There are those who serve from a true need to do so, they derive their pleasure from pleasing others. They don't expect a "reward" as we think of it. Doing it well, and seeing a positive reaction IS the reward.
There are those who serve because of the person they are with and their desire to see that person happy. It's not a need they have, but something they are willing to do because it is desired by someone they care for. Those usually do need some form of payback, even if it's just positive attention and affection.
These may look the same, even sound a bit the same, but the motivation is completely different.
Then there are the tit for tat types...service is fine so long as there is always a reward / play after service is provided. Not my type, but I know of people who have made such arrangements as service of a particular form in return for play...it has it's place.
The sexual doesn't enter into it for me...I either want it or not, but it can't be earned. It isn't dependent on service.
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