BDSM Party Activities

Research conducted by my personal kinky assistant - SP. 

1/. Dominant skill test

Line up submissives naked against a wall. Using tape fix a blown up party balloon over each buttock. The dominants then use a single tail whip to burst the balloons. They are only allowed one attempt at each balloon. The Dominant who bursts the most balloons wins. In the event of a tie the one who has burst the most balloons without marking the sub wins.

2/. Tug of War

Two face to face subs have nipple clamps applied which are connected together. A line is marked on the floor between them. They have to pull against each other until one pulls the other over the line, the clamps either pull off the loser or one of them gives up.

Two male submissives have a loop put around their testicles which cannot pull off but also cannot tighten. They kneel back to back on the floor. A line is marked equidistant from each of them and they have to pull against each other to reach it and win. Clamps tied together could be used for female subs with them attached to their genital lips.

3/. Cock Ring Toss

If you have a volunteer who can maintain an erection long enough use him, otherwise use a dildo. Rings are thrown by the dominants from an agreed distance. The one who gets the most to land on the penis/ dildo wins. You could get two male submissives to compete against each with the one who scores the most then giving the loser that many punishment strokes.

4/. Golf

A submissive sits on the floor legs apart. The dominants take turn to hit golf balls at their genitals with a putter from an agreed distance.  To make it harder the submissive can be allowed to sit with their legs bent up rather than flat on the floor. A prize may be awarded for the most direct hits or to the one who produces the loudest cry from the submissive.

5/. Alternative Golf

The submissive lies naked on their back. The dominants have an agreed number of golf balls which they lob from an agreed distance at the subs genitals. 10 points are awarded for hitting the testicles of the male, 5 for the penis.

6/. Find the pegs

An agreed number of pegs are fixed on the submissive. Another sub that is already blindfolded has to remove all the pegs within a given time but they do not know where to find them. They could also be restrained so that they can only remove the pegs with their teeth.

7/. Get Rich Quick

Put strips of double sided tape onto the sub whose legs and arms are restrained. The more tape the easier it is for the sub. Throw paper money on the floor. The sub(s) then have to roll around on the floor to see how much money they can get to stick to them. The sub who picks up the most, keeps it, but it could be Monopoly money.

8/. Panty Test – for Dominant females/ sub males

The male subs are blindfolded. Each Mistress removes their panties and gives each sub the chance to smell all the panties. The sub who guesses correctly which pair are his Mistress’s panties gets to keep them at the end of the evening. The ones who get it wrong are punished.

9/. How many can you take

There is a large bucket of pegs, at least 100. The dominants see how many they can affix to the sub before they give in. A time limit must be set. A more difficult version would be to restrict the pegs to given areas like the genitals or the face.

10/. Weightlifting – Care needed

For the males a parachute is fixed over their testicles and weights are attached. They then compete against each other to see who can lift the most. Clamps and weights could be used for female subs.

11/. Worm Racing (I am not sure if this will work, the wrap may have to be a little loose)

The naked subs are wrapped in cling film (saran wrap) from feet to neck. They are then lowered to the floor in a line. They have to race to a given winning line by squirming along the floor. (Rolling is not allowed)

The winner gets a reward, the losers get an agreed number of punishment strokes which increase the lower in the finishing order they are.

12/. Mistress Says

Mistress Says - a kinky version of Simon Says.  The Mistresses issue commands rapidly to their subs such as "fondle your balls", "kiss my shoe", “squeeze your left nipple".  Those preceded by "Mistress says" should be obeyed.  Those that do not should be ignored.  Subs that make mistakes are disqualified until only one remains.

13/. Pegboard

In this game, the hostess begins by saying "One."  Every Dominant places one clothespin on her sub.  The hostess then says, "Two" and every Dominant then places another clothespin on her sub.  This process continues.  Once a sub needs to remove a clothespin, they are disqualified.  The game continues until only one sub is left (or you run out of clothespins.)

The game can stop there or the Mistresses can continue until there is only one slave playing - the winner. Now pegs can be accidentally or deliberately applied in such a way as to inflict far more than the normal amount of pain, so there have to be rules about this.

1) There must be slave flesh between the whole of the peg

'Pinchers'; having flesh only between part of the pinchers is not allowed.

2) Any part of the body can be used except the eyes and eyelids (anywhere else?).

3) No part of a peg can be inserted into the anus or urethra.

4) Any other rules? 

14/. Cunning Linguist

Cunning Linguist - You can imagine from the title what this one is about.  It is basically a contest to see which sub licks their Mistress to orgasm in the shortest amount of time.  Clearly, this game will only work in environments where sexual activity is permitted at the party.

15/. Self Control

This is almost the reverse of the above. Here the Dominants compete to bring a sub to orgasm as quickly as possible using only their hands (and any type of lube). However, the slaves will be trying to avoid orgasm because the first slave to spurt is the loser. As soon as a Dominant sees her assigned sub ejaculate she shouts "spurting" (or something similar) where upon all the other Mistresses stop stimulating their subs immediately. Bad luck on the winners who are left excited and unsatisfied, for which reason the punishment for the loser of this game should be particularly severe. This could be continued with the winners each time one sub drops out until only one is left very frustrated.

16/. Drop Kick (Extreme)

All the slaves stand side by side with their legs apart and with the Mistresses behind them. They have their hands on their heads. At a silent signal from one of the Mistresses, they each give their best kick to the groin of the slave in front of them.

If a slave falls to the ground and does not get up by a count of 10, he is "kicked out" of the game. A slave can capitulate at any time if he cannot face another kick. Otherwise, when the slaves have been given a short time to recover, the process is repeated until someone is kicked out or capitulates. First out of the game is the loser (or losers). The game can finish there or continue until a winner is found.  

17/. Arse-tist

The subs have to insert a marker or crayon into their anus and then draw something with it on an art pad. The one who produces the best work of art wins the others are punished.

18/. Group Therapy

The subs stand in a circle facing inwards. (If there are only two subs they stand side to side facing in opposite directions.) They have similar paddles. Upon a suitable word from a Dominant they spank once on the buttocks of the slave to their right. They then switch the paddle to their left hand and upon the next command give one spank to the buttocks of the slave to their left. (If only two subs, they do not need to switch.) They continue like this until one sub capitulates (the loser). If all the subs are pain sluts and show no sign of quitting, the Dominant could exchange the paddles for something more extreme (e.g. riding crops). Or if the Dominants get bored they can declare all the subs losers.  

19/. Milking Time – Male only

The slaves will again be in a circle. They will be bending over so their bodies are almost horizontal and each slave's head is close to the butt of the slave in front. (If there are only two slaves they will be side to side.) They can use their left arm to rest on the lower back of the next slave and help support themselves. Their right hands are wearing rubber gloves. All slaves are well-lubed behind. Upon command from a Mistress they insert one finger into the slave in front and massage the prostate with a view to milking that slave. First slave to produce a discharge from the slave in front is the winner, and the last one is the loser.  

20/. Pass the Parcel/Musical Chairs

First one out gets 10 strokes, the second 15 and so on.