Mind Fucks 3 discussion

How do you define a “Mind fuck”? And, what in your experience has been a good one you have received/given?

Mistress Meg

The best mind fuck I did to someone else and I didn't even realise I was doing it at the time.

I had instructed my then sub to wait for me at his house in the very early morning (4am) with two candles burning in his bedroom and the front door slightly ajar. The rest of the house was to be dark and the dog tied up outside.

He was to be naked and kneeling blindfolded beside the bed.

When I walked in it just took my breath away. I could actually see goosebumps on his skin and watching him breathe heavily before I even touched him....well divine. It made my very being ache to touch him.

I spoke softly as I moved about getting myself and a couple of things ready. When I touched him he jumped a mile and I giggled softly.

modesty inserted So things progressed very nicely from there.

The mind fuck? I hear you ask.

Well, afterwards he told me that he was CONVINCED that with the way I spoke and moved about while he was blindfolded, that I had brought one or even two people inside with me !!!!

Glorious :P

Lady Midnite

One of my favorite mind fucks I ever did was while I was at a plat party one night. I was doing some knife play on a boy and "accidentally slit his throat". Hehehehe. (Thanks for the help on that one silas! I still laugh every time I think about it.)

Switch

Hmmm it seems i remember that one. he he. I remember playing a new girl one night and once her hands were tied over her head i brought out a set of clothes pins about 8 in long and 2 in wide. They are scarry as hell to look at and i turned to her and said i have been waiting for some wonderful nipples to put these on. I thought she would wet herself. lol She started wiggling trying to get loose it was so nice to watch. The thing is they are so un scarry i put one on my tongue and it did not have enough strength to stay on it fell off. But like it says it is all in the mind.
silas

River Butch

I'm willing to share, but please don't try to tell me how stupid it was or dangerous. I was well aware of the danger and what could have happened, but I had full trust in the people that performed this scene.

I attended a very private party. Someone I knew quite well was also invited to this party. She knows that I'm not into bondage, but that soon came into her plan. She had planned out this scene with another Dominant, of course I had no clue. As I was sitting there she approached me with rope in hand, asked me to remove my shirt so she could try out a new tie. I thought nothing of it, and did as she asked. My hands and arms were bound, rather tightly, then she asked me to stand. She removed my pants, and told me she was going to bind my hands to my feet. Again I went along, seeing no harm in her actions.

Next thing I know is a hood was placed over my head, I remember wondering what I had then gotten myself into. I felt two people life me from where I sat, and move me to a spot where my hands were them bound over my head. Yes at this point I'm thinking.. "Oh Shit"

I am left there for what seemed like forever, then I begin to feel her breath on my neck, then I feel something very cold leaning up against my flesh. She removes the hood and before my eyes, she flashes a gun. Yes, I said a Gun. I watched her as she walked around the room, I looked into the eyes of the other people watching.

I knew from the type of work she does that she would Never approach anybody in such a manner with a weapon that could actually be fired. She had no intentions of causing death, but at that point my mind was so out there, all I could do was trust her.

She returned to me and an integration scene began. When I refused to speak, she grabbed my hair, pulling my head back, thus opening my mouth. She placed the barrel of that gun in my mouth and told me she was going to blow me away.... I remember looking briefly into her eyes, just before I heard that gun go "Click"

I think for a moment I passed out, I know I peed all over the floor. She had taken me way beyond any edge that I had ever imagined. But once was enough, I'd never do that again.

Just so you know the woman I spoke about is an FBI agent, and a member of SWAT. So I trusted myself to her, knowing her knowledge and skill. Other wise, this scene would have Never taken place.

Outlaw Tiny

The best mind fuck I've ever given someone would be, I had a transvestite tied in their kitchen doorway hands above there head ankles tied at the bottom secured to each side of the doorjam not exactly spreadeagle but close . There was a nice butcherblock in the kitchen complete with a clevor I slid the block over in front of her and tied a 1/4 rope around the bottom of the block pulling her cock down and holding it against the block . I then blindfolded her and started with a bit of knife play . I then teased her about chopping of her cock for a bit. Then I grabbed the clevor and with one hard blow chopped the rope holding her cock setting it free bobbing in the air and she came . Afterwards we talked and she told me she thought I really chopped it off till I pulled off the blindfold . Ive done other mindfucks aswell like giving someone a tattoo with a tattoogun but with no ink .

Tom the Dom

ok, so here come some of my tamed mind-fucks.

get a cat-food can, and open it with those can openers that remove the lid so you can close it again. empty the cat food. (give it to stray cats if you have none). clean the cat food can
cook home made goulash. fill it into the can

serve it to your guests from the can, heated up in a water bath :D

eat your own portion with delight

if you want to ante it up, invite them for a HELLO KITTY THEMED DINNER

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along the same lines and not cooked up by me, but by a famed Czech theater (and cinema) actor, during the communist reign no less... on a flight to Prague from a fellow east block country.... he smuggled meat salad into the plane

mid flight with turbulences he ate the sald (filled his mouth) and than faked to get sick. he grabbed the puking bags, and "puked" (spit it out) in such a manner everyone had to notice. once that was completed he took a fork and ate it back up from the bag

the whole plane fell for his mind fuck and puled... but they didnt eat it back up

giggles

Ms Neta

A mini 'mind fuck' was - my submissive prepares me a picnic lunch once a fortnight. White crockery, glassware, cloth serviettes - its very 'refined'. He serves me an entree: salmon and cream cheese, or brie on cracker bisuits. Main: will be a meat sandwich with salad. Dessert: A homemade fruit salad or a cream dessert. OK I just had to give you a picture of how well my boy pampers me.

I advised him to be at my workplace, 1.00pm sharp, with my lunch. No problems. At 11.30am, I sent him to text to be at my workplace 12.30pm sharp. He freaked as he was still in the supermarket buying the goodies... oops, wrong story.

A few weeks back I sent bill a text to say "where are you, I'm waiting for you outside for our lunch get together." He freaked (he does this often ha ha ha). "but, but, but Mistress I didn't realise we were meeting today". We weren't, but I was in a playful mood. It took him a while to calm down from that mini mind fuck angelic smile -he hates to disappoint me in any way.

Wicked Mz Toni

I started playing with a new guy I met at the munch. He wanted to be my devoted personal servant and talked about all the experience he had. I told him that I was extremely sadistic and that I might be too much for him, that he should ask around.

We had our first dungeon date. I like to do a 'mapping' where I take all sort of toys to the date and see what they do. It was pretty obvious that all his 'experience' had been was being lightly spanked (probably by a prodomme).

I had him tied securely to a massage table and was doing a bit of cbt. He wasn't going anywhere.

I pulled out my scuba knife and told him to hold VERY still, my knive was extremely sharp and that if he were to move just a little bit into the blade, he might be very badly cut and that I didn't want that to happen to him.

I made sure he knew he was completely immobilized and then started running the knife over his body. I started acting all crazy, telling him how much I loved the the look and feel of blood and sometimes I found it hard to control myself around it. I made sure to show him that crazy, vacant look in my eyes. You know, the lunatic gaze...

I took the point of the knife and had it over his trachea and was holding it in such a manner that I could easily plunge it into his throat.

While still holding the knife over his throat, I whispered in his ear, "If you want to live for me, you had better be prepared to die for me." and made a move like I was going to push it into his throat.

He started shaking uncontrollably with fear. I imagine this sort of fear is what serial killers got off on. It was delicious!

That knife was dull as hell and probably couldn't have opened a letter ....later on he told me, "I've rafted down class 5 rapids, I've jumped out of an airplane and had my parachute fail, but I've never been more afraid in my life!!!

kohinoorD

I define it as an altered state of mind, where your mind tells you x is happening, but in fact something else is happening. Example - you see the top get his knife out, and maybe even demonstrate how sharp it is.. are then blindfolded, cant see anymore, but you feel the knife on your skin.. you might be bound and gagged too, there might be a body-bag waiting on the floor near you, who knows. You may even feel the insertion of the knife into various crevices. Eeks! Or so your mind is telling you. ;)

Ultimately, it turns out that at no point in time did the blade ever touch your body. It was the spine of the blade, or even just the edge of a credit card. LOL

That was a pretty good one I received, a couple years ago. I remember feeling fear, for real. And fear is not an emotion I feel often.

I believe I am currently going through what may come to be the best mind-fuck ever, in my experience, but I don't think I can tell of it just yet ;P

Tom the Dom

actually even tame "phrases" used in the spankng thene are mind fucks...

• wait till we get home

• you will be crying your eyes out long before this is over

• thats enough bratting, young lady ...

to name a few

kohinmoor

@Tom - Yes, the mind has a way of interpreting these phrases and lending associations to them, that are sometimes quite out of touch with reality ;P

Tom the Dom

@kohinoorD

yes, it has. a mind fuck could maybe defined as a play on fears

kohinoorD

@Tom - It doesn't have to be fears, specifically. It can be anxieties, or on the other end - fantasies. Every deviant mind and his or her warped patterns, yanno? A mind-fuck that hasn't to do with fears can be dropping hints at say.. a collaring/wedding. LOL

Tom the Dom

kohinoorD,

it can be and yet it plays with fears... because anxieties, and anticipations, dwell in fear as well
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but i am tired and maybe just wrong.

you are right about the fantasies.

setting a mind in fire with smoke, like Amergin once wrote

kohinoorD

Tom, interesting food for thought. No pun intended :)

Tom the Dom

ok reporting a beautiful mind fuck...

i had mentioned elsewhere on FL, that my fetlist would make for a nice punishment ... count the fetishes...... write it down by hand ...(learn by heart as the worst of all) giggles.

a friend of mine read the post and when we YIMmed told me, to forget that punishment on her because she wouldnt do it ever - its way over the top.

we kept chatting and she said something or the other and i told her that she now is in trouble - (she had mildly crosse dme). anyway so she kept teasing and watcha gonna do and stuff, so i said well i will double your trouble. she kept going and i asked in a seripous tone if she realyl wants me to triple the trouble she is in?

she snapped back into her true self, and apologized and asked. so what is the trouble i am in about (as in what punishment equals trouble)

i told her, calmly, that single trouble would have been writing down my fetlist, but as she wanted double the trouble, she is to write is down on paper twice

she paled. well, she stopped communicating, and then started to REALLY APOLOGIZE

i told her dont worry, i just mind fucked you

thanks for being such a good punishee.

see?

beautiful mind fuck.

Humiliatrixx

Ahhhhhhhhh the mind and the many ways you can fuck it inside and out! hahahaha

One of my favorites and one I will never ever forget.

I had my boy bound, doing some flogging, cbt, etc..

He had always had a dislike/limit for knives. He knew I loved knife play, but I never pushed it with him. This particular day, I made sure he could see the knives in my bag, before I blindfolded him, I continued with the cbt, flogging n such. Then I went to the restroom, had an empty syringe that I had filed the tip on, made it feel like a knife. Filled the syringe with warm lube. I walked up to him, teasing his body, whispered in his ear and asked if he trusted me. He said he did.

I began slowly dragging the tip of the syringe along his chest, very lightly at first, adding pressure here and there, and allowing a bit of the lube to just ooze out. Before long he was soaring, I loved seeing his chest rise, begging for more. After I was done, I released him from the bindings, took the blindfold off, I had to snicker because he didn't look to see what (if) anything was done to his chest. Instead he snuggled at my feet, coming down from subspace. Finally he looked up and asked if he could go look in a mirror, I said he could.

He was very disappointed that he didn't have any actual markings, came back to my feet and begged for me to mark him. He still has no clue, it's been over 10 yrs, and when we talk, he still talks about that night, like it was yesterday ;) In his mind, I used knives... but in actuality I didn't lol. After that night we enjoyed many knife play scenes and he loved them!!!

Tom the Dom

@AngelDeR. i love your testimony showing how healing even a mind fuck can be :)

Slave2hersadism

@AngelDaRainha The intensity of that scene is both scary and intriguing to me Mistress. i know how Your boy must have felt because i have felt You get inside my head in the same way many times. Not as a mind fuck, but inside my head as You taunt and tease me as if You know my every desire

Humilatrixx

Another one of my favorites was with the same guy. He was bound to the bed, spread eagle and blindfolded. I toyed with him for quite awhile, before a knock came at the door (I had pre-arranged for a hotel worker to come deliver a newspaper at that time), I stepped outside, just enough all he could hear was mumbles. When I came back in, I slipped into the restroom which was right by the door... put on a new perfume (one I never used before), different outfit. I began toying with him again, but in a different mannerism, changed my responses to no words, just sounds in a different tone so he had NO clue it was me the whole time, he truly thought it was someone else, infact he still thinks that 10+ yrs down the road.