24/1/15 - Out for Dinner

It was our local scene’s play party on Saturday night however I was not in the mood to attend.  I have lost interest in public play these days.  The thrill has gone.  I prefer to ‘play’ in private.

My ex sub, who is still closely connected to me with a strong friendship, asked if I would like to go out for dinner.  We went out to a fabulous restaurant in Bellerive.  Impressive views, excitable people, stunning food. 

I drove to his place, and he had set up the dining table next to the bay window and prepared an entrée for us.  The entrée was one of my favourite dishes… OYSTERS.  They were salty tasting – just the way I like them, and delicious tasting which my mouth savoured.

I haven’t seen Bill for 6 weeks and it was great to catch up with him.  He always thrives when he is in my presence.

We chatted about goings-on in the Fet world… and let me say, not much has really been happening.  Its been drama-free as it should be.

Half an hour later we headed off to the restaurant.  As I stated above, it was a fantastic venue, and the service received was spot on.

We stayed there for three hours and had a great time. 

I went back to his place, he set up my chair, he sat on the couch and we chatted for another hour, one glass of wine, listening to Life album by Simply Red and talked about what 2015 will hold for us.

At 10pm, I drove home and contemplated the D/s relationship of 4 years I had with Bill, and will always cherish the relationship dynamic we had but I am very happy now.  I can now focus on my life, and the direction I want that life to head.  Eventually I will seek a new submissive/slave to serve me but only when I’m ready.

~Ms Neta~

16/1/15 - First Munch for the Year 2015

Friday, 16 January 2015, I attended our local munch.  The first one for the year.  It was a most enjoyable evening.  There were a few newbies in attendance and it was absolutely enjoyable to meet the new people as well as some people who I had been friends with, online, for a few years, to finally meet them in real time.

Upon my arrival, I was greeted by quite a few members who were excited to see me. I felt like a celebrity for a moment being greeting, hugged, kissed and welcomed by many.

There were two tables with 12 seating arrangement.  It was an impressive turn out for the beginning of the year.  We all chatted about various topics, laughed a lot and generally just had a fabulous time.

The food was even delicious.

I stayed for about 2.5 hours which is a lengthy time for me as I tend to become bored easily.  I look forward to attending future events when time permits.

~Ms Neta~

Journal: 26/1/15

Good afternoon

**Happy Australia Day**

As some of you may have noticed I have changed my blog.  Its 2015, time for a change.  A positive move to ensuring my life is even better than it has been previously.

I changed the name of this blog as an acknowledgement to someone who inadvertently helped me open myself to other opportunities and explorations in this life.

A lot of changes have occurred for me over the past couple of months.  A lot of reflection, minute changes, a clearer focus, and I am heading towards a calmer state.

This year is about teaching others, sharing my knowledge, becoming less selfish and more selfless.

I have been on a variety of sites, exploring my inner needs and have come to the realisation that it was all very dissatisfying for my spirit.  Sure, a couple of liaisons enlightened me however I now know I do not want to experience them again.

My focus this year will be to remove any debris from my life that is unwanted, immediately.  I am at a good place intellectually, mentally and emotionally.  I still have to work on some other areas but I believe that the change will happen, in time.

My Opinion - 10/1/15

Dear followers

Its incredible how many males are out there who are ONLY looking for kinky sex. Nothing wrong with kinky sex mind you but they honestly have no interest in receiving pain or giving servitude.  What the fuck is that mentality about.  FemDom porn has a goddamn lot to answer for.  Its incredible and astounding at the stupid, simple attitudes of many of the 'kinky' males.  Too many males think or lead with their cocks, come on boys, man up and show you truly want to serve a Dominant Woman through anticipatory and attentive servitude and I am not referring to being fucked anally or giving oral service.  Get the mindset right first, then the rest follows.  Only a few have cottoned on to this, the rest are fools.

Some of you may consider me harsh but you know what, I am not interested in connecting with narrow minded fools who can't take the time to learn about Female Dominance - not PORN FemDom - and that it is not all about boot licking, arse licking, cunt licking, and whatever other lickings there are - its about showing her how important she is through your submission to her Dominance - mind, body and soul.  Transfer of Authority.  Power Exchange.  Your genuine submission.  Not flowery, superficial words just so you can get a fuck after being dominated for five minutes.  Cripes.

*hehe* just my little bit of a rant this evening although I am amused at the same time.

Other than communicating with a handful of idiots, this year has started off well, goddess, let's hope it continues on a good note.

My submissive J

Well it is almost NYE.  Incredible really that 2015 is just around the corner.

I am sitting in bed relaxing after an interesting night.

Today, I have been browsing the usual Kink sites I am on and whilst doing this I received a text from my potential submissive.  This submissive is driven, motivated and committed.  Unfortunately for us both, he lives up north so connecting will be irregular.  He has been around me for one month now.  We met up north to ensure our compatibility.  We were.

He is just lovely.  Intelligent, charming, articulate, gentle, and strong.

The reason for writing this is because submissive J continues to strive well in his commitment to me by sending his daily texts even when he is travelling around the country.  Even when he works long hours, his relatives are unwell, through flooding and drought,and unwellness, he continues to stick to his commitment to me.  I have only come across three other males who were able to maintain this kind of contact in the past 5 years.

slave K, sub B, slave A and now, submissive J.

Its heartening to know there really are slaves and submissives out there who dedicated themselves to me, even though at times they teetered about whether to continue in their service to me.

Thank you to submissive J for remaining focussed on me amidst the other commitments in your life.  Another breath of fresh air... for a change.

Being submissive doesn't mean being someone's doormat.  It doesn't mean you are weak.  It means YOU are strong enough to know your desires, strong enough to let go of the control.  Being submissive isn't easy, and it isn't for the weak!

Expectations II

Good evening
Well its almost the end of 2014.

I just wanted to convey some thoughts about my expectations in a D/s dynamic.

It appears the majority of males are only interestED in serving Dominant Women if they can also fuck them.

If there is no fucking, then there is no interest in service or a 'relationship'.  And that is OK, people.  To each their own.

My expectations for those who do wish to connect with me through a D/s dynamic are:

• Show me a commitment in your service to me by undertaking service tasks, and daily communications
• Be unattached as I don't want the wife or girlfriend coming after me or interfering with the dynamic
• I have no problem with sex on my terms - for discussion in private.
• Attending public Kink events 
• Accepting pain for my pleasure.

All these expectations would be discussed in length as part of the negotiation and consent process. However, I had to list my expectations for 'relationships' prior to anything forming as many males get too caught up in how pretty, beautiful, sexy I am - they become too fixated on the pretty pics - and not my words.  Visual creatures you males are.

That said, I am visual, myself.

What I don't want in a submissive/switch partner -

• Overweight (beer gut or just a fat gut)
• Beards
• Small cocks (less than 6 inches)

• Single-minded sexually
• Fear of pain
• Arrogance

I will repost this in 2015 blog as well just so people know my expectations!

Merry Christmas

Good evening All

Its 24 December 2014 - Christmas Eve.

I am just stopping by briefly to wish each and everyone of my visitors to the blog a very Merry Christmas.  May the Festive Season be kind to you.  Stay safe, have fun, love those who are important to you, and keep on kinking...whenever you can!

2015 is just around the corner!  Are you ready?

My Vision for 2015

2014 has been an incredibly chaotic year for me. 

First I was nominated to run the local Kink group.  I did it for 7 months.  I had good and bad experiences.

I had numerous BDSM experiences with my regular subs/slaves as well as casual play at the play parties with various kinksters.  It was an enjoyable time but tiring too.

I arranged FemDom Kink events, and trained new FemDoms.

Emotionally, this year was tough too.

It is the twelfth month of 2014, and let me say people I am over it.  I want 2015 to be a different year, a more laid back year – if that is possible.

I am not interested in seeking 24/7 D/s dynamics at this time.  I am looking to play casually with sub/slave/switch males mainly for variety and purely fun.

I have been very serious about my Kink life and have decided to lighten up a little and just immerse myself completely in getting my kink needs and wants met on my terms.

Pleasingly, I have males available to me to help me fulfil my BDSM fun in the coming year.

Just a reminder - I seek your pain for my pleasure!

Look out 2015, Ms Neta is here to play… and to play REAL HARD!

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Just sharing...

Good evening people.

Its Hump Day.  Mid-week.  This Mistress has had a busy week and very much looking forward to the end of the week very much.  

I am seeking a new submissive and currently chatting to a couple...however, my screening process will be a lot more intensive than it has been in the recent past to ensure these boys are truly compatible with me.  Married males will no longer be accepted.  There is no 'real' commitment from them, and really, let's be honest, they are controlling the relationship rather than the Dominant.  

Wish me luck, people.

Enjoy the rest of your week.

Ms Neta

~ With Dark Romance in mind, always ~

Today 7/12/14

Good evening.

I am resting my weary bones this evening.  The weekend has been unbelievably busy.

Friday was busy with family commitments.

Saturday was busy baking in preparation for the play party that night, and our boy's birthday the next day.

Saturday night left for the play party at 7.15pm and arrived at 8.00pm to a wonderful crowd of kinky folk.  Will elaborate further tomorrow.

Arrived home at 1.00am.  Tired.

Woke up Sunday morning at 7.30am to prepare more food for the hungry little males for the birthday party - Laser Skirmish.  Thankfully I am an organised Woman, Mother, Dominant, and so had everything ready for our 9.15am departure to the venue.

Busy morning arranging food and drink for the return of the hungry hordes.   It was terrific.  All the food went except for a couple of sticks of vegetables.  It was incredible to see the food disappear.  As I said, hungry hordes of little males. Bless them.

We arrived home at1.00pm.  I had a cup of tea then left to undertake my volunteer duties.  Busy busy.

I arrived home at 4.00pm...

...and collapsed.

I spoke to a couple of potentials but unfortunately they failed the simple tasks set for them.  I am glad I set these tasks for potentials as it demonstrates their genuine commitment to the FemDom Lifestyle NOT the Kinky lifestyle.

One day, those who are genuine in seeking FLR or FemDom will find me and be truly happy in their chosen path.

Thanks

This post is a thank you to both slave russ and slave mani for being in my realm recently.

Their contracts have ceased with me.  Our time together was short but we had a lovely time together during that period.

I just wanted to convey my appreciation to them both, and wish them all the very best in their pursuit for kinky happiness.

Dinner 2/12/14

Well slave mani cooked for me and the family this evening.

A chicken noodle dish.  It was quite pleasant.

He has a lot to learn about domestic service though.  Setting the table, serving the meal, cleaning up after cooking, clearing the table, serving me correctly, ensuring my glass is filled, cleaning the kitchen after meal finished.

Focussing on his continued service to me rather than his phone.

However, this is his first time to 'cook' for a Mistress and her family... and being a newbie in this type of service was a little nerve-wracking for him.  The food was pleasant and everyone enjoyed it.

Being attentive when in my presence is not his strong point I have observed.  That said, he is on a short-term contract and he has experienced various types of service in the short time with me so if nothing else, this sweet slave will go away with some new experiences.

We did not meet tonight to play due to venue being unavailable.  Let me say, it is nice being in bed on this cold damp evening, relaxing with a glass of wine and reading a book...oh and updating my blog.

Tomorrow, slave will spend some time with my submissive.  I am sure they will have a lovely outing together.

Upcoming Service this week for slave mani - Dec 2014

• Tuesday, 2nd Dec:  slave mani cooking dinner for myself and family
• Wednesday, 3rd Dec:  slave mani and I will scene this evening - I am thinking a foot massage and perhaps a spanking with the paddle :)
• Thursday, 4th Dec: slave mani and sub bill will go out to movies this evening
• Saturday, 6th Dec: slave mani will help to set up for the TasBDSM Christmas Play Party.  He will then experience a variety of scenes that evening.  Pony and Dog play, flogging, bondage and perhaps caged, serving of food and drinks and in between all the fun, service to me. Lucky him.

A busy line-up of Domestic, General and Personal service this week for slave mani.


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30/11/14 - More service

I undertake volunteer work on a weekly basis.  Animal welfare is my interest.

slave mani joined me on this day and we progressed to the two facilities where we feed and hydrate animals, change their beddings and interact with the the beautiful ones.

slave mani enjoyed himself and thoroughly enjoyed feeding and interacting with the animals.

Thank you slave mani for your assistance on this morning.

29/11/14 - Punishment

slave mani received 16 cane strokes on Saturday.  The punishment was a collection of tardiness in relation to his morning and goodnight texts.

The punishment was given promptly when slave arrived to undertake some domestic duties at my residence.

He did well.  The last two cane strokes had him yelping.

It is hoped he has learned his lesson and will continue to send his morning texts before 9.00am and goodnight texts before 10.00pm, this Mistress will be satisfied with his performance.

Look at those lovely cane marks.  Very nice, strong, red strokes.  16 cane strokes with the Delcrin.  A beautiful cane it is.  Some would call it a foe rather than a friend.  Beautiful!  I will be observing slave mani for the period of his contract to ensure he continues to adhere to the small rules in place.

After his punishment, he proceeded to clean the backyard for my animals well-being.  It was a reasonable job.  He then vacuumed the entrance area, swept the front outside area and the spiderwebs inside.  slave mani is in service to me and his main focus is domestic service.  Lucky boy.

Last Meal with Kink Guests - 26/11/14

Wednesday night, our interstate visitors Ms L (FemDom) and SF (her submissive) live in a FLR came back to Hobart for a quick catch up prior to their departure back to Canberra the next day.

We arranged to have a meal in Lindisfarne.

Ms L, SF, slave mani and sub bill and myself met at 7.00pm.  It was such a lovely venue.  And the service was very good.  Our waiter was so accommodating it took us by surprise momentarily as he was so "helpful".  Ms L said he'd look better on his knees serving, and we all chuckled.

We chatted non-stop for 2 hours about a variety of subjects.  It was one of the best group conversations I have had in a long while.  Stimulation plus.  We chatted about Zombies through to MONA through to Kink.

My steak was rather glorious as well, and I even went for a dessert - A trio of Sorbets.  Noice!

Ourevening finished up about 9.15pm.  slave mani and I following Ms L and SF to their lovely accommodation in Risdon.  Impressive B&B.  They had a few things to give us since they didn't have room in their cases.

slave mani drove me home, picked up his washing and left for his abode.

Let me say, I slept extremely well from being around wonderful people and enjoying the terrific meal and drinks at the Hotel.

Northern munch - 23/11/14

Well off I drove up to Launceston taking my slave mani, and two other kinksters for the northern munch.  We arrived in Launnie at 11.15am.  A very warm day.

Everyone started arriving soon after. There were about 25 of us who attended a lovely spot at Rosevear.  Very picturesque.

Party games were enjoyed on the bus - kinky games - lots of laughter and shouting.  I watched and smiled as everyone got into the spirit of it.

We arrived at our destination.  Chatted, ordered our food and drink and socialised.  It was absolutely lovely to observe a cohesive community amongst the northern kinksters.  Pity our southern lot weren't as social.  Many are but some are resistant and toxic.

slave mani enjoyed his time chatting with others.

Many of us wore hats and there was even a Hat competition.  The judge was one of the pub staff.  He was amusing.

We departed the venue about 3.45pm, kissed and hugged those who were travelling by car and jumped on the bus again.  Hooray for internet connection again.

slave mani and I shared the driving and drove back to Hobart - arriving about 6.30pm.  The other two kinksters remained in Launnie to scene with others.

slave mani was introduced to the family and enjoyed a meal with us all.

A nice day, albeit it long due to the car travelling.  No more northern trips for a while... well except for Christmas time.

Another Kinky Munch over and done with.

Bless the Kinky Folk!!

21/11/14

Good morning
Its Friday.
I'm home, in bed, resting.

I feel a little unwell today, everyone.  Tedious as it is but perhaps it is my body screaming at me that my mind and body need rest.

I have just had two pieces of toast over an hour's span - one slice with fig and ginger jam which I bought from Evandale market last weekend, and the other with mighty mite (an alternative to vegemite).  Both delicious.  The chamomile tea is going down well.

I am about to go for a nap before I get up and undertake some sewing of blankets for my animals.

Did I mention my submissive built me an animal hutch... its huge... its a masterpiece.  He puts so much heart and soul into creating.  The locks go on doors tomorrow, and then my animals can be moved into their magnificent new home.  My Home will be hay-free again.

I can then have my downstairs space for my makeshift Dungeon again.  Chaining those kinky boys from the wall.  Very excited about it, well as much excitement I can conjure at the moment.

I hope those who view my blog have a lovely weekend...

Ms Neta will back to post more over the next couple of days - just because I enjoy doing so.

Be Well, gorgeous people.

Upcoming Munch on 23/11/14

Well, slave mani and I are travelling up north on Sunday to attend a local Kink scene munch.  It has a race day theme to it.  Out comes my wide-brimmed white hat my submissive bought me a few years ago.  Very lady-like.  I might even wear my white and red dress I bought recently...I just don't have white shoes to go with it... although in saying that, I may have red sandals.  I will rummage around this evening see what my selection of shoes offer.

A munch is a gathering of kinky folk catching up for chat, food and drink in a vanilla setting... usually at a pub/restaurant.  We all connect with like-minded wearing vanilla wear just hanging out.  Its quite lovely and relaxing.

We are travelling early on Sunday and I will be giving a Dominant and his pet a lift up there.  4 kinky folk zooming up to Launceston.  There are about 20-25 of us attending so I am very much looking forward to seeing all the kinky northerners again.

Life is just too busy at the moment.  Kink and Vanilla events raring up everywhere. 

I might even have a photo taken of me wearing my pretty lady attire. 

See you soon folks  :)

slave mani - 20/11/14

my slave mani arrives in Hobart today.

He is an interstater from Queensland, and just delightful.  His contract to me will be up to 31 December 2014.

His service will be mainly around domestic and personal service although there will be some sensation play happening.  This slave has been extremely committed to me since he came on board in October.  I have been extremely impressed with his commitment to this dynamic even though he and I have never met, and he lives interstate.  We have 'known' each other for 4, maybe, 5 years through a common site we frequent. 

He has made the effort to learn about me, chat to me on the phone and be patient when I haven't engaged with him due to other focusses.  No hassles, no poutiness, no demands, just waiting until Goddess Neta is available to give him attention in whatever minor way.

I have a few things planned during his time here:

- he will accompany me to two events in our local Kinky scene

- he will clean my home

- he will cook dinner for my family

- he will do my gardening

- he will assist me at my workplace

- he will provide massages when required

- he will prepare an afternoon tea for my FemDom group

- he will accept pain for my pleasure

- he will experience one of his kinks - pony play - with a FemSwitch

slave mani will leave Hobart a happy slave with lovely wicked memories.