Sissy in the making

A cross-legged photo of my soon to be sissy boy.  With pegs and writing on his chest.  He is such a pretty slut.

Written lines by my submissive: 12/5/12

Reinforcement lines written by my submissive and handed to me on 12/5/12 for leaving my side recently at my workplace.  I was extremely disappointed by his silliness, and so 50 lines were requested along with a scolding.  This was the second time he had  done this action.  He obviously forgot his submissiveness momentarily and panicked at being left alone when he was never alone.  He should have remained beside me like a good boy.  Anyway it is hoped he has learned his lesson, and if he hasn't, he will be strapped or caned severely.

Written Punishment Lines: 13/5/12

Lines written by my trainee and handed in on time:  20 lines of "Grooming and personal hygiene is important for me as part of my traineeship to Ms Neta"

Pretty boy (9428)

pretty boy - May 2012

Assignment completed by trainee: 6/5/12

Difference between a Submissive and a Slave

            There are a few key differences between a submissive and a slave. A submissive is usually not owned in the same way a slave is. A slave is considered more a piece of property then a submissive. A submissive has more choice then a slave in the activities they undertake for their Dominant. As well as very strict limits that the Dominant that they are submitting to must accept and respect. A slave on the other hand has very little choice in the activities they perform for their Dominant. A slave will, under most circumstances, live with their Dominant whereas a submissive would only visit their Dominant on a semi-regular basis like once a week, twice a month or whatever has been agreed on by both members of the relationship.

            A submissive has a very strong desire to serve and does so under very specific conditions and limits. A submissive only allows certain areas of his or her life to be controlled by the Dominant where as a slave has their whole life controlled by the Dominant to whom they are in service to. Another key difference between a submissive and slaves is that of the safe word. This is a word that once spoken by the submissive immediately ends either the activity or the whole scene depending on the way it has been arranged between the partners involved in the scene.

            To be a slave is to offer a much further level of submission to their Dominant. They offer themselves fully and without reservation to the service of their Dominant. This relationship is usually a very long term relationship, unlike that of a submissive and Dominant which may also be a long term relationship or maybe only last for the duration of one play session.

Reinforcement punishment 9/5/12

I have had to implement a punishment to my primary submissive.  Unfortunately he did something silly, and this is the second time.  The first time was a scolding and some face slapping when he left my side last year when I ready to introduce him to some Kinky folk. 

Yesterday at my workplace, I was called over by some work colleagues and my sub was there to look at doing some work for me.  Anyway, I was talking to these people and someone said is that the chap who will be looking at the aviary and I turned to say yes meet.... when I turned around, he had walked outside closing the door.  I was furious.  He did it again.

I brought him back in and introduced him to the people.  There was some discussion and then we departed.  I took my sub back to my office and told him off.  He, again, made excuses about thinking it was a personal discussion.  He is my submissive, he knows more personal things about me than anyone else.  I was not impressed.  A second time!

I have set him the following REINFORCEMENT writing punishment assignment:

50 lines by this Saturday.

In either kinky or vanilla situations, I must seek permission from Mistress Neta to leave her side

It just astounds me he did the same thing again in a different situation.  I am displeased!!


Ms Neta

Meeting of trainee: 1/5/12

I have taken on a new trainee as at 7/5/12.  This trainee submissive will be guided in protocols, positions, service in preparation for serving a future Dominant Female.

He is early 20s, overweight, loves dogs, intellectually smart, has submissive tendencies and very much needs to be trained, and loves this lifestyle.

We met on 1/5/12 and had a nice chat about my expectations.  He was nervous but answered my questions adequately and has agreed with my approach to training him.  Later, I dropped him off at the bus stop and unfortunately for me, his personal hygiene was not good.

I spoke to him that evening and promptly informed him he needs to keep himself clean and smelling nice at all times, and particularly when in my presence.  He was very apologetic.

This is my first priority to have him rectify his personal hygiene and grooming with gentle guidance.  He is a good boy, and I am impressed with the way he is receiving feedback and attending to my requests without petulance.

He has been set a task that is to be provided to me by the weekend on what is the difference between a submissive and slave.  I look forward to his perspective.

I will post regularly on his training progress.

FDCT Coffee Chat 5/5/12

On Saturday, 5th May 2012, the FDCT members got together for our bi-monthly coffee and chat.  The venue was excellent and private for us to chat Kink and Vanilla topics.  9 people turned up and it was a lovely crowd.

My trainee was present as my submissive was working.

I had my trainee groom for me so I inspected his face and he did pretty well although he missed a couple of hairs around the side of his face.  He wore a different colour T shirt which I asked him to.  He did not smell as much as he did last meeting.  The smell is like musty clothing - clothing that has not been allowed to dry properly.

Other than that, the service tasks I asked of him during our Coffee chat were attended to promptly.  A couple of the Mistresses were pleased with his efforts.

There was lots of talking, laughing and eating of food and consuming of coffees.  We all had a nice time and its so nice to see many of the same faces returning again and again.  Wonderful FDCT!!

Ms Neta

Reinforcement writing punishment

Last night, I set my trainee submissive a reinforcement punishment, as per the following:

Write me the following lines - handwritten - 20 times.  Take a photo of those lines and send them to me.

Grooming and personal hygiene is important for me as part of my traineeship to Ms Neta

This is the first stage of his training for his future service to a Dominant Female.  The reinforcement punishment is due Saturday.  I will post his handwritten assignment over the weekend.

It is importrant...

It is important for males who approach me to know that I don't do online because it bores me.  Real time is my interest.


It is important for males to know that when I request pics of them its because it amuses me not turns me on - its about control, the controlling of you.  Its that easy.


It is important for males who do want my attention to be aware that real time interaction is my one true interest in this BDSM Life.