Thoughts

Today, a thought came to me, and that is... I am currently surrounded by males - vanilla males - who feel extremely protective of me.

I have never come across as a helpless Female but for whatever reason, many males just want to protect me and ensure my life is safe and happy.  Interesting.  Is this chilvarous behaviour? or are they all attracted to me in some form or other.  Fascinating.  I could take advantage of them but that holds no interest to me... I am a very competent Woman who can support herself very easily.

Aah well, if these males want to make my life easier - in their eyes - so be it.

Coffee with lt_bitch: 29/7/12

I caught up with my ex-submissive on Sunday for coffee.  He and I have remained friends and we had a terrific time catching up on Kinky news.

I would like him to find a Mistress to serve but alas there are not enough Dominants down here who are willing to take on male submissives.

His time will come, one day.

By the way, that is lt_bitch in the main pic of my blog.  The boy with his head down. 


Ms Neta

Service: 28/7/12

On Saturday at 11.15am, my submissive arrived to assist Jack with some external gardening works at my Residence.

The weather was for scattered showers throughout the day.

Jack and bill commenced pruning and weeding all day.  They moved cuttings to the skip at the top of the driveway throughout the cold, wet weather.  Men at work.  It was ho, exciting, to observe their toilings in order to please me.

There was a huge tree at the side of house so both of them strategically worked out how they should cut it down.  Very clever.

They were fed well.  They first ate Noodles for lunch.  Afternoon tea they were provided with freshly baked bread.  For dinner, was a homemade Shepherd's Pie.  It was delicious.  A chocolate slice was baked, and everyone got to eat a few slices each.

It was a busy day for the family but a most productive day for Jack and bill, which made Ms Neta extremely happy with their efforts.

Service with a smile and hardwork.  There is no doubt about it, my submissive is a loyal and helpful male.  Thank you bill!!

Friday night 27/7/12

I visited my submissive on Friday night.  I arrived at 7.00pm and there my submissive was kneeling in the hallway.  He greeted me as per his usual ritual.

We adjourned to the lounge room and I sat down on my Mistress chair.  We chatted for about an hour about Kink gossip.

This evening was DVD night.  We decided to watch Predator.  At 8.10pm we commenced watching the DVD.  Well actually I had my submissive seated on a chair and proceeded to put him into bondage.

His ankles were tied first, following by his knees, this chest, he was handcuffed, and then I decided to tie his neck.  He loves restriction and breath play.  I played with him... biting his face, hands around his throat, biting biting biting... deliciously yummy.


My submissive's cock became very hard even though it was squashed between his legs *hehe*

Predator was most enjoyable watching, and as background atmosphere.  It was very hot.

 My submissive was in the rope bondage position for 1.5 hours and very comfortable.  He loves to feel restrained, controlled.  Such a sexy bitch dog he is.

Lunch with another FemDom - 27/7/12

What a busy week it has been.

Friday, I met up with one of my Dominant Female friends.  We had lunch and had a wonderful conversation together.

We spoke about the play party we attended last weekend and the general consensus was that a terrific time had by all.

She did mention that one of the "bottoms" who claims to be a *submissive* asked her this question:  "Are all play parties about pain?".  BLINKS

Now isn't that amusing?  This bottom comes along to a FemDom play party and asks this type of question to a Female Dominant, goddess, too many idiots in this state.

Some people just don't realise that their pain brings us pleasure!  And remember, pain is subjective.

The humble Humbler!

My submissive bill needs to feel the firm restraint of a humbler.  What do you think?

Keeping him on his knees where he belongs with a premium Humbler made with a clear gloss finish. Exclusive hinged design makes application a dream. The custom made snap lock provides a secure restraint, even when his hands are free.

Corner Time

Comments from a recent Corner Time discussion.

v    Corner time is a time for reflection about the wrong doings that have been done and how the sub/slave/bottom can improve himself/herself.  I very much enjoy giving Corner Time for those who are deserving :)

v    Actually, I would say there is some value to it, not so much as a punishment, but as a quiet period of reflection. In life, we are always doing something - online, TV, work, reading, chatting, etc.  How often do you just stay still and do nothing? It can be quite refreshing and calming.

v    Despite the boredom, I do a lot of great reflecting from the corner, which I suppose is the point, right?  It's usually its own punishment with no spanking involved. Usually for not speaking up about something. My hands can go wherever they want, but they often end up crossed as I lean against a wall. Happily, I'm pretty good and haven't done time in a while ;)

v    I think corner time is mostly to be sure I get the very most benefit from my punishment. Its reflective time while my bottom is most tender to let his work on my hinnie travel the long way up to my brain and leave a lasting impression. Sometimes I think its so he can admire his coloring of my cheeks as well.

v    Corner time is supposed to be time to think about your punishment and how to avoid doing the same things again. It feels more like being punished and then sent away so he won't have to deal with you anymore. It usually only lasts about 10 or 15 minutes and I can tolerate it when my husband does it. I really hate it and spend the time wishing he would let me out and hold me, at least for the few minutes that it lasts.

v    I don't like giving or receiving corner time after a spanking, that' a time for reassuring cuddling. Nevertheless, I like it before (at both ends of the whip): it's a way of building the anticipation, you are waiting for your punishment, you don't know how long it will take and you are forced to think about it because you have nothing else to do.

v    I use corner time for real punishment and funishment when requested. The time could be from 30 minutes to an hour and I have the miscreant sit on a hard chair or a coarse fibre door mat (after his/her spanking).

v    Corner time gives him/her enough time to reflect on the reason.

v    Corner time would only work if it was given before the (disciplinary) spanking. It might then raise my anticipation level. There would be an optimum time though, I could not stay anxious for more than 10 minutes I think, after that I would get bored.

v    To me, corner time before a spanking increases my awareness on all levels. My senses seem to heighten, knowing what is to come. My mind whirls with apprehension, wonder, and nervousness. It gives me time to reflect on the reason I am in the corner to begin with, and what is going to follow. Corner time after a spanking, offers me a chance to "cool" down, tears to dry up, contemplate exactly what happened, and why it shouldn't happen again as my bottom throbs. Also standing there with a red bare throbbing bottom can humble you pretty quickly.

v    For me it is simply a very vital part of the discipline that I need in my life.

v    My preference is corner time. It is more 'physical' to Me. Plus you can add all sorts of variations depending on the original infraction - kneeling on cat litter, table tennis ball stays between nose and wall and so on.  I also think it is more humiliating. :-)

v    I like the fact that corner time gives me time to calm down and think about what I did wrong, but I hate the fact that I know I disappointed the person who put me in the corner and that they are watching my every move while I'm in the corner and that they won't allow me to talk to them while I'm in the corner :(

v    Having a spanking, then corner time, being assigned to contemplate my misbehavior, then being asked what i learned, is beneficial to me in so many ways.

CBT and Hogtie with trainee: 21/7/12

 My trainee finally got to experience some mild CBT.  First his little cock and balls were tied up with that lovely orange string you see.  I then applied Icy Hot on to his balls.  Hot feeling then Cold feeling.  Next applied 3 pegs on either side of his balls.  Next applied Icy Hot to his cock and watched him start to shake from the intensity.  Next I applied wooden pegs to his cock and he was feeling the pain.  I proceeded to flog his bits with my cock flogger.  He was jumping around like a cricket - it was very amusing to watch and tease.  I flogged him for a while longer and he couldn't do much but try to evade the flogger but alas I was faster.  I then applied nipple clamps to his cute little nipples and yes they were painful for him.  How delightful.  I then started to stack his bits again with a skewer.  That was fun!!  After 25 minutes, it was time to remove the pegs.  Oh my, did he wince... a lot as the blood flowed back into those previously clamped areas.  Next I removed the string then nipple clamps.  Poor little trainee was shaking from the various intense sensations he had just experienced.

 I let him rest for a few minutes whilst I tidied up the equipment.  I thought instead of having a rest, we should get straight on to some rope play.  So I put him into a hogtie.  As  you can see in the pics.  I left him in that position for 20 minutes, and while I went off for a drink, one of the submissives sat with him.  He was in a relaxed state and feeling euphoric.  I smiled.  I was pleased how well my trainee did considering he has never had any BDSM play before.  Once I removed the ropes, I had my trainee tidy up and pack my bags in preparation for our eventual departure. 

Ms Neta was tired from all her hard, exciting and wicked play for the evening.  What a night!!

Sub Meet

My submissive and trainee both went off to a gathering for submissives/slaves/bottoms on Thursday.  Its a new group run by one of my dear kinky friends, and the feedback received from her, others and my boys was so positive.

They hope to meet once a month to socialise and discuss various kinky topics without Dominants/Tops present.  Everyone felt at ease and I do believe this will be a very successful group as time goes by.

These words were sent to me from my dear friend about my submissive bill.

"I just wanted to write and say it was an absolute pleasure to see sub bill at the Sub Meet Drink night. I look forward to getting to know him better through future events, he has such a unassuming, beautiful service nature. His commitment and dedication to being in your Service is clearly evident."

Yes, my submissive bill is a rare one, and I know many are scrutinising him and envious of him being in service to me.

We are both blessed.


Ms Neta

Flogging for trainee: 21/7/12

My trainee finally experienced his first BDSM play... that being, a flogging.  I flogged him for 20 minutes and he never  called orange.  He did state it was intense at times but he hung in there (literally) and endured the lovely flogging I gave him. 

Today, I received an appreciative text from my trainee stated he was so pleased that I introduced him to such wicked delights (my words) and he was on a high and resting.  Its wonderful when you receive gratitude from those who appreciate the attention, the training and me!

My Interview with FemDom Society

How do You wish to be addressed?
Ms Neta

What celebrity are You often told You resemble?
Oprah Winfrey… on occasion.

What do You consider to be Your greatest feature?
My smile.

What would We be surprised to learn that You have never done?
I have not travelled to the U.S.A

What is the best advice You have ever received?
Read, Read, Read relevant BDSM books to understand what you seek in this journey.

What are you “totally addicted” to?
Nurturing small animals

What do You not ever leave home without?
My handbag.

What do You wish you could be more of?
I would like to be more of teacher to newcomers in the scene yet I still have so much more to learn myself.

How long have You been in the lifestyle?
Three years

Would You consider Yourself to have had a regular childhood?
No, it was a disconnected although I do have a handful of good childhood memories.

What is your favorite beverage? (can be hot/cold, alcoholic/non-alcoholic,etc).
Sauvignon Blanc, Alcoholic Apple Cider and Chamomile Tea

Do you celebrate Christmas or a similar holiday at this time of year, and if so, what do you enjoy most about it?
I celebrate Christmas and thoroughly enjoy being around Jack and my children.

What's the sexiest thing a submissive has ever or could ever say to you?
You are stunning even when you wear that pink dressing gown with blue kittens all over it.

Tell Us about Your first Femdom experience, including a detailed description of how You felt ?
My first experience was with kristian.  He was from Holland and identified as a slave.  My first real experience with him was incredible.  He was seeking to be totally enslaved and I was seeking to enslave someone.  When we first walked into his home, and he immediately knelt in front of me and kissed my feet, I was full of pride that this male had given me his submission.  It was an extremely powerful moment for me.

What is the last book You read?
Uniquely Rika by Ms Rika
Relic by Douglas Preston and Lincoln Child

What is Your favorite movie?
Aliens – Sigourney Weaver - strong Female lead role
A long Kiss Goodnight – Geena Davis – strong Female lead role

Do You consider Yourself a Pro Domme, Lifestyle Domme, or a combination of both?
Lifestyle Dominant.

If You were to choose one word to describe the feeling You experience when Dominating a submissive, which word would You choose? 
Powerful, and Content.

What is Your general view of men?
Generally, I like men and of course I love a handful of males in my life.

Does Dominating another bring You sexual pleasure?  Tell Us about how so and why do You feel this way
I have only felt sexual pleasure with three submissives.  They were compatible with me and their service, all aspects of their service, was excellent and this was a turn-on for me.

Which lifestyle books and magazines would You recommend to others?
Uniquely Rika – Ms Rika
The Master’s Manual – Jack Rinella
SM 101 – Jay Wiseman

What is Your line of work?
Executive Management

How does Your work affect Your Femdom lifestyle?
Confident in my workplace role.

How do Your Female Supremacy views affect Your attitude within Your work environment?
I am not a Female Supremacist as I don't believe all Women are superior to all men.
I do have Feminist views but I do believe everyone is an individual and should be judged on an individual basis.

Does Your family know of Your lifestyle?
One sister knows.

Do You have friends in the lifestyle?
I have friends who I met in the lifestyle, yes.  And yes, I do socialise with them in vanilla settings as well.

Do You have vanilla friends who know of Your lifestyle?
Indeed, I do.

If Your favorite vanilla Girlfriend were to ask You why She should try dominating Her man, what reasons would You give Her?
Well, I would ask her:
How her partner would respond to being dominated? 
Were they kinky in the bedroom?
Would she be able to be in charge of a D/s dynamic 24/7. 
If she said yes, to all three, I would most certainly introduce her to the Lifestyle…baby steps of course.

Have You ever been to a lifestyle party?
Numerous times.

Have You ever played in public?
Numerous times.

What is the single most important mistake a submissive man makes when first approaching a Dominant Woman?
Assuming we are here to service and satisfy him.

What do You look for when reading an e-mail message from a submissive?
Give them advice if they have approached me politely.  If they are casual, blasé, I inform them to look in their local areas for likeminded.  I am very rarely rude to these people as some of them genuinely do not know how to approach Dominant Women, and do require some guidance.

Do You currently have a slave or submissive?
I have a submissive, and I am training a new submissive for future service to a Dominant.  I also have two other submissives who I call upon for domestic and hospitality service for Events.

Are You seeking other slaves or submissives?
No.

Do You consider Yourself straight or bi-sexual?
Straight

Do You prefer Your slaves or submissives to be straight or bi-sexual?
Bi-sexual suits me.  I like to watch male on male action occasionally.

Which rules do You require a slave or submissive to live by? For instance, rules regarding use of furniture, walking behind You, calling in, chastity, and so forth
I have many protocols for how my submissive must conduct himself in my presence.  A couple of examples are:-
For public - shaking of hands and a kiss on the cheek as I stare directly into my sub's eyes.  He must walk behind me to my left at all times.
For private - when I enter my sub's home, he is kneeling, naked, collared, smiling. I extend my right hand out, he kisses it and says "Welcome, my Mistress". I step back, smile and greet him then walk into the next room to sit on my throne.
He follows, provides me with either a glass of water or wine with a cheese and fruit platter. Then sits at my feet whilst we converse about our day's events... me first, of course.
My submissive always sits at my feet when we eat dinner in a Private setting.

What is Your favorite lifestyle activity?
I enjoy receiving all aspects of service i.e.  personal, anticipatory, domestic, sexual

Do You feminise Your servants?
I used to when I first started out in the Lifestyle but that was because I was new and feminising in my eyes took the masculinity away from males.  I made the males less intimidating.  Eventually I realised I enjoyed dominating masculine males… a lot more fun and challenging.

Does Your domination apply to all levels of Your relationship? For instance, do You or would You control Y/your finances?
I prefer not to control another’s finances mainly because I am not in a 24/7 relationship with my submissive.  However, if I were, most definitely, I would takeover.

Do You cuckold Your slaves or submissives with other lovers?
No.  It holds no interest to me.

Do You live a 24/7 FemDom lifestyle?
I live a 24/7 Female-led relationship which is based on the Female being in charge and the male knowingly being secondary to her.

If You are in a 24/7 FemDom relationship, would You describe Your relationship as stronger than a vanilla relationship?
N/A.

When a disagreement occurs between You and your slave or submissive, how is it resolved? Is Your word the final word?
I will listen to his side, and then make a decision on the issue after some consideration.

Do You set benchmarks for a male to prove his devotion to You?
Not formal benchmarks but if I believe he has not reached a particular goal within a set timeframe as per my expectations, I will re-train him in that particular area to reach his full potential.

Do You judge a slave or submissive’s willingness to embarrass himself as proof of his desire to serve You?
I believe it takes courage for a submissive to humiliate himself for his Dominant, and if he does, I am impressed.

What advice would You offer a Woman whose male partner has just asked to dominate him and She knows nothing of the lifestyle?
I would recommend some books to read initially.  The first one of course would be Uniquely Rika by Ms Rika. 
The central theme is, "It's not about what the Dominant does to the sub but about what the sub does for the Dominant." It's about the sub making his Dominant’s life better or easier.

How do You discipline Your servant(s)?
With a strap or cane however punishment/discipline is a rare occurrence as my submissive is well behaved.  The punishment should always fit the crime and that is the premise I tend to use when implementing punishment.

Do You use chastity on Your servant(s)?
No. 

How do You control the orgasms of Your servant(s)?
He must seek permission if he wishes to orgasm.  My submissive is very obedient, and has a low sex drive which helps.

Do You use strap-ons on Your servant(s)?
Yes I most certainly do.  The vac-u-loc is my favourite strap on dildo.  I use strap-ons perhaps once every two months as I know he craves it but will wait until I am ready to satiate his craving.  The penetration humbles him very much.  He is more docile for a quite a few days.  Lovely to observe.

What do the next five years hold for You?
In the Life, well I wish to enslave more males and just enjoy my Kink life to fullest.

Share with Us Your fears when You first became involved in the lifestyle
One fear I had was could I really dominate a male and maintain the domination.  It appears I have the gift and many males genuinely wish to submit to me.  I always inform submissives from the get-go, I don’t provide sexual service except to give Strap On when I’m in the mood to do so. 

Do You have any words of encouragement for new Dommes?
Persevere.  You will come across many fools and predators in this Life but you will soon recognise the red flags.  Persevere, enjoy and remember this Life is about you getting your Kink wants and needs met to your satisfaction.
And if you need support, seek a mentor, preferably a Female mentor, in your local area to guide you until you are confident to pursue your journey on your own.

14/7/12 - Rope Skillshare (14150)

I held a Rope Bondage Skillshare at my residence on Saturday and this was conducted by a friend of mine, a male dominant who loves rope to death.  He offered to teach the FemDoms some rope skills.  I am pleased to say many of the FemDoms already had rope skills but some of knot work helped to refresh many of them.

I am proficient enough to undertake a rope harness and hog ties, wrist and ankle restraints and that's it.  I use rope as part of my scenes.

Its not my thing but it is useful to know the basics to help with CBT, flogging and electro play scenes.

We had 13 attend the skillshare and it was such a lovely get together.  Everyone was friendly, asked questions, interacted well and we had four rope bunnies.  Unfortunately we ran out of time and so two of the rope bunnies missed out, being our two male submissives but the two female submissives got their rope treat.

Myself, I busy running around with my two submissives in tow ensuring food and drink were served and that overall everyone was comfortable.  It was pretty easy although walking up and down those stairs of mine became stressful on my legs, although my legs seem somewhat firmer *laughs*.this week.

The skillshare started at 2.00pm and finished at 4.00pm although many people were reluctant to leave and the last person left about 4.50pm.  It was a success and everyone went away with some form of knowledge for their next rope play.

There are plenty of books out there on rope skillshare.  I recommend everyone learning the basics to help make scenes more exciting, more intense.

Ms Neta

Good Evening: 22/7/12

Good evening.  Its been another long week due to many kinky events and meetings that have occurred last weekend and this weekend.  I am pleased to say I have nothing more planned until August 2012.  Only a couple of events which really is quite sufficient.  Life gets to hectic at times.  Don't you agree?

Anyway, I am here and ready to update my blog which I have neglected a little due to kinky commitments elsewhere.

Enjoy.  Oh, and I see a couple more followers.  Welcome to you.


Ms Neta

CBT Sensation Play - 12/7/12

This assignment was completed by my trainee submissive today.  I thought he did pretty well.  This research is in preparation to a play party we are attending next week, and he will certainly get to experience CBT along with flogging.  Such a lucky boy bitch.

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            There are many ways that sensation play can be done in regards to CBT. Many different tools can be used to achieve the desired effect. Hands can be used to slap gently, punch gently, squeeze or twist the cock and balls. Another popular method of CBT is bondage. This is done using cord, rope, string or laces to tie up the cock and balls into different positions and to different things. Another common device are ball stretchers which are straps of varying sizes which go around the top of the scrotum horizontally and force the balls down into the stretched sack. Bandages, rope or leather thongs can also be used for this purpose. Another thing that can be added to the balls while they are being stretched is weights. However the practice of weighting down the balls can be dangerous and the weights should be between 500g and 1.5kg to give sensation but also be safe at the same time.

            Crushing the balls is another method of CBT and can be achieved by using various different clamps or bondage equipment including cling wrap or elastic bandages.

            Clothes pins can also be used to cause pain. Depending on how much skin is caught in each individual pin will determine how painful that particular clothes pin is on the cock and balls. The more skin that is caught in the clothes pin the less painful that particular one will be. Clothes pins are also more painful coming off then they are going on as the blood flows back into the previously restricted areas. If the submissive/slave is new to clothes pin then the time they are wearing them should be limited to about 10 minutes or so and then adjust the time as he gains more experience.

11/7/12 - Strap On play

Last night, I visited my submissive.  He greeted me wearing his leather shorts and nothing else.  We chatted for a while before he served me my dinner.  A lovely chicken and white wine pie he made from scratch.  Impressive looking isn't it.  Salad served on the side, a lovely sauvignon blanc.  Absolutely delicious.  We chatted about the various Fet news about.  The unit was warm, I felt fabulous.

After dinner, I went off to get dressed.  I worn a black singlet, black panties, PVC thigh high boots and lace gloves.  The outfit did not quite match but I looked fabulous.

I had my submissive prepare the bedroom in preparation for some Strap On play.

First, he tightened my harness which was holding my 8 inch cock.  The 9 inch chocolate one would be used later.

I had my submissive kneel on the floor at my feet and made him suck my cock.  He choked as he tried to take the cock down and I commanded him to take more of the cock into mouth.  He choked and spluttered but did well enough.  Not impressive but he continued to try in order to please me.  He sucked my cock for about 6 minutes, and it was hot watching him worshipping my cock, kissing my cock, sucking my cock in between the choking trying to take it down his bitch throat.  Fabulous to watch.

Next I had my submissive get onto the bed.  I prepared his arse by inserting lubricant and applying to my cock for easy insertion.

I pushed my cock into his bitch arse and my did his arse gobble up my cock.  I permitted him to push back onto my cock.  As he was being fucked his moans of pleasure increased.  He was loving the feel of my bigness inside him.  Then the anal orgasms commenced and his sensitivity increased.  He couldn't handle any more of my cock but I continuedto thrust lightly.  He was pulling away from me but I pulled his arse back onto my cock, and groans and moans were loud, and hot.

I fucked him for about 15 minutes but it was a slow fuck rather than an intense fuck.  It was enjoyable to watch his reactions, and his exhaustion.  He did need to rest a couple of times.  Then I demanded him to come back so I could push back into him.  The thrusting was exquisite.

Once I decided he'd had enough, I decided to use the 9 inch chocolate cock.  My submissive was exhausted but in order to please me he came back obediently.  I manually pushed the chocolate cock into his sexy arse, and my submissive squealed but endured.  I thrust for a minute.  Gave him a rest... then thrust a little more.  It was very exciting to watch his pain, the sensitivity and the anal orgasms were mind blowing - for us both.  I liked it.  After 25 minutes of fucking my submissive, I ceased our play.  He was exhausted and fell back onto the bed.

A few minutes later I requested my submissive lay on the floor.  I stood over him and all that appeared on his face was a satisfied smile.  He loves to be under me. 

Such a good, sub bitch.  He knows he is lucky to serve the best Mistress in the world.  Yes, I have a healthy ego, and I am served extremely well.  In fact, I am content with his service.  No one has served me as well as he has. 

My day - 10/7/12

Yesterday, one of my work colleagues commented on how much weight I had lost.  I was surprised because I did not realise I had lost weight except for my nuisance skirt that kept on falling down to my hips.  Irritating.  Today, I used a belt to hold the skirt in place and it felt so much better.

Well I thought I would share something mundane about myself.

Now on to exciting things.  I am looking to hold a Strap On play skillshare in the near future and I have got some interest... mainly from the males but that's OK, I know how many of the males out there enjoy a good anal fucking from a Strap On dildo.

Tomorrow evening I am off to visit my submissive, who is currently dildo training in the shower at this very moment in preparation for my visit tomorrow.  Its Strap On play and he will be feeling my 8 inch Strap On dildo.  I might pull out the 9 inch chocolate cock as well.  He is giggling like a real slutty bitch and very much looking forward to my visit.  He can be such a slut at times.

Flogging Assignment - 29/6/12

I requested my trainee submissive to research Flogging in preparation for his first flogging next week.  This is what he came up with...

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            The sensations a flogging can impart on the person who is being flogged are varied.  There are many different types of implements used for flogging but most are multiple tails attached to a leather and wooden handle. The first thing that should happen before any actual flogging is a discussion with the bottom about safe words, what the bottom desires and whether or not the bottom prefers a stinging or thud sensation. These different sensations are caused by the different floggers used and also the different ways in which the flogger is wielded by the top that is doing the flogging.

            The basic areas that get flogged are the buttocks and upper back avoiding the spine areas to avoid causing serious injury, the flogging is supposed to be an enjoyable experience for both parties. A bottom that is being flogged isn’t only interested in the physical sensations of the flogging but also the endorphin high which can come from it as well.

            How do I feel about being flogged by Ms Neta? I would say I feel nervous, anxious, excited and unsure about it all. Also a little scared but that is mainly from just not knowing how it’s going to feel and whether or not I will like it. For the most part however, I am excited to have this experience and I do look forward to it Ms Neta. Will be a good experience for me I do know I have my safewords to use if it does get to be too much for me and I will not hesitate to use them if I need to.

Corner Time (13,372)

 
I requested one of my favourite WP members to undertake Corner Time (1.5hrs) for me earlier in the week.  She accomplished the task and wrote up the description for me.  Delicious.

FDCT Chit Chat - 7/7/12

Yesterday, Saturday 7th July, it was FDCT coffee chit chat.  Only a handful attended but it was most enjoyable and very productive.  It gave us an opportunity to organise some terrific events for the rest of the year.  My trainee submissive was with me and is love being trained by me.  I give him tasks and he completes them promptly.  My kind of people.

I instruct, they complete within a timely manner... all I can say, bring me more submissives who have terrific ethics, and manners.

Next Saturday, I am holding a Rope Bondage skillshare and have 15 people attending to learn rope.  Isn't it wonderful.  My trainee submissive will be a rope bunny for me.  My submissive bill unfortunately has to work but he'll benefit from the rope skills by Ms Neta.

Cleavage shot

This photo won me the Cleavage competition a couple of years back so I'm just sharing again.

Written Punishment Group on Yahoo

I have been flat out on the Written Punishment Group this week.  The group members are most enjoyable to be around and to interact with.

Tasks are set and completed.  Very satisfying for all parties involved.

If you like to write lines, then come join our Group.  The punishments are real though - this is not a game - its a "kink", and its VERY REAL.


Ms Neta

Wed - 4/7/12

On Wednesday, I had planned to spend the day with my submissive bill and go see a movie and lunch.  Well that turned to shit I have to say.

Unfortunately our child was still unwell and had to be taken to the doctors.  Whilst I was reversing out of the garage I bumped the esky which in turn bumped the track of the rollerdoor.  Ugh.  I had to drop off our other child to school and when I said grab your backpack as he was getting out of the car - he stared at me in a way that I knew something was wrong.  He had left it at home, and I had to take our other child to the doctors.  Talk about IRRITATING.  I told him I would bring the backpack later.  I zipped off to the doctors.  Got there no receptionists and so while I was waiting, I text bill, my submissive, and told him what was going on.  He came back and said "Mistress, would you like me to come and fix the track on the roller door".  I was short in my response and he knew I was an unhappy Woman at that moment. 

We finally got into the doctors and he said there was nothing much that could be done to help our child except for her to wait out the illness.  Anyhoo, off I zipped.  Got some cough medicine and other bits and pieces, and was so hyped up with the awful morning, I decided to go and buy another guinea pig.  Her name is Liquorice.  She is delightful.

Got home, dropped off child.  Grabbed the backpack to drop off at school.  Then rushed back home.  bill arrived and brought some food for lunch.  We ate.  He repaired the track which was very easy to fix he said.  He used pliers.  I used a hammer earlier - ha ha ha - yep, that didn't work at all.

I informed Jack about the guinea pig.  He wasn't too happy but accepted it was inevitable another cavy was going to be added to the pack. 

I then received a surprising email from another mistress extending the hand of friendship through apology.  I accepted whilst bill was massaging my stressed feet.  At 3.00pm, I sent bill home as I had to pick up our child, and lo and behold, our child was waiting for his sibling who had gone off to race in the inter-school championships.  Anyway got him home, then waited for a phone call for our other child to call to inform me when she was back at school.  4.20pm she text me and I zipped off to pick her up.  She gave me the good news that she was in the top 20 out of 250 participants. 

I was so exhausted from the day I decided since I didn't get to go out and have lunch and see a movie I was going to see my submissive.  And, I did.

He pampered me that evening and afterwards, I was very relaxed and in a great frame of mind.  I slept well that evening.

I am blessed to have an amazing family and submissive.  Ms Neta deserves it of course!

Hi All - 8/7/12

Good evening Everyone
I have been extremely flat out of late and have not got to my fabulous blog to update you all about my happenings.

Oh well, I am here and will write up about a few of my activities over the past couple of weeks.  Its been most enjoyable.

I see I have another follower, hello Rob, nice to see you here  ;)


Ms Neta