How do You wish to be addressed?
Ms Neta
What celebrity are You often told You
resemble?
Oprah Winfrey… on occasion.
What do You consider to be Your greatest
feature?
My smile.
What would We be surprised to learn that
You have never done?
I have not travelled to the U.S.A
What is the best advice You have ever
received?
Read, Read, Read relevant BDSM books to understand what you seek in this
journey.
What are you “totally addicted” to?
Nurturing small animals
What do You not ever leave home without?
My handbag.
What do You wish you could be more of?
I would like to be more of teacher to newcomers in the scene yet I still
have so much more to learn myself.
How long have You been in the lifestyle?
Three years
Would You consider Yourself to have had a
regular childhood?
No, it was a disconnected although I do have a handful of good childhood
memories.
What is your favorite beverage? (can be
hot/cold, alcoholic/non-alcoholic,etc).
Sauvignon Blanc, Alcoholic Apple Cider and Chamomile Tea
Do you celebrate Christmas or a
similar holiday at this time of year, and if so, what do you enjoy most about
it?
I celebrate Christmas and thoroughly enjoy being around Jack and my
children.
What's the sexiest thing a submissive
has ever or could ever say to you?
You are stunning even when you wear that pink dressing gown with blue
kittens all over it.
Tell Us about Your first Femdom
experience, including a detailed description of how You felt ?
My first experience was with kristian.
He was from Holland
and identified as a slave.
My first real
experience with him was incredible.
He
was seeking to be totally enslaved and I was seeking to enslave someone.
When we first walked into his home, and he
immediately knelt in front of me and kissed my feet, I was full of pride that
this male had given me his submission.
It was an extremely powerful moment for me.
What is the last book You read?
Uniquely Rika by Ms Rika
Relic by Douglas Preston and Lincoln
Child
What is Your favorite movie?
Aliens – Sigourney Weaver - strong Female lead role
A long Kiss Goodnight – Geena Davis – strong Female lead role
Do You consider Yourself a Pro Domme,
Lifestyle Domme, or a combination of both?
Lifestyle Dominant.
If You were to choose one word to
describe the feeling You experience when Dominating a submissive, which word
would You choose?
Powerful, and Content.
What is Your general view of men?
Generally, I like men and of course I love a handful of males in my life.
Does Dominating another bring You sexual
pleasure? Tell Us about how so and why
do You feel this way
I have only felt sexual pleasure with three submissives.
They were compatible with me and their
service, all aspects of their service, was excellent and this was a turn-on for
me.
Which lifestyle books and magazines would You recommend to others?
Uniquely Rika – Ms Rika
The Master’s Manual – Jack Rinella
SM 101 – Jay Wiseman
What is Your line of work?
Executive Management
How does Your work affect Your Femdom
lifestyle?
Confident in my workplace role.
How do Your Female Supremacy views
affect Your attitude within Your work environment?
I am not a Female Supremacist as
I don't believe all Women are superior to all men.
I do have Feminist views but I do
believe everyone is an individual and should be judged on an individual basis.
Does Your family know of Your lifestyle?
One sister knows.
Do You have friends in the lifestyle?
I have friends who I met in the lifestyle, yes.
And yes, I do socialise with them in vanilla
settings as well.
Do You have vanilla friends who know of
Your lifestyle?
Indeed, I do.
If Your favorite vanilla Girlfriend were
to ask You why She should try dominating Her man, what reasons would You give
Her?
Well, I would ask her:
How her partner would respond to being dominated?
Were they kinky in the bedroom?
Would she be able to be in charge of a D/s dynamic 24/7.
If she said yes, to all three, I would most certainly introduce her to the
Lifestyle…baby steps of course.
Have You ever been to a lifestyle party?
Numerous times.
Have You ever played in public?
Numerous times.
What is the single most important
mistake a submissive man makes when first approaching a Dominant Woman?
Assuming we are here to service and satisfy him.
What do You look for when reading an
e-mail message from a submissive?
Give them advice if they have approached me politely.
If they are casual, blasé, I inform them to
look in their local areas for likeminded.
I am very rarely rude to these people as some of them genuinely do not
know how to approach Dominant Women, and do require some guidance.
Do You currently have a slave or
submissive?
I have a submissive, and I am training a new submissive for future service
to a Dominant.
I also have two other
submissives who I call upon for domestic and hospitality service for Events.
Are You seeking other slaves or
submissives?
No.
Do You consider Yourself straight or
bi-sexual?
Straight
Do You prefer Your slaves or
submissives to be straight or bi-sexual?
Bi-sexual suits me.
I like to watch
male on male action occasionally.
Which rules do You require a slave or submissive to live by? For instance,
rules regarding use of furniture, walking behind You, calling in, chastity, and
so forth
I have many protocols for how my submissive must conduct himself in my
presence.
A couple of examples are:-
For public - shaking of hands and
a kiss on the cheek as I stare directly into my sub's eyes. He must walk behind me to my left at all
times.
For private - when I enter my
sub's home, he is kneeling, naked, collared, smiling. I extend my right hand
out, he kisses it and says "Welcome, my Mistress". I step back, smile
and greet him then walk into the next room to sit on my throne.
He follows, provides me with
either a glass of water or wine with a cheese and fruit platter. Then sits at
my feet whilst we converse about our day's events... me first, of course.
My submissive always sits at my
feet when we eat dinner in a Private setting.
What is Your favorite lifestyle
activity?
I enjoy receiving all aspects of service i.e.
personal, anticipatory, domestic, sexual
Do You feminise Your servants?
I used to when I first started out in the Lifestyle but that was because I
was new and feminising in my eyes took the masculinity away from males.
I made the males less intimidating.
Eventually I realised I enjoyed dominating
masculine males… a lot more fun and challenging.
Does Your domination apply to all levels
of Your relationship? For instance, do You or would You control Y/your
finances?
I prefer not to control another’s finances mainly because I am not in a 24/7
relationship with my submissive.
However, if I were, most definitely, I would takeover.
Do You cuckold Your slaves or
submissives with other lovers?
No.
It holds no interest to me.
Do You live a 24/7 FemDom lifestyle?
I live a 24/7 Female-led relationship
which is based on the Female being in charge and the male knowingly being
secondary to her.
If You are in a 24/7 FemDom
relationship, would You describe Your relationship as stronger than a vanilla
relationship?
N/A.
When a disagreement occurs between You
and your slave or submissive, how is it resolved? Is Your word the final word?
I will listen to his side, and then make a decision on the issue after some consideration.
Do You set benchmarks for a male to
prove his devotion to You?
Not formal benchmarks but if I believe he has not reached a particular goal
within a set timeframe as per my expectations, I will re-train him in that
particular area to reach his full potential.
Do You judge a slave or submissive’s willingness
to embarrass himself as proof of his desire to serve You?
I believe it takes courage for a submissive to humiliate himself for his
Dominant, and if he does, I am impressed.
What advice would You offer a Woman
whose male partner has just asked to dominate him and She knows nothing of the
lifestyle?
I would recommend some books to read initially.
The first one of course would be Uniquely
Rika by Ms Rika.
The central theme is, "It's not
about what the Dominant does to the sub but about what the sub does for
the Dominant." It's about the sub making his Dominant’s life better or
easier.
How do You discipline Your servant(s)?
With a strap or cane however punishment/discipline is a rare occurrence as
my submissive is well behaved.
The
punishment should always fit the crime and that is the premise I tend to use
when implementing punishment.
Do You use chastity on Your servant(s)?
No.
How do You control the orgasms of Your
servant(s)?
He must seek permission if he wishes to orgasm.
My submissive is very obedient, and has a low
sex drive which helps.
Do You use strap-ons on Your servant(s)?
Yes I most certainly do.
The
vac-u-loc is my favourite strap on dildo.
I use strap-ons perhaps once every two months as I know he craves it but
will wait until I am ready to satiate his craving.
The penetration humbles him very much.
He is more docile for a quite a few
days.
Lovely to observe.
What do the next five years hold for
You?
In the Life, well I wish to enslave more males and just enjoy my Kink life
to fullest.
Share with Us Your fears when You first
became involved in the lifestyle
One fear I had was could I really dominate a male and maintain the
domination.
It appears I have the gift
and many males genuinely wish to submit to me.
I always inform submissives from the get-go, I don’t provide sexual
service except to give Strap On when I’m in the mood to do so.
Do You have any words of encouragement
for new Dommes?
Persevere.
You will come across many
fools and predators in this Life but you will soon recognise the red flags.
Persevere, enjoy and remember this Life is
about you getting your Kink wants and needs met to your satisfaction.
And if you need support, seek a mentor, preferably a Female mentor, in your
local area to guide you until you are confident to pursue your journey on your
own.
His ankles were tied first, following by his knees, this chest, he was handcuffed, and then I decided to tie his neck. He loves restriction and breath play. I played with him... biting his face, hands around his throat, biting biting biting... deliciously yummy.
