Tuesday 23 September 2014

30 ideas to make Your slave feel Owned (i.e. loved)


How do you make your submissive/slave feel owned/loved.  What are some of the daily/weekly reminders you employ to reassure them their submission to you is important. 

One of the main factors, for a submissive/slave feeling truly Owned is to be constantly reminded throughout the day of his Dominant's control.  These reminders can be subtle or really obtrusive. The more often a slave is reminded of his submission, the deeper it becomes....and the more fulfilling. So here are some ideas You might want to try... And no matter what rules You decide to make Your own, please....be consistent. 

If You are unwilling to take the time to enforce the rules You make, then there may as well be no rules at all.  There is nothing in the world that will make a slave feel less loved than to have a Mistress who ignores his transgressions and does not exert their Dominance.

  1. Have him wear slave bells. The constant soft jingling of the bells is soothing and a certain reminder of his submission. 
  2. When he has broken a rule, talk to him as You punish....and make him speak in detail about why/what he did was wrong. 
  3. Make him take his shoes off every day as soon as he enters Your house. 
  4. A beautiful, special collar will make any slave joyous. Take the time to select the right one, and have him wear it as often as possible. 
  5. Have him call You each day at a specified time, no excuses. 
  6. Give him anklets and tell him he must wear one of them every day, no excuses. 
  7. Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have him kneel before You and ask to accompany You upon the furniture. 
  8. Choose his hairstyle and go with him to get it cut to Your specifications. 
  9. Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have him display himself whenever You come into the room.....legs spread, shirt unbuttoned. No matter what position You take, he is to be sure Your view is unobstructed 
  10. When around the kids or vanilla friends/family, make sure he has an alternative title for You besides Mistress.....such as "my Love" etc. 
  11.  Use him sexually in a rough, selfish way when You feel like it....interrupting whatever he was doing. 
  12. Choose a food that he dislikes and have him eat a small portion every day for a week. 
  13. Have him crawl to bed each night. 
  14. Bring him a stuffed animal each time You go out of town. ~smiles~ 
  15. Choose his clothing each day. 
  16. Have him get Your daily wardrobe ready for You the night before....laid out, ironed etc. 
  17. After punishment, have him kiss Your boots and thank You for loving him enough to correct him. 
  18. Have him bring a warm towel and wash and massage Your feet each day after work. 
  19. Get him tattooed (Your choice of art and location). 
  20. Get him pierced (or preferably if You are trained, do it Yourself). 
  21. Get him branded. 
  22. Respect, but push his limits. 
  23. Ask him each night what he did that day that You would not have approved of *smiles*.  This gets him in the habit of being completely honest, and also makes him conscious of the things he could do better each day. 
  24. Teach him exactly how You want him to kneel, and demand perfection. 
  25. Reward him by allowing him to please You sexually. 
  26. Supervise his workout routine. 
  27. Each night he is to kneel next to the bed asking permission to sleep with his Dominant, and each night he does, he is to kneel by the bed in the morning and thank his Dominant for the privilege. 
  28. Have him polish Your boots weekly, on him knees at Your feet. 
  29. Negotiate until you are both comfortable with the terms and then sign a contract. 
  30. Give him a writing assignment: "The definition of Pain - 1000 words" 

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