What do subs look for in a Domme?

Opinions from others:

• Some look for a lot of hot kinky play.

• Some look for a leader in the relationship.
  
• Some look for lots of ritual and structure.
  
• Some look for a old fashioned 1950s or before household, but with the woman in charge.

 

What do subs look for in a Domme? How does your relationship work for you? How does your Domme satisfy you the way other people can't?

• I  look for a woman who is confident in her sexuality and who enjoys being dominant. 
• The Domme needs the things a vanilla woman needs, of course, but needs the above two qualities as well. And I would note that the Domme can have a wide variation in how intense she demonstrates the above two points.
• My relationship is in many ways a very sensual, and not a very intense relationship with my Domme, on the other hand, some aspects are over the top for some people as well. The satisfaction, and what She does for me that a vanilla woman cannot, is related to the above two points. 
• The key for me is that she is doing things because she enjoys them and they are things she wants to do.

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Some of Us are looking for a male sexual partner who is not into pegging, chastity, force bi, forced fem and doesn't need to be restrained in order to get off. Some of Us are looking for a male sexual partner who is a masochist and is sexually aggressive but able to take direction and do what We want because We like it that way.

If you can also fix the car, that'd be awesome, too.