Being dominant is about being in charge and accepting responsibility for being in charge. It has nothing to do with being bitchy, scolding anyone or lashing anyone with a sharp tongue. People continue to confuse porn movies with D/s.
Ms Neta you have put into words exactly how I feel, it is an exchange of power. Personally I hate brutality whether it is physical or mental. I would react badly to someone who shouted and screamed at me as they lashed out. It would bring out the stubborn negative side of my nature (my Mother said I was born stubborn) and the scene would end with bad feelings on both sides. On the other hand you could whisper almost anything you wanted quietly, seductively in my ear asking me to do something or accept something and I would do my utmost to comply to prove my submission to you.
Ms Neta you have put into words exactly how I feel, it is an exchange of power. Personally I hate brutality whether it is physical or mental.
ReplyDeleteI would react badly to someone who shouted and screamed at me as they lashed out. It would bring out the stubborn negative side of my nature (my Mother said I was born stubborn) and the scene would end with bad feelings on both sides.
On the other hand you could whisper almost anything you wanted quietly, seductively in my ear asking me to do something or accept something and I would do my utmost to comply to prove my submission to you.