How would or could a woman go about kidnapping a man without having to resort to having male helpers?
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Intimidation I think can play a big part of a female kidnapping a male. She could use a weapon in the most obvious setting to get him somewhere and keep him quiet. Once he's somewhere secure she could then tie him and he would be all hers.
Less obvious ways you could have a scenario where the couple pretend to be on a date. They could get in the car at the end of the 'date', with the woman driving and she offers to let him smell her new perfume. She soaks some of the new perfume on to a handkerchief and when he realises it's actually chloroform she could produce a weapon and force him to keep smelling. Then it's a continuation of what happened above she can use the weapon to get him out of the car and in to a more secure location.
I know it's difficult given that as fantasists - we strive for a degree of reality. But even when I am the kidnapper I know I would struggle to carry a dead weight and get it in to my car safely. The element of co-operation from the victim is going to be present in our games I think. I got mock kidnapped by an ex/gf outside Waterloo Station in London one time. Of course I knew what the game was, so when she pulled in to a car park and gagged me I was compliant. We ended up in lock up garage which was her 'lair' where she tied me and played with me.
I hope that helps!
I think my problem with both of those is that the weapon is a bit too risky as a man might still be inclined to struggle and since this is a real endeavour the woman is not going to want to stab him.
Again Chloroform is a very dangerous drug and not one I would feel comfortable employing, on the other hand there are safer sedatives which might work. (I realise of course none are without risk)
I a real threat (I.e pain, or damage to something sentimental, or blackmail, or monetary...)
Combined with some initial handicapping that the man could be tricked into (ie blind fold or handcuffs) sounds most feasible to me.
Certainly, if a woman I was playing with was holding a cattle prod for instance I would be more scared of that, as she could use that but I would never believe she would actually stab me.
Sorry, I realise chloroform for real is v.dangerous and I wouldn't advocate a real weapon as you say. There's got to be an element of pretend and playing along, so I have used a toy pistol or a handkerchief with some perfume or after shave on.
It's just a symbol at the end of the day that you have to comply with the kidnapper. I'm sure we would all love a danger free version of chloroform but that's not going to happen so we have to all come up with alternatives.
I like your trickery/blackmail idea, could be some fun to be had with that as a method.
When it comes to real life scenarios. It has usually been when a man kidnaps a woman, it will be a single male committing the act. There are even situations where a single male could capture more than one woman at once.
But when it is a woman capturing or kidnapping a male and then raping him, it is usually a group of women working together.
So in the fantasy play, it would probably play out in that way too.
Another situation that could work is when a woman is flirting with a man, the man will usually be off-guard not expecting aggressive or criminal behavior from a woman. So a woman could easily pull out a pair of handcuffs and slap them on his wrists. Most men wouldn't expect anything. Once he is immobilized he belongs to the woman and she can do whatever she wants. This would be especially true if there is a huge size difference. If a 6'8" football player is handcuffed by a little 4 foot tall cute young woman, he isn't going to have his guard up. Especially if she seems to be flirting.
I have a similar scenario that I play in my brain. A rather small young woman (or a tall young girl) is cornered in a room or even in a forest where she realizes she cannot run away from this big brute and the obvious bulge in his pants.
She decides to take the initiative and turn the tables by flirting and saying that she has to get into the mood slowly. She starts by slowing manoeuvering him against a tree or a wall then start to undo his trousers. At this point of course he figures he is as good as in. She drops his pants around his ankles. Now he cannot run after her should anything go wrong.
The head of his huge cock extends out the top of the elastic band on his BVDs and she says let me see how big it is. At the same time she puts her hand in his underwear and pushes down exposing his now totally erect soon to be useless weapon and pushes the elastic under his scrotum so that his balls are now pushed upward and outward making a purrrfect target.
At the same time she has put her hands under his armpits and on his shoulders pulling herself off he ground by up to 12 inches and hanging there. At the same time she now quickly lifts her tiny knee and plants it directly in his scrotum. A look of astonishment and fear quickly grips his pathetic brain as he realizes his predicament. She throws her weight forward to keep him from falling on top of her. In rapid succession she pulls herself up each time she raises her knee into the target, his huge balls. One, two, three she continues to lift and kick each time doubling the impact by pulling upward with her arms. His balls are hers!
In a fantasy with a degree or realism (somewhat like requiring a set of natural rules, in SciFi), barring superior weaponry or surprise, the usual situation would be that the woman is aided by other women or men. Is that not how gangs function? Now, for example, if a group of aggressive women picked off one man at a time, then they could divvy up the prizes later, after all of the captives are secured.
But also, I disagree that in any given pairing, the woman is naturally weaker, slower, smaller, or less skilled than the man, so that she could not overpower him. Statistically, yes, because men are ON AVERAGE bigger, stronger and/or faster, but many random individual pairings fall far from the norm of the combined distributions.
As already suggested above, she could handcuff him when the guys guard is down. A more interesting scenario (done to George on Seinfeld) would be that the woman would get the guy into her bedroom and then get him to agree to be handcuffed because it turns her on so much, THEN turn the tables on him after he's cuffed.
The other ways I'm thinking a woman could immobilize a man would be her dressed/acting as some kind of cop/agent and 'arrest' him, or use a stun gun/threaten to use a stun gun especially on his groin.
Because a woman by herself is usually not going to be as strong as the guy, there is the need for her to deceive/outsmart the guy to get him restrained. As a male sub that would make the game more exciting to me.
Whenever I'm writing up a femdom story, I like emphasizing the size differential. To me, there's something strangely erotic about a smaller woman taking down a larger man. I usually write non-consensual stories though, which means not only subduing the larger man, but keeping control of him. Getting the guy drunk and/or drugging his drink is how my female characters usually get control. Although I've also introduced a kick to the balls, a taser, or chloroform into some stories to overcome the male.
If trying to replicate in a roleplay with a consenting partner, how about this? You meet the woman at a bar and you're both drinking alot, but she's secretly substituting something else for alcohol so that she remains sober. Then when it comes time to leave, she tells you that you are in no condition to drive and offers to drive you home. On the way home she stops in a remote location she's chosen in advance, climbs over on top of you as if she's suddenly gotten the urge for sex, and starts pulling your shirt off. When your arms go back as you try to get them out of the sleeves, she leans into you (maybe with her breasts in your face for distraction), reaches around behind you (supposedly to help you get the shirt off) and quickly snaps cuffs on your elbows or wrists. And while you're still trying to make sense of what just happened, she slaps a piece of duct tape over your lips and pulls a hood (it doesn't have to be a leather or rubber bondage hood, but just a bag) over your head to restrict your senses.
At this point there are several ways this could go. She could just tighten down your seatbelt to keep you in the passenger seat (assuming you're not worried about running into the police on the way to your destination) or pull you out of the car and march you around to the trunk and shove you in. Your legs might still be free, but blinded by the hood and in a remote location, where are you going to run? And are you going to try anything when you don't know where your female tormenter is or what she is about to do. Is she behind you about to kick you behind the knees to bring you down? Or in front of you about to kick you in the balls? Does she have a knife? If so, what direction is she going to come at you from? Of course, since it's consensual roleplay, we're talking about an implied threat rather than actual violence. Knowing you're helpless to defend yourself, you climb into the trunk rather than resisting.
Then again, that remote location (i.e. a deserted warehouse) could be the destination and she could be leading you elsewhere instead of the trunk of the car. bwahahahahaha
Just thinking about it makes me drool. Being helpless and forced in the trunk then taken somewhere and raped by a woman.
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