst I sit at the table in my glorious splendour.

Next, it was humbler time.  I had never used one of these items before so I unlocked it with the keys provided, got a feel for it, had bill get down on all falls and proceeded to manipulate his balls so I could stretch them back to be encased by the humble humbler  *grins*.

I did a great job.  He was humbled.  OK I pinched his balls every so often squeezing them into the humbler but overall the encasement went well.  I decided to insert the Anal Hook.  Yes, the Anal Hook.  Bill says “Mistress, please make sure its warm before you insert it”.  I smiled… actually I chuckled wickedly.  Slathered the Hook with lubricant and pushed it into his bitch arse.  Hehe.  It took a little while because he was closing the sphincter but with my determination, “pop”, and in it went.  Bill was relieved.  I stared at the Hook, and Humbler and thought about what I would do next.

Rope would work wonders.  So I applied rope bondage incorporating the Hook.  I focused on that for 15 minutes, and I did an impressive job.  Yes, I am confident in my skills.  I had bill place a hood over his head and decided to flog his bitch arse.  I flogged for 30 minutes as I chatted to him, and drank a glass of white wine.  It was most relaxing and bill was blissed out. 

After the flogging of his bitch arse, I took photos here and there, and commence to remove all items attach to his body.  I remove the humbler first.  Then until the Rope bondage, once that was loosened I pulled out the Hook… “pop”.  Bill fell to the ground in relief and felt wonderful from the sensational experience.  Sensations everywhere.  His left ball was a little sore due to some pinching hehe. 

Next, Aftercare ensued.  Lets say, it was a most enjoyable Aftercare for us both.

Sadistic Peg fun: 29/8/12

Some sadistic fun with my text bitch on Tuesday, 29th August.  I was in the mood to inflict some pain on him, and he was happy to oblige.  10 pics on his cock, 3 pegs on each nipple and 3 pegs on his ear lobes. 


"Oh my god, it hurts Ms N but I love it for you, Ms N"



Great pic of those pegs on his balls.  Love this image.



In a slutty position, anything to show of his pathetic cock.



Ears, nipples and cock - doesn't he look pathetic?

Humbled and Anal-hooked: 29/8/12 (17005)

Part of a Scene with my sub last night

A Dominant

I am a dominant. I may at first get flush and don't appear to be dominant at all. I stand back and I observe. I let others say what they need to say. I don't feel it necessary to share all that I know to all in earshot or trumpet the knowledge I’ve learned loudly to the world. I watch, I listen and I learn. I may quietly suggest, I may say nothing at all. I get to know who you are by your actions your words and your deeds. I only expect respect after it has been earned. I will ask the same of you. If my influence is felt it is felt quietly. Sometimes I can come across as almost meek. Do not confuse that with being weak. I am not out there blowing my own horn or excessively talking. I actually appear humble and understated in my ways. I have nothing to prove to anyone. Control is a private thing between individuals that need not be broadcast to the world. I've long felt that the more understated my outward appearance of dominance the stronger a dominant I am. True power and control whispers. It has no reason to yell

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Dominant

Being dominant is about being in charge and accepting responsibility for being in charge.  It has nothing to do with being bitchy, scolding anyone or lashing anyone with a sharp tongue.  People continue to confuse porn movies with D/s.

Introducing my kinky ass-istant...

My, kinky ass-istant, SP.  Doesn't she have sexy legs?  

Realisation: 29/8/12

Yesterday, I came to the realisation that I have not been enjoying kink as much BECAUSE I have watered down my kink... again due to my focus in managing groups I owned on another site. 

I have relinguished 4 groups and remaining with two which are FemDom-focussed. 

Exploration of my sadism is coming back with a vengeance, so look out anyone who wants to be in my realm.

Last night, my sadism arose and I decided to have some fun with my text bitch... some peg fun.  Absolutely delicious.  Will post pics in next post.

Tonight, I am off to be with my primary submissive and have wicked fun with the humbler just purchased.  Will post pics later in the week.

I am feeling excitement again.  Finally. 

Welcome Back

BDSM Party Activities

Research conducted by my personal kinky assistant - SP. 

1/. Dominant skill test

Line up submissives naked against a wall. Using tape fix a blown up party balloon over each buttock. The dominants then use a single tail whip to burst the balloons. They are only allowed one attempt at each balloon. The Dominant who bursts the most balloons wins. In the event of a tie the one who has burst the most balloons without marking the sub wins.

2/. Tug of War

Two face to face subs have nipple clamps applied which are connected together. A line is marked on the floor between them. They have to pull against each other until one pulls the other over the line, the clamps either pull off the loser or one of them gives up.

Two male submissives have a loop put around their testicles which cannot pull off but also cannot tighten. They kneel back to back on the floor. A line is marked equidistant from each of them and they have to pull against each other to reach it and win. Clamps tied together could be used for female subs with them attached to their genital lips.

3/. Cock Ring Toss

If you have a volunteer who can maintain an erection long enough use him, otherwise use a dildo. Rings are thrown by the dominants from an agreed distance. The one who gets the most to land on the penis/ dildo wins. You could get two male submissives to compete against each with the one who scores the most then giving the loser that many punishment strokes.

4/. Golf

A submissive sits on the floor legs apart. The dominants take turn to hit golf balls at their genitals with a putter from an agreed distance.  To make it harder the submissive can be allowed to sit with their legs bent up rather than flat on the floor. A prize may be awarded for the most direct hits or to the one who produces the loudest cry from the submissive.

5/. Alternative Golf

The submissive lies naked on their back. The dominants have an agreed number of golf balls which they lob from an agreed distance at the subs genitals. 10 points are awarded for hitting the testicles of the male, 5 for the penis.

6/. Find the pegs

An agreed number of pegs are fixed on the submissive. Another sub that is already blindfolded has to remove all the pegs within a given time but they do not know where to find them. They could also be restrained so that they can only remove the pegs with their teeth.

7/. Get Rich Quick

Put strips of double sided tape onto the sub whose legs and arms are restrained. The more tape the easier it is for the sub. Throw paper money on the floor. The sub(s) then have to roll around on the floor to see how much money they can get to stick to them. The sub who picks up the most, keeps it, but it could be Monopoly money.

8/. Panty Test – for Dominant females/ sub males

The male subs are blindfolded. Each Mistress removes their panties and gives each sub the chance to smell all the panties. The sub who guesses correctly which pair are his Mistress’s panties gets to keep them at the end of the evening. The ones who get it wrong are punished.

9/. How many can you take

There is a large bucket of pegs, at least 100. The dominants see how many they can affix to the sub before they give in. A time limit must be set. A more difficult version would be to restrict the pegs to given areas like the genitals or the face.

10/. Weightlifting – Care needed

For the males a parachute is fixed over their testicles and weights are attached. They then compete against each other to see who can lift the most. Clamps and weights could be used for female subs.

11/. Worm Racing (I am not sure if this will work, the wrap may have to be a little loose)

The naked subs are wrapped in cling film (saran wrap) from feet to neck. They are then lowered to the floor in a line. They have to race to a given winning line by squirming along the floor. (Rolling is not allowed)

The winner gets a reward, the losers get an agreed number of punishment strokes which increase the lower in the finishing order they are.

12/. Mistress Says

Mistress Says - a kinky version of Simon Says.  The Mistresses issue commands rapidly to their subs such as "fondle your balls", "kiss my shoe", “squeeze your left nipple".  Those preceded by "Mistress says" should be obeyed.  Those that do not should be ignored.  Subs that make mistakes are disqualified until only one remains.

13/. Pegboard

In this game, the hostess begins by saying "One."  Every Dominant places one clothespin on her sub.  The hostess then says, "Two" and every Dominant then places another clothespin on her sub.  This process continues.  Once a sub needs to remove a clothespin, they are disqualified.  The game continues until only one sub is left (or you run out of clothespins.)

The game can stop there or the Mistresses can continue until there is only one slave playing - the winner. Now pegs can be accidentally or deliberately applied in such a way as to inflict far more than the normal amount of pain, so there have to be rules about this.

1) There must be slave flesh between the whole of the peg

'Pinchers'; having flesh only between part of the pinchers is not allowed.

2) Any part of the body can be used except the eyes and eyelids (anywhere else?).

3) No part of a peg can be inserted into the anus or urethra.

4) Any other rules? 

14/. Cunning Linguist

Cunning Linguist - You can imagine from the title what this one is about.  It is basically a contest to see which sub licks their Mistress to orgasm in the shortest amount of time.  Clearly, this game will only work in environments where sexual activity is permitted at the party.

15/. Self Control

This is almost the reverse of the above. Here the Dominants compete to bring a sub to orgasm as quickly as possible using only their hands (and any type of lube). However, the slaves will be trying to avoid orgasm because the first slave to spurt is the loser. As soon as a Dominant sees her assigned sub ejaculate she shouts "spurting" (or something similar) where upon all the other Mistresses stop stimulating their subs immediately. Bad luck on the winners who are left excited and unsatisfied, for which reason the punishment for the loser of this game should be particularly severe. This could be continued with the winners each time one sub drops out until only one is left very frustrated.

16/. Drop Kick (Extreme)

All the slaves stand side by side with their legs apart and with the Mistresses behind them. They have their hands on their heads. At a silent signal from one of the Mistresses, they each give their best kick to the groin of the slave in front of them.

If a slave falls to the ground and does not get up by a count of 10, he is "kicked out" of the game. A slave can capitulate at any time if he cannot face another kick. Otherwise, when the slaves have been given a short time to recover, the process is repeated until someone is kicked out or capitulates. First out of the game is the loser (or losers). The game can finish there or continue until a winner is found.  

17/. Arse-tist

The subs have to insert a marker or crayon into their anus and then draw something with it on an art pad. The one who produces the best work of art wins the others are punished.

18/. Group Therapy

The subs stand in a circle facing inwards. (If there are only two subs they stand side to side facing in opposite directions.) They have similar paddles. Upon a suitable word from a Dominant they spank once on the buttocks of the slave to their right. They then switch the paddle to their left hand and upon the next command give one spank to the buttocks of the slave to their left. (If only two subs, they do not need to switch.) They continue like this until one sub capitulates (the loser). If all the subs are pain sluts and show no sign of quitting, the Dominant could exchange the paddles for something more extreme (e.g. riding crops). Or if the Dominants get bored they can declare all the subs losers.  

19/. Milking Time – Male only

The slaves will again be in a circle. They will be bending over so their bodies are almost horizontal and each slave's head is close to the butt of the slave in front. (If there are only two slaves they will be side to side.) They can use their left arm to rest on the lower back of the next slave and help support themselves. Their right hands are wearing rubber gloves. All slaves are well-lubed behind. Upon command from a Mistress they insert one finger into the slave in front and massage the prostate with a view to milking that slave. First slave to produce a discharge from the slave in front is the winner, and the last one is the loser.  

20/. Pass the Parcel/Musical Chairs

First one out gets 10 strokes, the second 15 and so on.

Story written for me by SP - Aug 2012

There is always a price to pay!

David’s groan was barely audible, just a low sigh of anguish was all that escaped his mouth which was filled with the worn panties of Ms Anna. He was naked. Kneeling on a wooden broom handle with his back ramrod straight and his hands clasped behind his head. Sweat ran down his face inside the thick cloth hood that covered his head and he was shaking with the strain the position put him under. “Five more minutes still to go” Ms Anna whispered into his ear. He could sense the smile on her face as she tormented his mind. Five minutes, it might as well be five hours. He had been in this position for twenty-five minutes already and he was not sure he could take any more.

He did of course; he had no choice if he wished to ever get Anna Campbell to let him take her to bed.

                              

The day Anna Campbell joined his Company had been both the best and worse day of his life. He had run a successful Beauty Boutique business for years. The first boutique had opened in Hobart in 1998 and since then it had expanded rapidly, first to other parts of Tasmania, Rokeby on the Eastern Shore and Margate in Kingborough and in Moonah in the Northern suburbs.

Then Anna had joined the company and really transformed it with further expansion into the main cities in Australia’s Western States. Anna was a dynamo; everybody loved working with and for her and David quickly promoted her to C.E.O. with total responsibility for the company. She was that rarest of leaders who inspired people to give their absolute best by motivating them. She never raised her voice or openly criticised her staff but quietly and privately talked to them. It rarely failed though occasionally she had to let someone go because they did not give their all. Even then they seemed to part amicably.

David did not know what the secret of her success was but he was getting very rich because of it.
Anna Campbell was in her mid forties and was a stunning woman, a full rubenesque figure that was David’s ideal of womanhood. She always dressed smartly in business suits that both emphasised and flattered her figure. Whenever David was in the same office as Anna he was continually aroused. But the thing that drew him most was Anna’s smile. When she gave him that smiling look his knees would weaken as he felt himself almost physically drawn into her influence. It was irresistible.

David was married but the sexual side of his marriage had died long ago and his wife was not too interested what he did as long as he did not bring it home. She was more than content to enjoy the affluent way of life that the business success gave them and occasionally she would have a weekend or week away with a special ‘friend’. David did not enquire about this other than to ask if she had enjoyed herself.
                                             
This all meant that David was regularly looking for women who would go to bed with him. Almost all the people who worked for him were very attractive well groomed women and he would target a particular woman and flatter her, take her out to dinner, give her expensive presents and if all went well he would bed her and then move on to his next conquest.

More recently he had found himself only looking at Anna. He would change his schedule so that he was at the same branch as her as often as he could and he kept trying to get her to go on a date with him. Anna however kept telling him that she liked to keep her private life separate from work and she kept refusing his invitations and did not accept any gifts he offered.

David could not understand what he was doing wrong and got more and more frustrated with his lack of success. He did not even try to date anyone else as his desire to have Anna totally dominated his thoughts.

When the invitation for the bi-annual Beauty Business Expo in Sidney came in the post David saw an opportunity. He would take Anna to it instead of going alone. They would book into a five star hotel for the five days of the exhibition and he was sure she would finally give in if he gave her a good enough time.

Anna at first refused and David got angry, demanding to know why she would not go.

“Don’t you like me Anna? What is wrong with coming to the Expo with me? You will have a fantastic time and I will really spoil you. You have been the mainstay behind my company’s success and I want to reward and thank you for that.”

“David, I have tried to avoid saying this but you must know that you have a terrible reputation among your female staff. You pursue us until you get us into bed and then we are tossed aside as you look for your next conquest. I am not like that and I will not be used, no matter how good a time you offer me.”
“But Anna surely you realise by now that I am totally infatuated with you. I have not looked at anyone else for months. I will always treat you with care and respect surely you can see that. Please, please come with me. You can be sure I will do what you want. I will hope to win you over but you can set the rules by which I must behave so that you do not need to worry.”

Anna still said no but that she would go home and think about it and give David his answer the next day.
                                  
David had a sleepless night and he got to the office early to be sure he was there when Anna arrived.
She gave him one or her disarming smiles as she entered his office and he knew he had got lucky.
“David, you know that I have tried to keep my private life away from work with you. I am willing to change that but only on my conditions and you may not like those.”

“Anything Anna, anything I just want the chance to please you and if things go on from there so much the better, for both of us, I mean.”
“Very well David, these are my conditions.”
Anna handed David a typed sheet of paper.
For each day I am away with you will pay me AUD $3,000 in advance at the airport.
Any form of sexual contact that occurs will be what I want and only if and when I want it.
For each sexual session you will pay me whatever figure I ask for.
You will do exactly what I ask for the complete week. Any refusal will mean it stops there and then and it will never happen again.

David would have signed his life away if asked; such was his desire for Anna so he didn’t hesitate.
“I promise you Anna you will not regret this. I will do exactly what you want for the whole week.”
Anna beamed another smile and said “I am sure you will David!”
                          
The Expo started on Sunday so they were flying to Sydney on Saturday morning. Anna popped into David’s office on Friday evening as she was heading home. She gave him a small gift bag and said “You will wear these tomorrow morning when we go to the airport, I will check that you are wearing them so don’t try to deceive me.”

David opened the bag as she started to disappear out of the door. Inside was a bright red shiny panty and bra set with a pair of black hold-up stockings.
“But Anna” he shouted I can’t wear these.”
She poked her head around the door.
“Well I can’t go with you then David.”
“All right, all right I will wear them; honestly, I will have them on when we meet tomorrow.”

So David spent another almost sleepless night. His mind turning with the exciting prospect of a week away with Anna, but also worrying about travelling through airport security in women’s underwear.
They met at the check in desk and after putting their bags through they went to the departure lounge. David handed over the AUD$18,000.

“David” Anna said as they looked around the airport shops and then she manoeuvred him into a quiet corner. “I want you to show me that you are wearing your new undies.”

David blushed; he was so surprised and embarrassed. “What here! You can’t be serious.”
“Yes here and now David. You will show me your underwear.”

David turned his back to the departure lounge and undid first his suit jacket so that his white shirt was exposed and the outline of the red bra showed clearly through it. He then surreptiously unzipped his trousers and quickly flashed a glance of his panties and stocking tops to Anna.

She smiled that smile again and said “Once more please David and slower this time as I didn’t quite see.”

David blushed even deeper and then did as he was told.

The rest of the journey was uneventful though David was uncomfortable on the plane as it was very warm. Despite Anna’s encouragement he did not take off his suit jacket.
                            
They booked into the Hotel where David had arranged for adjoining linked suites.
Anna handed David a small case. “You will find your underwear for the week in there. The bill is also there so make sure you pay me. Tonight I want you dressed in the white bra and panties when we go down for dinner. Put a pair of tan hold-ups on as well and you are not to wear socks. I will come to your room an hour before dinner. I will give you some sex then if you are willing to pay the price which is AUD$500.”

“Of course Anna whatever you want, I will pay it.”
“I know you will David. Be naked when I arrive.”

David was shivering with excitement as 18:30 approached. He was stood in the centre of the bedroom stark naked with an erection that would not go away.

Anna entered the room carrying another gift bag and did not smile this time when she saw David.
“Is that how you show me respect David? I do not find that sort of behaviour acceptable at all. You will be punished. Do you accept that you deserve punishment?”
“Yes Anna, I am sorry it is just that I find you so exciting.”
“It is Miss Anna to you now David don’t forget that.”
“Yes Anna. I mean Ms Anna.”
                         
“Good you will kneel on this until you loose that erection.” She handed the naked David a 12” piece of wooden broom handle.

David knelt, while trying to hide his erect penis, on the handle and Anna made him keep his back straight so that all his body weight was centred on the handle. “Put your hands behind your head and keep still.”

The discomfort was immediate and it quickly turned to pain making his erection shrivel away.
“That’s better now I can see we will need to use my broom handle more often. We will start at 15 minutes tonight and I will increase that by five minutes each day. You will kneel on the handle first thing in the morning and before you go to bed at night, as well as whenever I think you deserve to of course.”

David quickly found the pain too much and started to moan and groan at Anna. She popped back to her room and when she returned she stuffed the panties she had worn to travel in into David’s mouth which stifled his noise.

“There that’s much better now David just enjoy this time of peace and quiet while I finish my make up.”
David completed the 15 minutes and Anna her make up.
“David come over here.”

He gratefully stood up, his knees were heavily indented by the handle and it made it stiff for him to walk.

Reaching into the gift bag Anna pulled out a CB6000 chastity device and expertly fitted it onto David’s penis locking it in place and putting the key of the tiny padlock into her handbag.
“There, now you don’t have to worry about misbehaving any more do you David. Y
ou are nice and cosy in there.”

David looked aghast at the tiny container “But Ms Anna I thought we were going to have sex as long as I meet your price.”

Oh don’t worry David your little penis will be seeing a lot of attention from me but as I told you it will be when and how I want to do it.”

David then dressed and was proud to go down to dinner with Anna who looked absolutely stunning in her little black designer dress. They both enjoyed their meals and although Ms Neta did not allow David to ply her with as many drinks as he would have liked to she did enjoy a couple of glasses of a particularly good Sauvignon Blanc. David was entertaining company so the time passed very quickly. David had to occasionally adjust himself in his trousers as he looked at Ms Anna’s most generous cleavage and the chastity device confined him.

“So David let’s go up to my room and let you enjoy some sex. That is what you want isn’t it David, to have sex with me.” Another of those stunning smiles lit up her face.
“Yes Ms Anna, I want that so much.”
                    
As soon as they entered the hotel suite Anna ordered David to remove all his clothes. She made him move the sturdy coffee table under the large ceiling fan and stand naked on it. She then proceeded to blindfold him before tying his hands with a soft thin rope. The other end of the rope she looped over the fan pulling it tight so that David had to stand on tiptoe she secured it in place.

She left him to hang while she removed her evening dress and returned in just her designer lingerie. David would have given his right arm to see how wonderfully sexy she looked. She then opened her travel bag and proceeded to lay out a number of toys on the bed.

Her first choice was a small butt plug, she put on some latex gloves and then picking up a tube of KY jelly she put some on her index finger and then gently probed David’s rosebud with it. David moaned first with surprise and apprehension but as Anna worked her finger in and out he moaned with pleasure.

“Are you enjoying that David?” She asked as she speeded up her probing.

“Yes Ms Anna it feels wonderful”. He was rapidly becoming as erect as he could in the chastity cage and it was only when the pain of his constrained penis became too intense that he subsided again.
“Good then you will like this as well” she said withdrawing her finger and picking up the tube of icy hot with which she then coated the butt plug. She pushed it quickly into David making him gasp with surprise again. He had never been penetrated in his anus before but he had been enjoying the sensation. The fiery cream coating the plug soon started to burn and very quickly waves of pain were pulsing through him.

 Anna stroked his back and whispered in his ear that she was pleased that he was so enjoying their sex play.
                   

She then removed the chastity device and despite the burning pain David was instantly erect. Anna gripped his rigid shaft and sensuously worked her hand up and down making it glisten and bulge, the veins standing out. Anna kept working him until she felt him start to work his hips, almost teetering over as he struggled to balance on his toes. She stopped and then squirted a generous amount of icy hot onto her gloved hand.
“Would you like me to do that again David?” Anna asked in a seductive voice.

“Please Ms Anna, it was so good.” The butt plug still burned away in his anus but the pleasure he had been feeling overpowered the sensation. His penis was dripping pre-cum onto the coffee table.
Anna smiled, this time to herself as she gripped his shaft again, this time with the icy hot as lubrication. At first it felt even better but as she worked away David realised what she was doing. His penis was on fire as she rubbed and pumped. Her hand became a blur and David was so hard, despite the burning pain coursing through his penis that he had never felt so rampant. Anna slowed down as she felt him getting close to cumming and stopped to let him get the full benefit of the Embrocation which was now fully rubbed in to his burning red penis. His moaning was getting very loud so she again used her worn panties to gag him. His erection was gone once more.

Anna sat down on the bed and poured herself a drink from the mini bar. She took a vibrator from the toys and turning it on at a low setting she let it play against her panty covered lips as she took in the sight of David strung up naked and moaning from the pain she had gifted him. She was very turned on and gradually increased the speed of the vibrator until she was brought to orgasm. She drank some more wine and relaxed while David continued to suffer

She waited until David stopped struggling and moaning which took about twenty minutes as the burning became less and less intent. Then she released David from the rope and helped him down removing his blindfold and the panty gag.
                             

“Have a drink of water David”.
He gulped it down quickly as his mouth was very dry. His penis and scrotum were bright red and sore but the burning had decreased. Anna started to play with his penis again and he winced as she worked her hand up and down but it was not long before he started to erect yet again. It was not just her touch; it was the sight of Anna in just her skimpy lingerie that appeared to be defying reality by holding in her voluptuous curves.

“I see you still want to play David well we will try something different now.” She noticed David eyeing the toys. “That is only if you want to. Do you David? It could be painful again.” She continued to masturbate him and the look in his eyes was enough to tell her that the answer was yes.
                    
To be continued…………..

Which one are you?

Journal: 25/8/12

WOW, it has been a while since I have made any entries into my blog.  Being busy, being unwell, being cold but Spring is just around the corner.

My trainee has commenced his journal which will be helpful to get all those kinky thoughts out of his head and on to 'paper.

My submissive is going well and been very helpful assisting me around my residence.

My activity around FL has slowed down due to 'bordeom'.  The site seems be turning into a porn site rather than a BDSM / Kinky site.  Unfortunate.  All I am seeing are naked women everywhere.  Its boring.

I have had an altercation with an idiot male dominant who is relatively new to the scene but pretends to know it all.  He has hit on many of the local Female dominants/switches asking if they switch.  WTF.  Unfortunately a female who identifies as a dominant has taken his side and turned out to be not too bright.  In fact, she decided that I had a problem with male dominants.  Pity she did not know me well enough to judge me in this manner but all those who are in my realm know me and my ethics.  Anyway enough of those fools.

We have a cocktail party coming up next week and so that will certainly be a lovely get together of our FDCT members.

In October, will be the ClubFEM Tas progressive lunch.  This is very exciting as we are holding it over three venues.  Entree, Lunch and Dessert.

I am planning a Sub Olympics event in January 2013 so that should be fun for us all.  Although many of our local submissives are wusses and do not like to play around others, their preference is private play - meaning most want to dabble in kinky sex rather than D/s dynamics.  Oh well, there are a few genuine local submissive males who embrace who they are.  We love those boys.

Hope you are all well, folks.


Ms Neta

Quote

“you are not too old
and it is not too late
to dive into your increasing depths
where life calmly gives out
it's own secret”
― Rainer Maria Rilke

Journal: 15/8/12 (16502)

Good evening.

Half way through the week and I must say I feel knackered already.  Of course it is only going to get busier for the next couple of weeks but that is mainly to do with 'vanilla' work life.

Today, I caught up with two of my Dominant Friends to arrange two upcoming events... one in September - Cocktail Party, and one in October - ClubFEM Tasmania Progressive lunch.  Busy busy but it will be worth it.

Once these two events are over, I will rest for a couple of months.  No organising of anything.  I may attend a play party but that will be the extent of my kink socialising.

I am looking to have a Submissive Olympics in January 2013, so I will see if I can entice a few more boys to join our Club and have fun for the amusement of the Club's Female Dominants.

This Saturday, I am catching up with a few vanilla women for some socialising.  They are all off to see Magic Mike - some stripper movie which holds absolutely no interest for me... but afterwards we are off to a friend's place to eat a feast.  That should be fun.

I have been looking at some see through lingerie just out of interest sake.  I have seen two sexy items which are a little appealing so I am thinking of purchasing them... just because.

Well I am off to view Tin Tin now.  A nice quiet night with Jack... well quietish, as the cavies squeak behind me because they like to do that...the attention seeking cuties.

The dogs are happy.  The family is in bed.  We love Hump Day. 

Bye for now.


Ms Neta

Trainee photos

Being flogged

Aftercare after flogging

Scene with sub: 4/8/12

I scened with both my submissive, and my trainee.  The description of the scene with the trainee was described in the previous post.

This is a little description of what I did with my submissive.  Whilst I had my trainee restrained waiting for his flogging, I placed the hood on bill's head, put a rope restraint on his wrists.  bill had already put the parachute ball stretcher around his balls so that was in place and had 3 bottles of water prepared.  I attached one bottle at a time to the parachute ball stretcher.  The weight was heavy.  Perfect.  I left my sub standing with the water bottles swinging for 30 minutes.  I proceeded to flog my trainee.  The music played for the flogging scene was Fat Boy Slim's Brighton Beach party soundtrack.  Very motivating music.

After 30 minutes, I removed two of the bottles and my submissive was relieved as he was feeling pain.  Perfect.  The last bottle stayed on for 15 more minutes. 

I continued flogging my trainee and we were all in a beautiful zone.  It was a most enjoyable night for us three.  After I finished flogging my trainee, aftercare was provided, and 15 minutes later he was put in a loose hogtie so he could rest for a while and embrace the subspace he was experiencing.  A good  night for us all.  The fruit platter and the glasses of water were most invigorating.

Trainee's description of scene: 4/8/12

Scene 4/8/2012

            I was kneeling in the hall with bill waiting for you to arrive Ms Neta and once you did we greeted you with a kiss on your hand and then followed you into the lounge room and once you were seated I offered you a drink and bought it to you, kneeling as I did so. We then knelt in front of you and listened to you speaking about your day. After we had listened to you speak about your day you requested me to bring you some food. Serving you food and drink made me feel good and I am very pleased to have been able to serve you in this manner.

            We then talked about the daily rituals you have put in place for myself and bill. During this discussion I agreed to work on my physical fitness and try and lose some weight by November. I am determined to do so. I then went and put the cock ring on over my balls. It felt quite tight and uncomfortable. After that I demonstrated the positions you sent to me early during my training. I felt good that I was able to demonstrate them to your satisfaction. Next I helped to put the water bottles on bill attaching them to the parachute ball stretcher he was wearing.

            I was then prepared for the flogging. I had leather wrist cuffs put on me and then I had nipple clamps applied and I knelt there for about 5 – 10 minutes speaking with you before they were taken off. They felt quite painful and uncomfortable but definitely not unbearable. However it did hurt a fair bit once they were removed. My hands were then tied together and attached to the rope on the ceiling. I was then blindfolded. Standing there listening to the music tied to the spot waiting for the flogging to start I lost all perception of time and anything else that was happening in the room. I was quite nervous as I was standing there knowing the flogging was going to be more intense then the one I had previously experienced at the play party a few weeks ago. Once the flogging started however I went into a definite “sub space” and just relaxed to experience the sensations. Whilst I could not see when you switched floggers though I could definitely feel the difference. During the flogging once you had switched over to more “stingy” floggers there were a couple of times I was going to call orange but just as I was about to you stopped for about 30 seconds or so, enough time for me to take a few breaths and relax again and eliminate the need for me to ask you to take it easier. After a while my arms started getting a bit sore and I asked to have them lowered a bit so I could be a bit more comfortable.

            The aftercare I received from you after my flogging was very good and made me feel very relaxed and content. Once the aftercare was finished I was bound and blindfolded and lay on the floor just listening to the music and the conversation you were having with bill. I was feeling incredibly relaxed as I was laying there bound on the floor. I very much enjoy the feeling of rope on my skin. However after an unknown period of time my arms got quite sore mostly from being held up during the flogging and then again pulled back while I was bound and I requested to be untied and then I just lay there still blindfolded for a bit. Once I was untied and unblindfolded I ate some fruit which definitely helped me regain my energy.

            Then we sat around talking about various topics while I was giving you a foot massage. The conversation was very enjoyable as was the entire night. I had a very good night and I am very pleased to have been able to serve you in this manner Ms Neta. Once you had left I checked the time unable to believe that it had only been 4 hours. I then helped bill to tidy up the room and I had a shower and then had something to eat and a beer with bill and then I went to bed feeling very relaxed after a very enjoyable evening and I am looking forward to the next scene with you Ms Neta.

4/8/12

I had a terrific scene with my submissive and trainee.  My trainee is going to write up his account of the scene which was focussed on flogging. 

I will outline more about the scene with them both in a few days but at this moment I am rather tired and need to have an early night. 

I experienced Domme drop on Sunday and so took it very easy and relaxed with the family.  My right arm is aching slightly meaning I obviously exerted more pressure using that arm rather than the left.  Overall I had a great time, my submissive had a great, and my trainee had a good time.  His subspace was wonderful to observe.