Hello Friends: 30/8/12

A glimpse of my attire

Scene with my sub: 29/8/12

Wednesday, 30^th August 2012.

On Wednesday, I arrived at my submissive’s place.  He did not hear me come up to the door and I heard a mad scramble to the hallway when he saw my car lights approach.  Crazy.

I walked inside and he just made it to his knees as I stepped in the hallway.  He was giggling nervously and my hand extended for him to kiss it as part of our ritual.

I moved in the lounge room, dumped my bags and headed straight the parcel that arrived for us.  I had been bought a new lace dress, lubricant and lube shooter.  The big item we had been waiting for was the “humbler”.   We grinned at each other as I held it.  Bill gulped. 

I then took off to try on my skimpy lace dress.  It was doll size but I managed to squeeze it over my voluptuous body.  I had my 6 strapped suspender belt on with lovely stockings, my patent leather ankle boots.  My hair was all out, and I looked stunning.

I sat back down and watched bill’s tongue lolling, even was practically dribbling and I had tell him to move away and to calm down.  He brought me my glass of wine, water and cheese.  We chatted for a while it was most enjoyable. 

Dinner was served.  A potato bake and salad.  Bloody beautiful meal.  My submissive always sits about my feet and eats his meal on the floor whilst I sit at the table in my glorious splendour.

Next, it was humbler time.  I had never used one of these items before so I unlocked it with the keys provided, got a feel for it, had bill get down on all falls and proceeded to manipulate his balls so I could stretch them back to be encased by the humble humbler  *grins*.

I did a great job.  He was humbled.  OK I pinched his balls every so often squeezing them into the humbler but overall the encasement went well.  I decided to insert the Anal Hook.  Yes, the Anal Hook.  Bill says “Mistress, please make sure its warm before you insert it”.  I smiled… actually I chuckled wickedly.  Slathered the Hook with lubricant and pushed it into his bitch arse.  Hehe.  It took a little while because he was closing the sphincter but with my determination, “pop”, and in it went.  Bill was relieved.  I stared at the Hook, and Humbler and thought about what I would do next.

Rope would work wonders.  So I applied rope bondage incorporating the Hook.  I focused on that for 15 minutes, and I did an impressive job.  Yes, I am confident in my skills.  I had bill place a hood over his head and decided to flog his bitch arse.  I flogged for 30 minutes as I chatted to him, and drank a glass of white wine.  It was most relaxing and bill was blissed out. 

After the flogging of his bitch arse, I took photos here and there, and commence to remove all items attach to his body.  I remove the humbler first.  Then until the Rope bondage, once that was loosened I pulled out the Hook… “pop”.  Bill fell to the ground in relief and felt wonderful from the sensational experience.  Sensations everywhere.  His left ball was a little sore due to some pinching hehe. 

Next, Aftercare ensued.  Lets say, it was a most enjoyable Aftercare for us both.

Sadistic Peg fun: 29/8/12

Some sadistic fun with my text bitch on Tuesday, 29th August.  I was in the mood to inflict some pain on him, and he was happy to oblige.  10 pics on his cock, 3 pegs on each nipple and 3 pegs on his ear lobes. 


"Oh my god, it hurts Ms N but I love it for you, Ms N"



Great pic of those pegs on his balls.  Love this image.



In a slutty position, anything to show of his pathetic cock.



Ears, nipples and cock - doesn't he look pathetic?

Humbled and Anal-hooked: 29/8/12 (17005)

Part of a Scene with my sub last night

A Dominant

I am a dominant. I may at first get flush and don't appear to be dominant at all. I stand back and I observe. I let others say what they need to say. I don't feel it necessary to share all that I know to all in earshot or trumpet the knowledge I’ve learned loudly to the world. I watch, I listen and I learn. I may quietly suggest, I may say nothing at all. I get to know who you are by your actions your words and your deeds. I only expect respect after it has been earned. I will ask the same of you. If my influence is felt it is felt quietly. Sometimes I can come across as almost meek. Do not confuse that with being weak. I am not out there blowing my own horn or excessively talking. I actually appear humble and understated in my ways. I have nothing to prove to anyone. Control is a private thing between individuals that need not be broadcast to the world. I've long felt that the more understated my outward appearance of dominance the stronger a dominant I am. True power and control whispers. It has no reason to yell

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Dominant

Being dominant is about being in charge and accepting responsibility for being in charge.  It has nothing to do with being bitchy, scolding anyone or lashing anyone with a sharp tongue.  People continue to confuse porn movies with D/s.

Introducing my kinky ass-istant...

My, kinky ass-istant, SP.  Doesn't she have sexy legs?  

Realisation: 29/8/12

Yesterday, I came to the realisation that I have not been enjoying kink as much BECAUSE I have watered down my kink... again due to my focus in managing groups I owned on another site. 

I have relinguished 4 groups and remaining with two which are FemDom-focussed. 

Exploration of my sadism is coming back with a vengeance, so look out anyone who wants to be in my realm.

Last night, my sadism arose and I decided to have some fun with my text bitch... some peg fun.  Absolutely delicious.  Will post pics in next post.

Tonight, I am off to be with my primary submissive and have wicked fun with the humbler just purchased.  Will post pics later in the week.

I am feeling excitement again.  Finally. 

Welcome Back

BDSM Party Activities

Research conducted by my personal kinky assistant - SP. 

1/. Dominant skill test

Line up submissives naked against a wall. Using tape fix a blown up party balloon over each buttock. The dominants then use a single tail whip to burst the balloons. They are only allowed one attempt at each balloon. The Dominant who bursts the most balloons wins. In the event of a tie the one who has burst the most balloons without marking the sub wins.

2/. Tug of War

Two face to face subs have nipple clamps applied which are connected together. A line is marked on the floor between them. They have to pull against each other until one pulls the other over the line, the clamps either pull off the loser or one of them gives up.

Two male submissives have a loop put around their testicles which cannot pull off but also cannot tighten. They kneel back to back on the floor. A line is marked equidistant from each of them and they have to pull against each other to reach it and win. Clamps tied together could be used for female subs with them attached to their genital lips.

3/. Cock Ring Toss

If you have a volunteer who can maintain an erection long enough use him, otherwise use a dildo. Rings are thrown by the dominants from an agreed distance. The one who gets the most to land on the penis/ dildo wins. You could get two male submissives to compete against each with the one who scores the most then giving the loser that many punishment strokes.

4/. Golf

A submissive sits on the floor legs apart. The dominants take turn to hit golf balls at their genitals with a putter from an agreed distance.  To make it harder the submissive can be allowed to sit with their legs bent up rather than flat on the floor. A prize may be awarded for the most direct hits or to the one who produces the loudest cry from the submissive.

5/. Alternative Golf

The submissive lies naked on their back. The dominants have an agreed number of golf balls which they lob from an agreed distance at the subs genitals. 10 points are awarded for hitting the testicles of the male, 5 for the penis.

6/. Find the pegs

An agreed number of pegs are fixed on the submissive. Another sub that is already blindfolded has to remove all the pegs within a given time but they do not know where to find them. They could also be restrained so that they can only remove the pegs with their teeth.

7/. Get Rich Quick

Put strips of double sided tape onto the sub whose legs and arms are restrained. The more tape the easier it is for the sub. Throw paper money on the floor. The sub(s) then have to roll around on the floor to see how much money they can get to stick to them. The sub who picks up the most, keeps it, but it could be Monopoly money.

8/. Panty Test – for Dominant females/ sub males

The male subs are blindfolded. Each Mistress removes their panties and gives each sub the chance to smell all the panties. The sub who guesses correctly which pair are his Mistress’s panties gets to keep them at the end of the evening. The ones who get it wrong are punished.

9/. How many can you take

There is a large bucket of pegs, at least 100. The dominants see how many they can affix to the sub before they give in. A time limit must be set. A more difficult version would be to restrict the pegs to given areas like the genitals or the face.

10/. Weightlifting – Care needed

For the males a parachute is fixed over their testicles and weights are attached. They then compete against each other to see who can lift the most. Clamps and weights could be used for female subs.

11/. Worm Racing (I am not sure if this will work, the wrap may have to be a little loose)

The naked subs are wrapped in cling film (saran wrap) from feet to neck. They are then lowered to the floor in a line. They have to race to a given winning line by squirming along the floor. (Rolling is not allowed)

The winner gets a reward, the losers get an agreed number of punishment strokes which increase the lower in the finishing order they are.

12/. Mistress Says

Mistress Says - a kinky version of Simon Says.  The Mistresses issue commands rapidly to their subs such as "fondle your balls", "kiss my shoe", “squeeze your left nipple".  Those preceded by "Mistress says" should be obeyed.  Those that do not should be ignored.  Subs that make mistakes are disqualified until only one remains.

13/. Pegboard

In this game, the hostess begins by saying "One."  Every Dominant places one clothespin on her sub.  The hostess then says, "Two" and every Dominant then places another clothespin on her sub.  This process continues.  Once a sub needs to remove a clothespin, they are disqualified.  The game continues until only one sub is left (or you run out of clothespins.)

The game can stop there or the Mistresses can continue until there is only one slave playing - the winner. Now pegs can be accidentally or deliberately applied in such a way as to inflict far more than the normal amount of pain, so there have to be rules about this.

1) There must be slave flesh between the whole of the peg

'Pinchers'; having flesh only between part of the pinchers is not allowed.

2) Any part of the body can be used except the eyes and eyelids (anywhere else?).

3) No part of a peg can be inserted into the anus or urethra.

4) Any other rules? 

14/. Cunning Linguist

Cunning Linguist - You can imagine from the title what this one is about.  It is basically a contest to see which sub licks their Mistress to orgasm in the shortest amount of time.  Clearly, this game will only work in environments where sexual activity is permitted at the party.

15/. Self Control

This is almost the reverse of the above. Here the Dominants compete to bring a sub to orgasm as quickly as possible using only their hands (and any type of lube). However, the slaves will be trying to avoid orgasm because the first slave to spurt is the loser. As soon as a Dominant sees her assigned sub ejaculate she shouts "spurting" (or something similar) where upon all the other Mistresses stop stimulating their subs immediately. Bad luck on the winners who are left excited and unsatisfied, for which reason the punishment for the loser of this game should be particularly severe. This could be continued with the winners each time one sub drops out until only one is left very frustrated.

16/. Drop Kick (Extreme)

All the slaves stand side by side with their legs apart and with the Mistresses behind them. They have their hands on their heads. At a silent signal from one of the Mistresses, they each give their best kick to the groin of the slave in front of them.

If a slave falls to the ground and does not get up by a count of 10, he is "kicked out" of the game. A slave can capitulate at any time if he cannot face another kick. Otherwise, when the slaves have been given a short time to recover, the process is repeated until someone is kicked out or capitulates. First out of the game is the loser (or losers). The game can finish there or continue until a winner is found.  

17/. Arse-tist

The subs have to insert a marker or crayon into their anus and then draw something with it on an art pad. The one who produces the best work of art wins the others are punished.

18/. Group Therapy

The subs stand in a circle facing inwards. (If there are only two subs they stand side to side facing in opposite directions.) They have similar paddles. Upon a suitable word from a Dominant they spank once on the buttocks of the slave to their right. They then switch the paddle to their left hand and upon the next command give one spank to the buttocks of the slave to their left. (If only two subs, they do not need to switch.) They continue like this until one sub capitulates (the loser). If all the subs are pain sluts and show no sign of quitting, the Dominant could exchange the paddles for something more extreme (e.g. riding crops). Or if the Dominants get bored they can declare all the subs losers.  

19/. Milking Time – Male only

The slaves will again be in a circle. They will be bending over so their bodies are almost horizontal and each slave's head is close to the butt of the slave in front. (If there are only two slaves they will be side to side.) They can use their left arm to rest on the lower back of the next slave and help support themselves. Their right hands are wearing rubber gloves. All slaves are well-lubed behind. Upon command from a Mistress they insert one finger into the slave in front and massage the prostate with a view to milking that slave. First slave to produce a discharge from the slave in front is the winner, and the last one is the loser.  

20/. Pass the Parcel/Musical Chairs

First one out gets 10 strokes, the second 15 and so on.