Saturday, 26 November 2011

Upcoming Week

Well this week is going to be a busy one.  Let me outline the plan:

  • Monday:  Attending a meeting.
  • Tuesday: Attending a meeting.
  • Wednesday:  Attending a Marketing workshop all day.
  • Thursday:  Catch up day on all paperwork.
  • Friday:  My primary submissive's birthday.  That evening, the organisation's Christmas party.
  • Saturday:  FemDom's Christmas Play Party at our new venue.  My son's birthday.
  • Sunday:  Jack will take out children to movies for our son's birthday.  Rest day for Ms Neta.
I feel busy already and its only Saturday night. *sighs*


~Ms Neta~

Service: 26/11/11

This afternoon, at 2.00pm, my primary submissive, bill, arrived to undertake some chores for his Mistress.

The first chore was to put up three family photo frames for me on the blank wall leading into our house.  He measured with precision and finally got all three frames up.  He did a fantastic job.

We then had a coffee, chatted and enjoyed the water views.

My family do enjoy his company.

Next, bill was requested to hang coat hooks up in the laundry.  This was done promptly.  The family now have somewhere to hang their coats.

I requested bill to bring me a glass of wine... again he did so promptly.

We then went downstairs to watch a DVD on the new plasma TV.  It was an enjoyable watch.

We all had a Chicken dinner together followed by ice cream.  It was a lovely gathering.

Jack, my husband, then showed sub bill the amazing effects of blue ray technology.  Aah, boys and their toys.

sub bill left at 8.20pm.  What a lovely afternoon/evening.

Thank you bill for your service.  You do me proud!



~Ms Neta~

Friday, 25 November 2011

Secondary submissive: 26/11/11

Today, my secondary submissive asked if he could be released due to the death of his dog last week, and his second dog going completely blind.  Very sad that he has lost one dog and close to losing the other... perhaps.  He has scheduled an operation in Melbourne in two weeks' time for restoration of his dog's sight.  Goodluck to them both.

I am happy to release sub scott as he needs to focus on his life and dog at this time.  I wish him luck in his life.

I have enjoyed our time together, sub scott.  Thank you.

~Ms Neta~

Saturday, 19 November 2011

Similarities

I am in the process of training a new submissive.

I was discussing with Jack, my husband, about the similarities between all of my submissives who are currently in my realm.

  • All masculine
  • Handimen - carpentry
  • Domesticated
  • Enjoy own company
  • In management
  • Generous and respectful souls
  • Well travelled
  • Enjoy sports - cycling/badminton/hockey
  • Adore Ms Neta

R.I.P. Poof

Yesterday, Saturday, 19th November 2011 - I received a text in the early afternoon from my submissive scott informing me his dog, Poof, had been bitten by a snake and died in the morning.  He was very upset as he had had Poof for a long while.  He also said he was not surprised he'd die this way as he was always chasing and curious about wildlife. 

I liked Poof very much.  He was such a loving dog to his owner, and he welcomed me excitedly when I visited.

May you Rest In Peace, lovely Poof.  Your daddy, Milo (your brother), Bon will miss you, as will I.


~Ms Neta~

Friday, 18 November 2011

Flogging Scene: 17/11/11 (3501)

On Thursday, I went to visit my sub bill.

We were going to go to the movies but the two sessions were too early and too late, so I decided we would have a flogging session instead.  Hey, I do like to flog viewers.

I arrived at 5.10pm to a flustered sub.  He had been running around arranging furniture, cooking food, grooming himself and mentally preparing for our night of impact play.  The man looked slightly crazed.

I told him to calm down.  The food smelt absolutely wondrous.  He is truly a magnificent cook.  I helped stir the chicken gravy for the roast chicken.  Roasted kumara - sweet potato - potatoes, garlic and onion were providing exquisite smells.  The baked broccoli with a dijon type sauce was added to give it extra tasty flavour.

The table was set for me.  My wine poured along with a glass of water.  My food was dished up and damn did it smell and taste delicious.

sub bill sat on the floor as he does when we dine together in private.

We chatted for two hours about a variety of matters going on in the scene, and then into our vanilla lives.  He is a good listener.

Next, it was play time.  His suspension wrist restraints were clipped on, and I tied him up to the ceiling.  Arms extended.  I ankled cuffed him.  We were ready.  The chemical brothers' music was pumping out of the stereo and away we went.  I used 8 types of floggers, and a paddle. These floggers vary in size and provide differing marks and sensations on the body.  Most of these, sub bill, would state are foes.  I started off with the 4th one.  Light, almost shoe-lace like, and started slowly but already he was flinching.  This continued for a while as I prepared his body for the onslaught of the next few that would be forthcoming.  He moved away from some of them and I had to move him back to position so I was not off aim when flogging his glorious back.  Those red marks were looking more 'red'.  I did have to cover a mole up so it would not be irritated by the floggers.  We continued our flogging scene for 50 minutes.  It was intense for us both.  sub bill was jumping around like a cricket at times and at times I thought he would pull the rope through the roof.  He is strong after all.  I varied hands using the floggers, speed, type and enjoyed giving the pain to my adorable submissive.  He endured.  He whimpered.  He screamed.  He try to escape.  He cried.  But he endured for me.  I watched and slowed down when I knew it was a little too intense for him.  Once I could see he had caught his breath and was ready for more, I continued.  I thank my sub bill for what he gives me - his pain because of his love for his Mistress.

Afterwards, aftercare was given.  sub bill struggles at times with the flogging scenes.  He can't understand why his Mistress hurts him so when she cares for him so.  We talked.  He cried.  We talked.  He started to relax.  We talked and hydrated.  He proceeded to massage my sore and dry feet.  He is a good man, and I am blessed to have met someone who can give his mind, body and soul to me.  I am blessed to have a sub who trusts me and will try other types of activities for his Mistress.  He was exposed to some other activities that evening that he had never tried.  We had an amazing time together.  His rigid thinking has becoming more flexible over the past year, and OMG yay for him!

~Ms Neta~

Task undertaken by sub scott: 16/11/11

I requested sub scott to take pics of his cock and balls tied.  I need to keep my boys stimulated... so to speak.  The first two pics were so-so.  I requested sub scott to do CBT bondage again and to ensure I could see a purple tinge.  The last two pics depict this.  :)




Mini Rant: 18/11/2011

I have a mini rant.


WTF does it all mean when my name is used by others to reinforce their views without my knowledge.


Ms Neta is close to packing it all in and leaving the scene completely.


I am sick of these people who believe my name carries much weight and use it when it suits them.  WTF.


Oh well, what can you do but IGNORE them, I suppose.

~Ms Neta~
A fuming Mistress.

Wednesday, 16 November 2011

First Assignment: 15/11/2011

I am in the process of training a newbie to the scene.  This is his first assignment, and I do believe he has done quite well.
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Based on my research, which has primarily been wholly reliant on resources found on the web, a summary of my understanding of the difference between a submissive, a bottom and a slave is as follows:

Submissive
A submissive is an individual who has a need to submit and willingly surrenders or gives their self to a Dominant.  A submissive willingly gives control and surrenders power to the Dominant and becomes the responsibility of the Dominant to determine or make choices, decisions, directions or acts for the submissive.  The submissive willingly submit to the Dominant whilst maintaining some choice through prior discussions with the Dominant and will usually have a safe word to end the submission if so required.  The submission to the Dominant is usually for agreed periods of time with discussed rules, restrictions, structures, limitations and/or requirements that may range from many to very few or none.  A submissive usually only submits to a Dominant they are in a Dommes relationship with, unless otherwise agreed, and are polite and respectful to others outside of this relationship.  Hence a submissive is an individual that has a willingness and a need to submit and surrender control to a Dominant for agreed periods of time with discussed limitations.

Bottom
A bottom is an individual who enjoys the lower role or bottom position in a play session.  A bottom is not necessarily a submissive and may be a Dominant or a switch.  A bottom derives pleasure from being in the bottom role without relinquishing complete control to the Top.  A bottom may direct or have significant input into a play session either before or during the session so that they derive their pleasure or achieve what they desire from the session.  Hence a bottom is an individual who enjoys the bottom position without submitting to the Top and maintains input and some control over the session.
  

Slave
A slave is an individual who has given ones self fully and completely to a Dominant and relinquishes all control and limits to their Dominant.  A slave gives all freedom of choice to their Dominant and is completely owned by the Dominant at all times.  The Dominant makes all decisions for the submissive to which they completely comply without refusal.  A slave gives their Dominant their complete trust and feels complete when they have surrendered to their Dominant.

The primary difference as I understand are that a bottom enjoys the bottom position in a play session and does not relinquish control to the Top, a submissive has a need and willingness to give ones self to a Dominant for their control but still maintains some control or limitations, a slave completely gives one self to their Dominant relinquishing all control, limits, choices and freedoms willingly and fully.

Hyperactive

Today was a tough day.  There was a screw up at work in relation to a report sent out last week.  This report was proof-read by three people but still no one picked up the error.  Now is that irksome or what, viewers?   Anyway this morning I had to rectify the mistake and so it was an intense 3 hours.  
I am feeling very hyperactive.

I am feeling hot.

I need release of all this pent up energy.

I do believe I am feeling somewhat aggressive.  I need some hard play.   Sharp and pointy things are envisaged in this play along with some rope bondage.  WEG.

Well, I will have to play with one of my boys soon... BDSM play that is.


~Ms Neta~