FemDom is a paradox...

Femdom is a paradox: Because it should be about Women dominating men. Yet the reality is, that many FemDom men, 'top from the bottom'. Where, they demand and tell Women howto  act out their sexual fantasies.  

True Dominant Women do not like this and for this reason reject FemDom completely. This is why there are far more men within Femdom than Women. So I am advocating true FemDom where men do not make any demands on Women and their role is only to serve and do only what the Women want.

(written by William Bond)

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I was perusing some articles on google and came across blogs by William Bond.  Wonderful perspectives he has.  Thank you.

Its quite interesting because I have experienced many males, stating they are submissive, who have approached me demanding or telling me how I should act out their fantasies mainly porn-related.  This is because they do not really understand FemDom except for what they see on FemDom porn.  Damn the porn industry!!

My response to those males usually is to inform them I am not a porn FemDom, I am a lifestyle Female Dominant and this is what is my expectation of them during their service to me - short term or long term interactions.  Needless to say, many run like scared little bitches.  If sex isn't involved, or very little sexual play, they are not interested.  Their idea of service is giving me oral sex or pummelling (fucking me hard) after they are removed from bondage.  

I am looking for genuine submissive/switch males who understand FemDom or who are open to learning about how to serve a Dominant Woman - my way.  

As usual, I am amused that once the male 'sub' orgasms, he no longer adheres to the rules previously negotiated.  I attract many "Do Me" submissives but I recognise them very quickly these days and remove them from realm doubly quickly.

Just having  my say...