Tips for sub/slave's journey

Attend local munches and skillshares.  I suggest you contact a Group Moderator as a point of contact for when you attend so you have someone to greet and introduce you to other members.
Find a mentor who can help you, guide you in your journey.

It takes honesty. Honesty and trust in and with oneself, and honesty and trust with others.  It takes tintelligence and rationale.

It will take patience.  It will take understanding of yourself and that you will make mistakes.  There will be times where you will doubt yourself, your abilities, you will question the way you've always thought about something, and realise that sometimes change is necessary.

Question things until you understand them and be honest with yourself about lack of understanding and show a ‘want’ to understand.

You have to find someone you connect with, feel attraction to, and who you share interests with.  Think vanilla relationship with the added excitement of kink.  You will get to know them, build trust and respect, and eventually love. You take things one step at a time, and see how they go. Remember be safe and smart about things as you progress.