Sabbatical

Good evening.

I'm just sharing with those people who read this just to inform you I am on sabbatical for the next three months.

I will be active offline but not so much online.

I will return as I so enjoy this life but I have other focusses that require my attention at this time.  I do have a couple of kink events to attend this month and next month which I will write up about, however, there won't be the usual regular posts for the interim period.

I still have my submissive and another in my realm who I will continue to enjoy but that is the extent of my interactions at this time.


Ms Neta

30/9/12 - Flogging

Flogging for one hour, ten minutes.  Caning and Birching was included.  It wa a most enjoyable flogging session, and as you can all see, my submissive enjoyed it very mutch too.  Aah impact play is so cathartic.

I even enjoyed practising using two floggers.  I will need to do more of that type of play but it was so much fun watching my submissive flinch, sigh, jerk, dance, zone out, embrace the lick, the kiss, the feel of the various floggers.  The music certainly added to the scene as well.  I really should video one of our scenes one day. 

Anyway we finished our time together with a fruit platter and pampering time.  We always have a terrific time together.

30/9/12

Good afternoon everyone.  Its a beautiful Spring day here in Tassie.  I am sitting back having a cup of tea, turkish delight and listening to the birds chirp as I watch I, Robot.  Multi-tasking but obviously not giving my full attention to everything as I am also browsing on the internet.

My trainee is no longer being trained by me.  The other day, he requested to cease being trained as he was looking for emotional as well as the physical aspects of D/s.  I reminded him that he was not my submissive and that our relationship was only ever about training.  He has experienced a few things in my realm and I hope one day he finds a relationship where he can thoroughly enjoy a full D/s relationship.  He is a lovely young man and I wish him all the very best in his future.

Awesome

Scene for this coming Saturday

Double scene planned for this coming weekend - Saturday.

• Mummification and anal play for my trainee.

• Flogging and bondage for my submissive.

Photos will be posted soon after.  Kinky fun for us all!!

22/9/12

On Saturday, 22nd September 2012 I had an emotional rollercoaster of a day.

I discovered my pet cavy dead.  He had diarrhoea the night before, I isolated him from the others and made sure he was comfortable - bluey - left refreshments for him, plenty of hay and warmth.  The next morning 4.55am, I jumped up to see how he was - he was dead.  He was a crest headed american cavy - orange coloured with a white tuff on his head.  We had only had him for 4 weeks.  I bought him for a companion for our other boy.  Needless to say, I was shocked and very upset by this sudden loss.  The loss of our little boy was conveyed to our family.  All were very sad.  He was given a lovely burial.

It was Jack's birthday also.

I made him bacon, eggs, grilled tomato and sauteed mushrooms.  He was gifted by the family for his special day.

At 10.00am, I left our residence and went to purchase another cavy for a companion for Cookie.  A few other errands were undertaken.

I arrived at home about 11.00am and my submissive bill had arrived as he was assisting Jack to lay instant turf on a stoned area we had in the backyard.  They worked hard all day.  I sat, watched, and appreciated all that my wonderful males do for me.

We had birthday cake for Jack.

At 6.00pm we went off to a lovely restaurant, bill was invited by Jack to join us for dinner.  It was a pleasant meal but the company was marvellous.  All of my family together.

It was a long day... sad, happy and pleasant.

I wish to thank my submissive bill for all that he does for me, and my family actually.  His service is exemplary and I am pleased he came into my life.  We all enjoy him... and I very much appreciate him.

Ms Neta

Special Thank you

I would like to give a special thanks and appreciation to my kinky ass-istant who will be increasing 'her' assistance to me, for me, over time.

15/9/12

I caught up with my submissive on Friday.  I was going to scene with my trainee as well but unfortunately my submissive wasn't 100% so it was called off.

I look forward to catching up with both my sub and trainee in two weeks' time.  Mummification, anal play and flogging will be involved.  And of course, photos will be posted when at that time.  :)

I had some nice fish and chips on Friday evening and my feet were lovingly pampered.  They feel and look fabulous now.  Thank you sub bill.

A poem by my Kinky Ass-istant - Sept 2012

Your dark, lustrous locks of black hair set the stage

For that inimitable smile that lights up all rooms

It even eclipses that partially exposed cleavage

Making my pulse race, despite the crop that looms    

Before my eyes, which are drawn to the exposed black lace       

Straining to keep your magnificence covered, and I cower      

But only briefly, before returning to your beautiful face

Those eyes so bright and strong with your inner power

That belies your well thought out intended sadistic acts

We have discussed what you would enjoy enacting

I have no fear of harm, I know you care, I need no pacts

Though I know it will hurt enough to leave me crying

My only wish and desire is to continue to be allowed

To serve you Ms Neta, in all and any ways I am able

My devotion, worship, and admiration remain avowed

And allow me to keep my mundane life happy and stable

Submissive vs Slave vs Bottom:

Author unknown but I thank them for providing their definitions of what a submissive / slave / bottom are:

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Bottom:

Someone who loves to be played with and will allow a dominant to top them but ONLY for the duration of a play scene. Once the scene is over they are 100% equals and it’s not uncommon for a bottom to dictate what kind of play they want. For example, I occasionally want an endorphin rush so will ask a friend to use a single tail on me - I dictate when, where, how hard, what toys, and I am NEVER bound because I am controlling what I want - he complies because he is a good friend and its all in fun. Thus I can and do bottom, but I am NEVER submissive. I am not wired that way. A bottom does not submit, a bottom never gives up control.

Submissive:

Someone who wants to yield control to a dominant. They negotiate boundaries and the dominant sets safe words for them. BDSM to them isn’t about just the sensations; it’s about being in that submissive headspace. It’s about submitting your mind and body (and possibly your heart) to a dominant for them to use as they see fit (within your limitations of course). A submissive is a submissive long before a scene starts and continues to be a submissive long after a scene ends. It is a part of who they are and how they relate to their dominant partner. A submissive is NOT a doormat, they are an independent free thinking person who compliments a dominant in their servitude. A submissive has the right to walk away from a relationship if it isn’t meeting their personal needs.

Slave:

There are so many different views on what a slave is or isn’t but here is the general consensus. A slave is a submissive who takes it one step further giving up all rights to their dominant partner. They give up safe words and trust 100% that their dominant will do whatever is in their best interest. They do not question their dominant, they obey without reservation. The rules for a slave can be quite strict and the discipline for breaking the rules can vary drastically. It is generally accepted that a slave must beg for permission to be released should they ever feel the need to leave a relationship – but the reality is slavery in that context is not legally binding (even with a contract signed) and no one can prevent someone from leaving a relationship should it either not meet their needs or if it becomes abusive.